Kukho imiqondiso ethembekileyo yokuba imvakalelo yokuba umntu esimthandayo uqala ukupholisa. Ukuya ngomhla, akusoloko kudala ukunxiba, kwaye akubi kakhulu. Ndigqiba kwelokuba ndihambe naye, khetha imovie-Apha awukwazi ukuthetha kwaye ungakhange ujongene. Ukuba umhla ucinyiwe ngokupheleleyo, akukukhathaza, uvuye ukuchitha ngokuhlwa kuphela. Sukucaphuka kakhulu, uyiphumezile kwindawo ethile ngeveki yonke.
Ukuba udiniwe ngulo mntu, isondo uyadinwa. Awufumani ukoneliseka kwangaphambili, kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu- awumxeleli ngayo, akuyimfuneko ngenxa yoko. Jika ulale. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukonwaba, kuya kufuneka uzikhethele iziselo ezingenamkhenkce.
Ngesizathu esithile saqala ukucacisa iingxoxo zakhe malunga nezicwangciso. Ukuba ukhetha ukungacingi ngento eza kwenzeka kwisiqingatha sonyaka, mhlawumbi sele ucwangcisile umsantsa? Kule meko, kunjalo, kungcono ukuba ucinge ngokuba kufanelekile ukuba ifanelekile kuyo yonke loo mntu. Zama ukuthatha ikhefu ubuncinci kangangenyanga kwaye ungahlangani. Ukuba ngeli xesha awukhumbulanga ngokulangazelela ngeentsuku zangaphambili, zenziwa kunye, oko kukuthi, isizathu sokuthetha ngokusahlula. Kuba i-gap iya kwenzeka kungekudala okanye kamva. Kwaye, ukuze singakhuli kunye omnye komnye, kungcono ukuba uthathe inyathelo lokuqala.