Amaphupha asixelela ukuba singcono kunathi. Abanye banokuxela nantoni na: ukuba sizithembile, sinomtsalane, sizingisileyo, sithi sicinga ukuba sicinga, sikunzima ukusiphazamisa. Abanye, ngokuchasene noko, bakujongele phantsi ezabo izibonelelo, bathi baqhelekileyo, abakwazi, bakhawuleze kwaye bahlanganile.
Zonke ezi ngxelo malunga kwethu zihlala zixhomekeke kwinto esiyivayo kwidilesi yakho kwabanye okanye esifuna ukujonga emehlweni abanye. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, kuphela, kuphela, kuphela, ubonakalisa umfanekiso onyanisekileyo, njengoko iphupha lingaxinelanga ukuba nolwalamano lwethu kunye nokuziphatha kwethu njengemeko yokuvuka.
Lo mthetho jikelele kumadoda nakubafazi. Namhlanje sijonga iphupha lomnye wabafundi bethu.
Ufunda amaphupha akhe ngakumbi nangenzulu, njengoko isebenzisa umthambo wamaphupha anolwazi. Ngendlela, phantse wonke umntu unokufunda. Inyani yile yokuba kwiphupha ngalinye lethu linokuqikelela ukuba yintoni ebonwa kuphela ukukhohlisa. Uninzi nje okwangoku vuka, kodwa ukuba uqhubeka nokujonga okwenzekayo ephupheni, unokwenza izinto ezizodwa. Umzekelo, tshintsha iinkolelo kunye neenkolelo ezininzi ezisithintela ekuphileni iminyaka.
Ungayifunda le nto usebenzisa incwadi kaStephen Laberza "amaphupha angaphandle".
Nangona kunjalo, ngoku masiye kubuthongo segorha lethu:
"Ndiphuphe izindlu ezitshabalalisayo, izitrato, yonke into yayiyinto yonke i-boutofin kwaye ingeyonto ingeyonto, endikrokrelayo ukuba iphupha ngayo. Ndigqibe kwelokuba eli liphupha, ndiza kufumana into engeyiyo. Ndatyhala ngaphandle emhlabeni ndaphuma. Inqwelo moya yayimangalisa, nangona ekuqaleni iindiza zazingathi ngumdlalo wekhompyuter omdala: ngokuthe nkqo okanye ngokuthe nkqo, ngaphandle kwencopho, imigca egudileyo kunye nezinye izinto. Emva kwexesha ndaba senzeka, ndaqala ukufika, ndandichulumancisa nje. Ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ibhabhe, ngoku ungabelana ngesondo kwaye uqonde izimvo zakho. Njengoku-oda, ndadibana nentombazana entle, sathatha umhlala phantsi, kodwa ngequbuliso kwaba nzima, ndaziva ndisisiyatha, ndaqala ukuba neentloni. Le ntombazana ayiqhumanga ngomnqweno. Ndacinga ukuba eli liphupha, apho ndinokuphakama ndinobunzima, ndingazisusa ngomzuzwana, kodwa nditsho kwiphupha kunzima ukwenza into ngehlazo noloyiko olunxulunyaniswa nezesondo. Ndivuke kule nto. "
Umzekelo onomdla! Ewe kunjalo, akaqhelekanga kuba amaphupha akhe awakha iphupha lakhe, eqala ngexesha lendiza. Unokutsho, waphelisa ubuthongo bakhe, bayiguqulela ngokungazi nto kwesakhiwo esilawulwayo.
Kungenxa yenyani yokuba sifunda ukuphatha ulwazi lwakho olungaqondakaliyo, iinkqubo kunye nezenzo, kuya kuba lula kuthi ukuba senze ubomi bethu njengoko sifuna ukuba sibe semngciphekweni weemeko ezinamachaphaza. Kunye neyona moulator elungileyo yale liphupha.
Ngoku buyela kuloo nxalenye yokulala, apho iqhawe lididekile into yokuba liphupha, ngelo xesha kufuneka abe nentswela-sini, kodwa kwangaxeshanye udidekile kwaye aneentloni.
Uninzi lwethu, abafazi nabantu ababhinqileyo babonakalisiwe kwiminyaka yokuqala, kwaye emva koko bathi ukuba isini singcolile, asivumelekanga. Ngamnye kuthi wethu waphumelela ngokufunda kwakhe malunga nokuba semthethweni.
Ukuba uzijonga, unokufumana yonke i-doubon yenkolelo etshabalalisayo malunga nawe kunye neqabane olithathayo ebhedini. Umntu othile uya kuqhwatyelwa kakhulu, njengoko ayonelanga ukuba neentloni ngomzimba wakho, umntu ungenalo inkanuko kunye nomlilo kubudlelwane kunye neqabane, umntu othile usoyika ukuba anobuthathaka kwaye umntu ofihla isondo akwanelanga.
Ngokwazi kwethu, zininzi iinkumbulo ezibuhlungu xa saliwe okanye sihlekisa. Kwaye okukhona buhlungu kakhulu eli ziva, umfundi olibalekayo "ulityelwe." Kodwa uqhubeka nokuphila kwaye usisukele ebomini.
Ngokulala, ungasinda ngendlela entsha, njengoko, umzekelo, ndizamile ukwenza amaphupha ethu, kodwa yafumana iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu zezithintelo kunye nokoyika.
Ukulala kuya kwenza umsebenzi wakhe, ngokwaphula ngokuzithandela unokuzinceda, umzekelo, ukuthetha ngoloyiko neqabane lakhe. Ukubhengeza iimvakalelo, njengomgaqo, kuyayeka ukutshutshisa. Kukho ithuba ngoku kwimeko yoloyiko kunye nokungathandeki kuya kuba mncinci kakhulu, kunye nendawo engakumbi yentenuko.
Kwaye lithini iphupha lakho ngoku? Thumela amabali akho kwiposi: [email protected].
UMaria Zmvuskova, ugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango losapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqesho loQeqesho loQeqeshe leMarika Khazina