Eli phupha lathumela umfazi osanda kuqeqesho lokukhula komntu phantse unyaka. Ukulala kuyabhekiswa kwiqela. Ngeli xesha, waziva ukuba unokuxhomekeka kwabanye kwaye azirhangile ngokuvala, ukuthanda nangokuxhasa abantu bakhe ukuba basondele.
Ke: "Namhlanje ndiphupha iphupha. Ndiyazi ukuba ndihlala kwindlu enkulu, kwaye kule ndlu uhlala kule ndlu, nayo yonke igumbi lakho kunye neminyango engenazitshixo. Kwaye ke ndisegumbini lam, kunye nenxalenye yodonga lwenkunkuma enamagqabi amaplanga. Intaka ihleli kwilayini kwaye ifunde, ndiyaqonda ukuba uza kwenza nzulu ukucwangcisa indlwane. Kwangelo xesha, uNora uqalisa ukwenza ngqo phantsi kwentaka kwindawo yePlingos, kwaye xa kwaba ngaphezulu, kuya kuqala ukuma. Ndide ndiqalise ukubona inyoka kuyo, kodwa hayi, xa iMink iba ngaphezulu, emhlophe emhlophe (oko kuyamangalisa) itiger iphuma kuyo. Kwaye ngalo mzuzu ndibaleka ndibaleke ndikulumkise ngengozi enokubakho, ekubeni ngenxa yesizathu esithile ndigqibe kwelokuba i-tiger yam emhlophe kufuneka ibe yi-tiger encinci, emva koko ingabakho Ingozi! Nali iphupha. Kum, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ibonisa zonke iinkqubo zam zangaphakathi emva koqeqesho lwabazali. Ukulala kwachukumiseka kakhulu kangangokuba ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndabelana nawe, nangona kunjalo, andikwazi ukuzitolika yonke into. "
Ukulala kubonakala. Ngaphakathi kwiqela, nganye ingenazitshixo kunye neengcango, oko kukuthi, amaphupha ethu enkxaso-mali yentembeko yabo. Kwigumbi layo elinemiqathango, imimangaliso iqala ukwenzeka: Intaka ilungele ukugxeka indlwane, kwaye emva koko i-tigging emhlophe ivela kwindawo enzulu (leyo, umntwana) kuye. Ukulala kubonakalisa i-fantasy yamaphupha ngomntwana wakhe, kodwa uyabaleka ukuba ancede, eqonda ukuba ihlosi liza kuza nehlosi, kwaye iyingozi! Mhlawumbi, kubomi bamaphupha ukuba ube ngunina - kukuhendela ngakumbi kunokufumana iqabane. "I-tiger", oko kukuthi, utata onokubakho, intsebenziswano naye iseyingxaki, ingozi. I-snodicta iphazamisa kude. Mhlawumbi, le ngxabano iya kufuneka isonjululwe. Inokuba ngumama ngokubambisana, kodwa yona ithetha isoyikiso. Kwaye izizathu zoko kunokuba nobunzima: amava angaphumelelanga kubudlelwane bothando, uloyiko kunye nengqumbo. Kodwa ngalo lonke umthwalo kuya kufuneka wenze okuthile ukuba iqhawe lethu lifuna ukuzala umntwana. Kule, ufuna iqabane kunye nomzali.
Kuyabonakala ukuba, idrama iphela idlalwa ngaphakathi kwamaphupha ethu: umnqweno wokuba ngumama ukuba ungqubani nomnqweno wakhe wokukhusela amadoda, ngokungathi sisono. Kwaye lo mzekelo awuqhelekanga ngokupheleleyo. Ngomahluko omnye kuphela: uloyiko, ingqumbo kunye nomsindo kulula ukuba namava enkxaso, kwaye ungawedwa. Umkhwa wokuthintela iintlungu unokomelela xa umntu engenamntu oxhomekeke kuwo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abantu bayala ukuba bafumane amaphupha abo ebomini, kwakhona ukuba bangavavanye imbonakalo yeemvakalelo ezibuhlungu. Kodwa kwiqela apho "akukho zitshixo", abantu bahlala bengafihli into eyenzekayo kubo. Babelana ngenene, thetha ngokwabo, babelane ngeziqhamo zabo nabanye. Ke ngoko, kumaqela anjalo kube lula ukuba ufunde ukubeka esichengeni kwaye uye kumaphupha akho. Kuyabonakala ukuba, iphupha lethu lifumene inkxaso eyaneleyo kwaye ivakalelwa kukuba bekulungele ukuba ngumama. Ngoku unethuba ngalinye lamathuba okuhlangana nokudibana 'nolwalamano olubi "lwakhe oluneqabane kunye notata wabantwana bakhe bexesha elizayo.
Ngendlela, kukho imbali yezinye izizwe zakudala xa ibhinqa lagqiba kwelokuba libe ngumama, waya ehlathini kwaye waphulaphula iingoma zemithi. Phakathi kokuhleba kwamagqabi, waliva izwi lomntwana wakhe ozayo, owamxelelayo ukuba abonakala kwaye ngubani utata wakhe. Emva koko, umfazi wesiTsizwe wabuyela eluntwini, wamfumana le ndoda, wathi mababe nomntwana.
Intsomi enomdla nenobulumko, ngokungafaniyo neembono ezinzulu zomfazi akufuneki ukuba linyathelo. Kumxholo wokuzalwa kwabantwana, ngumfazi onokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ngubani kwaye xa eya kuba nabantwana.
Ke unqwenela ukunyamezela amaphupha ethu. Kwaye impumelelo isendleleni!
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin