Ukuzalwa komntwana kuguqula ubomi bosapho lonke, kwaye le ndoda ifumana imincili ngakumbi kunomama. Kwaye inokuqondwa: amava anjalo kunzima ukuthelekisa nenye into, ke esithi, ukuze ilinde ukuba ibe lilindile abathathu kubo, akunakuba yindoda enye engomnye. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba yintoni eyona nto ixhalabisayo ooyise rhoqo.
Uloyiko lokutshintsha
Mayibe yindoda kwaye inkxaso ephambili yomfazi entsatsheni, kodwa akukho mntu wathi akanakukwazi ukusilela kwaye ukungaqiniseki. Indoda iyakuqonda ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba ubomi abuyi kufana, kwaye utshintsho luhlala lusoyika, ngakumbi ukuba konke kulungiselelwe ngaphambi koko. Ukongeza, izalamane kunye nabahlobo abasele unabo abantwana basikhumbuza ngoku ukuba ngoku inkululeko, njengangaphambili, ukuba ingakuboni, lixesha lokuba ulungiselele ukungalali ebusuku. Ithemba lokuthandabuza umntu ayongezi. Zama ukuqinisekisa iqabane ukuba ubona ukungaqiniseki kwakhe. Kukhumbuza ukuba nikunye kwaye uhlala uyixhasa, ngakumbi kumzuzu onzima.
Nceda abantu obathandayo ukuba basebenzise unxibelelwano
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Uloyiko lokuphulukana nonxibelelwano nomfazi wakho
Kwindoda ekudala ifuna ukufumana indawo yomfazi obe ngumfazi wakhe, ukuhlasela komntu wesithathu, nokuba ngumntwana wemvelo, umzuzu omkhulu. Njengoko besitshoyo, indoda ayinanto yokuthelekisa amava kawonke-wonke, ukuba wayengenabantwana ngaphambi koko, wayeqhele ukukhusela amanye amanye amadoda, awayeqhele ukumangaliswa, ngendlela awayehlala ngayo emva umntwana. Ingqwalaselo yabasetyhini kangangexesha elithile ithathelwa ingqalelo ngumntwana, kuba ukukhathalela umntwana kufuna ukubuya ngokupheleleyo. Kubalulekile apha ukutsala indoda ukuba inyamekele ukhathalelo, ukuze angaziva engowasemzini kwintsapho yakhe, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe wafumana ilungu elitsha losapho.
Uloyiko lokuba uthando alunakuvela
Ukuba umfazi unenzuzo ngohlobo lweenyanga ezili-9 zokudibana ngokukhawuleza nomntwana, indoda kufuneka ihlangane nonyana okanye intombi yakhe emva kokuzalwa. Ngokwemvelo, le ndoda inzima ngakumbi kwaye ngenxa yokuba akukho nyani, njengomfazi, awunayo, oko kuthetha kakhulu kwiinyanga zokuqala zokunxibelelana nelungu elitsha losapho. Umama oselula ubalulekile ukuba angawuyekeli unxibelelwano lwendoda enomntwana, kuba kuphela uqhagamshelo olufanelekileyo luzalwe.