Yintoni umanyano nomntu oqhelekileyo? Uyadibana, qala ukunxibelelana, emva koko ube sisibini, chitha ixesha ngokugqibeleleyo, utshatele uze emva koko uluhlu. Abafazi abaninzi, nangona bexoxa ngokuchaseneyo, cinga ngophuhliso olunjalo lobudlelwane obunemigangatho-apho ngaphandle kweziphumo zikawonke-wonke ngaphandle kweengcango kunye neengcango zekotoni zekotoni? Kodwa ubudlelwane kunye nabantu abangalunganga yintsimi yokwenyani yokuqeqesha amandla ayo okuphikisana ngokungafanelekanga. Inkanuko yesiphelo, impikiswano ikhula phakathi kwakho, i-spark ye-spark ikhuphe ngaphandle kwamehlo - ubuhle? Hayi! Siguqulela i-Psychology namhlanje, apho i-psychotherapist ye-psychotherapist ye-psychotheratist ichaza isizathu sokuba amantombazana afikelele kubafana ababi kwakhona.
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Nye. Guy . Indoda eguqukayo ukuphazamisa umthetho, ibonisa esidlangalaleni ukuba ayikhathalelanga imilinganiselo yentlalo. Icaphukisa ngokukhawuleza, inokuthukisa kwaye isoyikisa, yobonisa ubundlongondlongo. Ukukhanya komntu onjalo akulindelekanga, kodwa kunye nenxalenye yomfanekiso wakhe.
2. Iqondwe ngokungachanekanga . Lo ngumfana owophula yonke imilinganiselo yentlalo kwaye uyahamba ngendlela yayo, nokuba uyazishiya isiphithiphithi, iintlungu zengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ezimbi kwabo baqhubeka bamnyamekela. Ihlala ithe cwaka kwaye icinga, inabahlobo abancinci okanye akukho namnye kwaphela.
3. Umyeni wakho mhle . Kule ndoda unokufumana ukungakhathali okungathandekiyo, nto leyo kumnika umtsalane wenkwenkwe, kodwa wamnyanzela ukuba afumane iingxaki ngenxa yokwaphula umthetho omncinci okanye ungquzulwano nomphathi, ngaphandle kwenja yakhe.
ezine. Impumelelo ye-daffodil. Umntu oqinisekisa bonke abantu bavayo ukuba:
A. Alfa -ayi.
B. Ubutyebi obukhulu.
C: Ingcali kuzo zonke izinto, ngakumbi kwizemidlalo nabafazi.
Musa ukunqula indoda enjalo
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Izizathu ezihlanu ezibangela ukuba abantu banxulumana nabo
Nye. Impazamo yobudenge . "Le ndoda yayinomtsalane, inomtsalane kwaye inomdla, kwaye umthengi wam, ebona iimpawu ezintle kwaye engekazi malunga necala lakhe elimnyama, laabandakanyeke kwinoveli. Emva kokutyalomali ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokudala umbono oqinisekileyo kwindoda, kwakunzima kuye ukukholelwa ukuba iimpawu ezimbi zaziyinxalenye yendalo yakhe ephambili, "i-Psychologist ibhala.
Abafazi ngeli thuba zihlala zihleli kubudlelwane, kuba bakholelwa ukuba umntu uza kulungisa kwaye avuke iimpawu ezimbi. Bakulungele ukuzitshintsha, belungisa iqabane. Nangona wayenomdla kuye, umfazi oyakukholelwa ukuba imbali yabo inesiphelo esonwabisayo ngohlobo lomtshato, indlu enkulu kunye nemfumba yabantwana.
2. Umzamo wokuba yi-psychotherapist . Abanye abantu basetyhini bangengaqhelekanga kwi-psychotype yoMsindisi: bakulungele ukutsala indoda kuyo yonke into yokwenzakala kwakhe kwengqondo, iqinisekisa ukuba umdlalo uxabisa ikhandlela. Oku kuhlala kubangelwa yimfuno ebukhali yokuqwalaselwa komnqweno wokuzonwabisa ngokupheleleyo, esazi bonke ubuthathaka bayo. "Aba bafazi bajonga" bafana abambi "njengeedayimani kwifomu engabhaliswanga, efuna nje ipoliding ye-ediclinger yokuthoba iziphenguveli. Ngokukhawuleza xa kufezekisiwe, zonke iimpawu ezintle zomntu ziya kutshitshiswa, "ugqirha ubhala.
3. Bangazithembi . Aba bafazi bahlala beziimpazamo zendoda, kodwa bangabakhathaleli, bekholelwa ukuba kuya kuba nzima kubo ukufumana iqabane elingcono. Bazibuza ukuba abantu bafumana ngokwenene kwizinto ezinomdla ngaphandle kwezi ngxaki. Emva kwenoveli enye okanye ezimbini ezinamadoda anjalo, umfazi uyaqiniseka ngakumbi ukuba kuya kuba sisidenge ukuba uzabalazele imigangatho ephezulu kwiqabane lakhe ukuba nolwalamano. Ngokoluvo lwayo, umnqweno ophakamileyo uya kukhokelela kwiintlungu ezinganyanisekanga ngakumbi.
ezine. Uloyiko lokusondelelana . "Bakhetha abantu abangenakwenzeka ukuba benze ubudlelwane obuqolileyo ukuba benze imvakalelo ethile, kwaye babone imvakalelo ethile yokuthuthuzelwa kunye nokuthotyelwa kweemfuno zabo," amanqaku abo aphambili emntwini ombi. Inoveli enjalo ikhuselekile kubo, kuba abafazi bayazi kakuhle ukuba abayi kufumana ngaphezu kokutshintshwa. Ke unokuphumla kwaye ungacingi ukuba umntu uyakukukhokela phantsi kwesithsaba. Kuphela phantsi kweemeko ezinjalo, amanye amanenekazi alungele ukuziphethe ngokwemvelo kwaye ayonwabele loo mzuzu.
Ayikufanelanga ukubalwa kunxibelelwano olomeleleyo
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Ntlanu. I-neurotics . "Ubomi bubonakala busongela ... kwaye kwabanye, banikeza iimeko zabo, oku kuchanekile. Banomnqweno onamandla wokuba kunye nomntu onzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungahlangabene ubuso ngobuso nehlabathi, kunye nokuqhuba ukubetha kwakhona xa kufuneka. Amandla okumelana nam kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo azilunganga, iqabane lakho intombazana enjalo kwimeko yeengxaki iza kucinga ngentuthuzelo, hayi iimvakalelo zakhe. Amadoda anjalo agcwele ii-ergors. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba bengazithembi: Kungekudala intombazana iza kubona ukuba bazama ukumlawula.
Kunokuba nzima ukubaleka kulwalamano olunjalo. Ukufihlwa kwakhe, kodwa ukungaqiniseki okunzulu kubangela uvelwano kumfazi, nokuba nemfesane. Oku kudala isikhundla esinzima: Shiya umntu osemngciphekweni, uziva elahliwe. Nangona kunjalo, umfazi ofanelekileyo ozifumana kubudlelwane nomntu onjalo uya kwenza konke okusemandleni ukuphuma kubo.