Isondo ngosuku lokuqala: "Isiphumo soBomvu oBomvu"
Wonke umntu ngaphandle kokuphuma, amadoda afuna isini ngomhla wokuqala, kwaye ayiyiyo nayiphi na ukuba uye naphi na apho ... Ke uninzi lwabasetyhini luqwalasela amava obuqu. Kodwa ngaba kunjalo? Ewe, ebomini kukho "i-gocho emnandi", ethe yaqala ukwala abantu basetyhini kwintlanganiso yokuqala, yayingenalo nexesha lokuphumeza idayisi. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabantu abasebenza ngaphambi kwexesha lwamadoda lukhuni ... amabhinqa ngokwabo.
Oku kubizwa ngokuba "yimpembelelo ebomvu". Njengesiza se-fale ye-fale edumileyo kaCharles Perro, abafazi bakhawuleza bangena kwihlathi elimnyama kwi-sexs, nokuba bakrokrela ukuba balinde iingcuka ezingwevu ezimpunga. Ukuvuselela kwabasetyhini kunokuqalisa "ukuqalisa iingcambu" kwimbalelwano - xa intombazana ngokwakhe ayiqondi, intembelo yesondo:
- "Uyazi, kudala siye sahlukana nesangaphambili, sele ndinonyaka onamandla omeleleyo unyaka ngoku";
- "Unenqaku elihle elihle, elibonakalayo-ndifuna ukuchukumisa";
- "Kukuthini ukuba singaqhelanga ngaphambili, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo siyakubamba."
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Amabinzana afanayo Umfazi anganeli ukuba abuyele kumhla wokuqala, i-wirl nje, izama ukungakhange ujonge umlindi nokufuna ukuba yindoda. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda aqhele ukuba nonke ethabathayo, ukuze baqonde ukuba banomtsalane kwaye batyibilika i-tytayili ngetyhubhu njengezibongozo ngqo kwisondo. Emva kwexesha, i "" ilahlekisiwe "ngoyena mhlobo ulungileyo kwinto yokuba" akazange abuye emva "kwaye" onke amadoda afanayo. " Kodwa indlela yokudlala enesiphelo spimimomition ngendlela yesini ngosuku lokuqala ejika umfazi ukuya kwindebe. Ukuba nexesha lokukhulisa kwihlabathi langaphakathi langaphakathi, yena, enenxaxheba enokwenzeka, akafuni intlanganiso entsha- injongo yomhlaba ifinyeziwe, kwaye lixesha lokuba uqhubeke.
Kwangelo xesha, ukusilela kwe "Pred Cap" ukusuka ngesondo ngosuku lokuqala kunokuncokola kwisiphelo esifileyo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, wakhanya ngokuhlwa, kwaye ekugqibeleni wayethuka kwaye ecaphukile. "
Ungayibhalisa njani kwimeko yangoku? Ungayifumana njani indoda, uthanda ntoni, ngaphandle kokufumana into yesondo? Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuyeka ukuqokelelwa kweengcinga zakho kufutshane nesihloko. Ngapha koko, njengoko uyazi, iingcinga zizinto. Ukuba ibhinqa lixhalabile kakhulu xa imeko isondeleyo nendoda ifanele yenzeke malunga nomhla, ngokungagungqiyo "kubandakanya indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kwezesondo.
Ungadlula njani isihloko sesabelana ngesondo ngomhla wokuqala kwaye uyeke icebiso le-sub kwindoda enesini sento oye wadibana nayo namhlanje? Okokuqala, phumla kwaye ubeke iingcinga zakho, zama ukuyiguqula kule nto uyifunayo ebomini. Cinga ngomtshato owonwabisayo, i-picnics, ukuhamba, ukuzonwabisa okuthandwayo ... Ewe, malunga nokuba ngubani ofuna ukuba ngubani kwaye ubonakale ubomi bakho bexesha elizayo. Impendulo yamadoda ayiyi kulinda ukuba ilinde-uya "kuvuza" kuwe, kodwa sele enoluvo olwahlukileyo-nzulu kwaye unzulu.
Phumla kwaye ubeke iingcinga zakho, zama ukuyiguqula kule nto uyifunayo ebomini
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"Ungaphola" i-gusts yamadoda angaphambi kwexesha
Kubomi bomfazi ngamnye, imihla yokuqala yenzeka, indoda imbiza ngesondo, nokuba awumyeka phantsi kwesi sihloko. Oku kuziphatha akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ujike ngokukhawuleza kwaye ubeke umnyango. Funda "ukutshintshela" indoda usebenzisa ubuchwephesha bomsebenzi:
1. Siya kuhlekisa.
2. Sizisa incoko yengqondo.
3. Yakha imida.
Ihamba eHung
Ukuhlekisa kunye ne-Wild kuya kukunceda ukutshintshela kwindoda enomxholo wokwazisa ngokoqobo ukuba uya kuyilibala enye imfutshane "icinyiwe inkanuko" yakho. Zama ukuba i-jokes yakho ivakala ayifihlakali kwaye yeyasekuqaleni. Ngaphambi kokudibana nendoda, lungisa amaqhulo oluninzi kwangaphambili ukuba ungakrokrela ngomhla wokuqala ukuba kukho imfuneko.
Sizisa incoko yengqondo
Ukunganyanzeli ukuba le ndoda iphakamisa isabelana ngesondo, ukuguqulela incoko kwindiza yengqondo. Ngokukodwa kakuhle kuya kusebenza izihloko apho ubani ukhethiweyo ugxile khona. Thetha neenkqubo malunga nematriki kunye neekhowudi, kunye nogqirha-kwimisebenzi enobuchule kunye nezinto ezifezekisiweyo kwicandelo lezamayeza. Kubalulekile ukuba ubuncinci ubenezimisele kakhulu kumxholo wencoko, ngaphambi kokuba umntu okokuqala ndincomeze imixholo yengqondo enokubangela umdla kwisatellite yakho. Ukuba ngenye intsingiselo akuyi kubakho nto yokuxelela, mbuze umbuzo malunga nengxoxo. Incoko yokuqonda ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokungagungqiyo itshintshe indoda, ikuvumela ukuba uphume kumxholo obuthandekayo wesini.
Yakha imida
Ngobume babo, abantu boyiswa. Bahlala befuna ukufumana "isiqhamo esalelweyo", kubonakala kungafikeleleki. Isakhiwo somgca ofanelekileyo sithetha ukuba awunyanzeli i-veto kwisihloko sesondo, kodwa akakakulungeli ukuthetha ngayo, ngakumbi - ukwenza. Ukuba, ngomhla wokuqala, umntu uza kuzama ukuqala incoko, eneentloni kakhulu amehlo kunye ne-parry: "Esi sisihloko esinomdla kakhulu, kwaye ndingathetha ngayo ... umhla wesibhozo."
Ukuzonwabisa, ukungabizi-varity kunye nemfihlakalo "kubandakanya" umntu ovela kwikota ye-turnover. Ukubandezeleka okulula kuya kubangela umdla kuyo, kwaye umhla wesibhozo uyakulinda. Kwangelo xesha, uya kuba nakho ukufumana ngokwaneleyo ukuba uqonde: ayinamdla kuphela kwisiqalekiso sakhe sesondo.
Ndingathini?
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Ndingathini?
Ukuba isini sokuqala senzeka kwangoko, indoda iyakuqonda ukuba akukho nto ininzi yokuloyisa, kunye namagqabi ...
Ukuba umzuzu wesini wokuqala ulibazisekile, le ndoda inokuthi 'ityhile "ilindwa, emva koko iya kutshabalala ...
Ufika nini ke, ixesha elifanelekileyo? Kumbandela wokuqala ukusondela okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba umntu alindelwe ixesha elide. Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni we-teicy steak-ukuba uyifumane, indoda imele ilinde ukulungela kwakhe. Lixesha lokulinda, hayi inkqubo yokutya isidlo, yeyona intle kuye. Isondo lakho lokuqala kufuneka likholelwe kakhulu ukuba umntu ulinde ukuphefumla. "Ukulungisa isitya," landela le mithetho iphambili:
"Musani ukuma." Ukulinda ngokugqithileyo ukuya kwiinyanga, okanye iminyaka, ihlala ibangela ukuba udinwe yindoda, kwaye uyamka ngaphandle kokulinda "isitya esikhulu."
Masibe nethemba. Indoda kufuneka iqonde ukuba ekugqibeleni uya kuyifumana "impahla."
Yiba ngcono kuye. Ukuvulwa yonke imihla kwindoda esuka kwelinye icala, ngaloo ndlela kubangela ukungcungcutheka.