Mhlawumbi eyona nto ingathandekiyo enokwenzeka kulo naluphi na ulwalamano-iresti. Rhoqo iqabane lingenasibindi lokuvuma, kwaye umntu othile wazisa i-hike "yasekhohlo".
Kwenzeka ukuba nokuba zibanjwe kwezopolitiko, abaqeqeshi abazazi ukuba basole. Siqokelele ezona zizathu zithandwa kakhulu ezingengawo abathembekileyo kakhulu.
Inyani yesondo, nangona ngaphandle kweemvakalelo, ithathelwa ingqalelo imfundiso
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"Andikwazanga ukwenza nantoni na"
Ingozi yenzekile, kodwa ukungcakaza akunakubangelwa njalo. Ungadidanisa izitshixo zekhanyamba, ukulibala ukucima i-iron, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha isiphoso. Ke ixhoba le-ntersees 'le' kufuneka lingakwazi ukuchaza ukuba imiphumo yezi mpazamo kuya kufuneka ihlawule ubudlelwane obukhulu obunobudlelwane, kodwa uninzi luphela ngekhefu.
"Ukunyamalala ngesondo kuphele ebomini bethu, kufuneka nditshintshe"
Kwaye oku kunokuvakala kwiqabane elinetyala. Ingqondo yomntu kukuba inani elithile leentsuku ngaphandle kwesondo kumnika inkululeko yokusebenza.
Ngakumbi, le meko yenzeka ngababini, apho ayikho isiko ukuxoxa ngeengxaki. Endaweni yokucombulula iingxaki eziqokelelweyo kwaye ususe ityala lengxoxo, elinye lamaqabane liqala ukufuna ukubamba kwelinye icala, ukuzama ukulibala ebhedini yomnye umntu.
Imo enxilayo ayinakuqinisekiswa
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"Besizakuyinxalenye"
Ewe, xa ubudlelwane busemgangathweni wokuqhekeka, imvakalelo yokuba lilolo igubungela intloko. Ubukho beqabane alonwabanga, kwaye sele ungakhululekanga ukuba kunye.
Ukuzama ukungasebenzisi inxeba lomphefumlo ngomsantsa, iqabane ligcina ubudlelwane, kodwa ngaxeshanye lukhangela omnye umntu. Kodwa le nto kukuba xa amaqabane efunda ngomvavanyo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba lula kuye, ke ukungcatsha akuyi kuba sisizathu sobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo. Ukuba awukwazi ukulandela kulo mntu, qhekeza, ke awuyi kuthuthuzela yena.
"Besisenxila"
Ukunxila kotywala akunakuba sisizathu sokuziphatha okonakalisa abanye, isiqingatha sakho sesibini kunye nawe. Khumbula ukuba zonke izigqibo zakho zithathwe phantsi kwempembelelo yotywala ziya kuba nemiphumo yoko, i-hit, kuyafana nakwezo ntlobo zenza iqabane lakho ukuba lingazixoleli.
Ukuba uceba inxenye, yenza kwangoko
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"Kodwa andimthandi"
Imeko yesondo kanye kuba yenzekile. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba uziva njani umntu othathe isigqibo sokuba ngubani na onokungcatsha khona. Okwalo mzuzu wawutsalwa, ungavumeli amandla alowomeleleyo, ohlangabezana neqabane rhoqo, ayikuthethise isenzo sakho. I-Hing "Ekhohlo" ayifuni i-serenade phantsi kwefestile.