I-Psychologlogy kwihlabathi lanamhlanje ikhunjulwa ngakumbi, kuba i-Psychology yisayensi ejolise ekufundeni nasekuphiliseni imiphefumlo yabantu. Kwaye umphefumlo wabantu abaninzi babuhlungu. Njengokuba kunjalo, wonke umntu uya konwaba kwaye anelisekile ngobomi babo ... kodwa, Abes, abonwabileyo ngokupheleleyo emhlabeni abakhulu.
Asazi ukuba sonwabe njani yonke imihla yobomi bethu, sijamelene neengxaki yonke imihla. Kwaye sihlala sifuna ukwabelana ngamava ethu nomntu, nokuba ngumhlobo, abazali, abasebenza nabo. Sijonge ngokungathandabuzekiyo abantu abathembela ukuba ngubani oya kuvelana okanye anike icebiso eliqinisekileyo. Ke kutheni ungafumani ngcebiso kumntu ongaphezulu komhlobo wakho osenyongweni, uyakuqonda izibuko le-psystry kunye nobudlelwane? Ewe, asikhathaleli uncedo kumhlobo okanye mama, xa sinemoto yeTurkey emotweni okanye ebamba intliziyo ?! Siya kwingcali kule ndawo.
Kusekho uluvo lokuba uncedo lwengqondo olufunekayo kuphela kumntu ogulayo "kwintloko iphela." Ngapha koko, abantu abanempilo kakhulu bafuna uncedo lwengqondo. Abantu abagulayo badinga ezinye iingcali. Xa umntu ekwimeko yokurhuqa kwaye engayiboni ukuphuma kwimeko yangoku, ngokwenene ufuna omnye umntu enze isisombululo kwingxaki, anikezele ukuphuma kwaye anike ithemba ngekamva eliqaqambileyo. Kwaye luluhlu lwezengqondo ngexesha elinzima lobomi lunokukunceda ukoyisa uxinzelelo, ukusinda ekwehla kakubi ngokweemvakalelo okanye kwingxaki ephakathi, uvusa ubudlelwane bosapho.
Ewe, ugqirha wezengqondo akazukunika iimpendulo ngokukhawuleza kwaye akazukukwenza izigqibo. Uya kuba nako ukunika inkxaso kwiimvakalelo, wasasaza imeko yakho kwiishelfu. Kwaye ukubona imeko phantsi kwekona eyahlukileyo, unokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo ngoncedo lwengqondo kwaye ubone isisombululo seengxaki zakho.
Ugqirha wezengqondo uza kunceda ukuyibona ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye itshintshe imeko yesiqhelo yezenzo zakho.
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Ungaqhagamshelana nengcali yengqondo nayo nayiphi na imeko kunye nengxaki "eyenza buhlungu" kwaye uthintele ubomi. Ingcali iya kuba nakho ukunceda ukuzisa i-odolo entloko, iphilise amanxeba okomoya nentliziyo. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, uya kuba ne-algorithm elungile kwaye ungayenza njani ukuba uye kwimeko yezixhobo kwaye uye kwisiphumo esifunekayo. Ngamnye wethu unikwe ilungelo kunye nethuba lokuzitshintsha ngokwakho kunye nobomi babo. Kodwa ngumsebenzi onzima kwaye onobuhlungu ofuna umsebenzi wemihla ngemihla, umnqweno omkhulu kunye nokunyamezela. Kuba indlela yokucinga nomkhwa wokuziphatha ovuthiweyo kunzima ukutshintsha, kodwa mhlawumbi.
Kwaye le yenye yemisebenzi yengqondo-ukuxhasa ingqalelo yakho kunye nobukho bakho kwimisebenzi emitsha. Kuyimfuneko ukuqonda into ebalulekileyo: Uya kuba neminyaka malunga noko kunokusonjululwa kwiiseshoni ezininzi kwingcali. Ndiyathandabuza ukuba umntu othile uneminyaka eyongezelelweyo yobomi. Ewe kunjalo, wonke umntu ugqiba kwelokuba, kufuneka usebenze kuye okanye hayi, ukuba ayenze ngokwakho okanye ngoncedo lwengqondo. Kodwa okungenani kube kanye ukusombulula ingxaki ngoncedo lwengqondo yokuqonda ukuba yintoni umahluko phakathi kweentombi kunye nomsebenzi wengcali. Ukuba ngoku usebomini beemeko ezibonakala ngokunganyangekiyo, okanye uhlala kwimeko efanayo, engazi ukuba ungabutshintsha njani ubomi bakho, zama ukutshintsha le meko ngengqondo.
Ndidibene nobomi bam ndinenani elikhulu lobunzima. Yaqhwabangelwa ngaphakathi ukuze kwangabikho mandla okunyela. Ndiziva ngathi bendisisidumbu. Kwaye bakhangeleka bemhle kwaye bade banamandla.
Enkosi kwi-psychology, ndanceda ekuphumeni komhadi, apho mna kwaye ndizicheba. Kwaye xa iphumile, ndabona abantu abaninzi abajikelezile, imeko eyayifana neyam. Ndicebise iminyaka emininzi, ndisebenza njengengcali yengqondo njengengcali ye-theta. Kodwa xa ndabona ukuba kwakuyimfuneko ukufumana indlela enokuthi incedise inani elikhulu labantu. Kuba owedwa ayisiyo inani elikhulu lezinto endinokunceda ngazo. Kwaye kutshanje ufumene ubuchule obuziyo ukupola nawuphi na umda wobomi. Kwinkqubo yokufunda, uqala ukuqonda ukuba iingcinga zethu ziyinyani. Ukukhuphela iingcinga ezithile entloko, sifezekisa amazwe athile. Kwaye la mazwe atsalela imicimbi ethile. Sitshintsha sicinga, sitshintsha ubomi.