Chii chinonzi mubatanidzwa nemurume akajairika? Iwe unosangana, tanga kutaurirana, wobva wava vaviri, shandisa nguva yakakwana, roora uye ipapo pane rondedzero. Vakadzi vazhinji, kunyange vachipokana vakapesana, vanofunga nezvekukura kwakadaro kwehukama hunonetesa - uko pasina ruzivo rwevanhu kunze kwemakakatanwa nemitambo yemitambo? Asi hukama hwevakadzi vakashata inzvimbo chaiyo yekudzidzisa kugona kwayo kupokana zvisina kukodzera. Mamota anofarira, kushushikana kuri kukura pakati pako, zvinyoronyoro zvinonyatsobuda kunze kwemaziso - runako? Kwete! Isu tinodudzira zvinhu zve psychology nhasi, apo iyo Mhuri Yemhuri Psychotherapist Sango Tallie Inotsanangura kuti nei vasikana vachienda kune vakashata vakomana zvekare.
Vakomana vakaipa - ndiani
Poshi. Kutonhorera mukomana . Iye murume anoramba achivhiringidza Mutemo, achiratidza pachena kuti haana hanya nezvemagariro. Akakurumidza kutsamwiswa, anogona kutuka nekutyisidzira, ratidza hutsinye. Kupenya kwenzvimbo yakadaro hakufungidziriki, asiwo vanongova chikamu chemufananidzo wake.
2. Zvisizvo zvinonzwisisika . Uyu murume anotyora zvishamiso zvese zvemagariro uye anoenda nenzira yake, kunyangwe akabvisira iye nyonganiso, kurwadziwa kwepfungwa uye nemanzwiro akaipa kune avo vanoramba vachimutarisira. Gara wakanyarara uye uchifunga, iye ane shamwari shoma kana kusisina shamwari zvachose.
3. Mudiki zvachose . Mumurume uyu unogona kuwana chisikwa chisina kusimba, icho chinomumanikidza kugara zvakanaka, asiwo kumumanikidza kuti agare achiwana matambudziko nekuda kwekutyora kudiki kwemutemo kana kupokana nemubhebhi, shamwari uye pedyo neangu munhu, kunze kweimbwa yake.
ina. Rakabudirira DafFodil. Munhu anovimbisa munhu wese mukati mekunzwa kuti iye:
A. Alfa-murume.
B. zvakakura zvakapfuma.
C: nyanzvi muzvinhu zvese, kunyanya mumitambo uye vakadzi.
Usanamata murume akadaro
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Zvikonzero zvishanu nei vakadzi vanobatana navo
Poshi. Kukanganisa kwebenzi . "Murume aive akanaka, anokwezva uye anoteerera, uye mutengi wangu, achiona hunhu hwakanaka uye asati asvikidzwazve nedunhu rake rerima, rakazoita basa racho. Mushure mekutara kwepamoyo uye kugadzira kutarisa kwakanaka kwazvo pamurume, zvakamuomera kuti atende kuti zvakaipa zvakaipa zvaive chikamu chezvinhu zvake chikuru, "psychologist anonyora.
Vakadzi panguva ino vanowanzoramba vari muukama, nekuti vanotenda kuti munhu anozogadzirisa uye omutsa hunhu hwakaipa. Vakagadzirira kuzvichinga ivo, vachichinja kune mumwe wako. Pasinei nekukwirira kwakaipa kwaari, mukadzi anotenda kuti nhoroondo yavo ine mugumo unofadza muchimiro chemuchato, imba huru uye murwi wevana.
2. Kuyedza kuve psychotherapist . Vamwe vakadzi vanongwarira psychotype yeMuponesi: Vakagadzirira kudhonza murume kubva mukukuvara kwake kwepfungwa, kuvimbisa kuti mutambo wakakodzera kenduru. Izvi zvinowanzoitika nekuda kwekuda kukuru kwekutarisa pane iyo shungu yekuda kufadza zvizere munhu, achiziva kushaya simba kwayo kwese. "Vakadzi ava vanofunga" vakomana vakaipa "semadhaimani mune isina kurapwa fomu, iyo inongoda kupukutira esimba kupururudza mipheti isina kufanana. Pangangoitika, zvese zvinoshamisa hunhu hwemunhu huchachinja, "murapi anonyora.
3. Ivo Vanoshaya Chivimbo . Vakadzi ava vanowanzoziva nezvekukanganisa kwemurume, asi vachiregeredza, vachitenda kuti zvichava zvakaomera kuti vawane mumwe wako zviri nani. Ivo vari kushamisika kana vanhu vanonyatsovawana mune zvinonakidza zvinhu pasina zvipingamupinyi izvi. Mushure meimwe kana maviri mavara nevarume vakadaro, mukadzi anova anotonyanya kuve akagutsikana kuti zvingave mapenzi kuti udzivise zviyero zvepamusoro zvemumwe wake waanotarisira kuva neukama. Mukufunga kwake, chishuwo chokumusoro-soro chinozotungamira mukurwadziwa kwemwoyo wose.
ina. Kutya kwehukama . "Vanosarudza nehana varume vasingabvumirwe kuumba hukama hwomuviri, uye kuona kumwe kunzwa kwekunyaradza uye nekuteerera nezvavanoda," zvinyorwa zvehunyanzvi muhukama nemurume akaipa. Noveli akadaro yakachengeteka kwavari, sezvo vakadzi vanonyatsoziva kuti havazogamuchire zvinopfuura muupenzi. Saka iwe unogona kuzorora uye usafunge kuti murume achakutungamira pasi pekorona. Chete mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, vamwe vakadzi vakagadzirira kuzvibata uye vanonakidzwa nenguva yacho.
Izvo hazvina kukodzera kuverenga pane yakasimba kubatana
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shanu. Neurotics . "Hupenyu hunoratidzika kutyisidzira ... uye kune vamwe, zvakapihwa mamiriro avo, uku kufunga kwakarurama. Ivo vane chishuwo chakasimba chekuve nemumwe munhu akaomarara zvakakwana kusangana kumeso nenyika, uye kutyaira kurova kana kuri madikanwa. " Iko kugona kuzvimiririra uye zvaunofarira hazvina kushata, mumwe wemusikana akadaro chero nematambudziko anozofunga nezve nyaradzo yavo, uye kwete manzwiro ake. Varume vakadaro vazere. Uye zvese nekuti chokwadi ivo havana chivimbo: munguva pfupi musikana anoona kuti vari kuedza kumudzora.
Zvingave zvakaoma kutiza kubva kuhukama hwakadaro. Akavanda, asi kusagadzikana kwakadzika kunoratidza kunzwira tsitsi mumukadzi, kunyange netsitsi. Izvi zvinogadzira nzvimbo yakaoma: Siya munhu ari panjodzi, anonzwa akasiyiwa. Nekudaro, mukadzi akakwana anozviona ari muhukama nemurume akadaro achaita zvese zvinobvira kuti abve navo.