Rutivi rwepabonde runyatsoita pane zvese maitiro zvinoitika muhupenyu hwedu. Semutemo, watanga hupenyu hwepabonde muhudiki hwepakutanga, uye isu tinozvara simba kwazvo mumakore edu, izvo zvinowanzo kuurayiwa, ndedzipi dzinoshanda munzvimbo yekutanga pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Nekudaro, munguva dzakasiyana dzehupenyu hwedu, zviitiko zvinogona kuitika izvo zvinokanganisa kunaka uye nhamba yebonde. Nomuzvarirwo, shanduko dzakadaro dzinosanganiswa nadzo physiology yedu haigone kukanganisa psyche. Kurega kuri kunyanya kukanganisa kwakanyanya - nokuzvidira kana kumanikidzwa. Kune Nhau Dzakanaka: Hakuna munhu akafa kubva pakureba kureba, asi nguva yepfungwa inogona kuomarara, nekuti chishuvo chakashungurudzika chinokonzeresa kushushikana uye zvishoma nezvishoma zvine nzira yerudzi.
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Maererano nezvidzidzo zveAmerican Sociologist, makore ekupedzisira akaunza hupenyu hwakawanda, ane makore ekuzvarwa, achiwedzera varwere vepfungwa vanowana varwere vepedyo vanotendeukira padambudziko rehupenyu hwepabonde, mamiriro acho anowedzera nguva yacho Kuziva uye shamwari kune nguva yekuuya kuzoroora / kuroora kechipiri, uye murwere pachake achiri kutsvaga hafu yechipiri, iyo yaanoda kupa "chinhu chinonyanya kukosha".
Nyanzvi ine chivimbo - zvisinei nekuti munhu akakwana anozvifunga, haaite seyakaenzana nemukuru wenguva yakareba anogona kuzunza kunyange psyche yakasimba, nekuda kwekunetseka zvakanyanya nekudzvinyirirwa kweruzhinji uye nekuedza zvachose kuzvienzanisa neyavo pedyo nharaunda. Mukuwedzera, mutsika yemazuva ano, gare gare kupinda pabonde kuri kuita chimwe chinhu chisina kujairika, kunyangwe zvakadaro vanhu vakadaro mumakore aya makumi maviri muzana mimwe miviri yakatanga kutsvaga vateveri vepabonde muchikoro chesekondari.
Kurega kurega kusanonoka
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Rimwe mhedzisiro yekubvisirwa kwekuzvidira inogona kuve kuderedzwa kwebonde uye kukwezva: Munhu ari kushungurudza nepfungwa yekuti haafariri bonde, kuisirwa kwakakura kunogona kukanganisa libido uye mune ramangwana munhu anotanga kuwana matambudziko ne Kunakidzwa, kana munhu achiri kuwanikwa munzira yake yaungavaka hukama hwepedyo hwepedyo. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, pasina sexologist, hazviiti nguva dzose.
Chero zvazvingaitika, kana kushaya hupenyu hwepabonde kunounza iwe chete zviitiko, chinova chikonzero chekubata nhungariro, zvikasadaro zvichave zvakaoma kuti iwe ugone kuwirirana nemubatanidzwa wemudiwa. Usabvumire mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kana simba rako rebonde risingazombobuda.