Abakobwa boroheje batera kuryoha mu bagabo, ahateganye na Pawulo abashaka kuzenguruka umukobwa nkuwo witaye kandi aririnda ibibazo, ariko niba umuntu ubwe afite isoni, ibintu biratandukanye rwose. Umugabo utoroshye kwerekana gahunda ntabigizemo uruhare mu bijyanye n'imibanire kandi akenshi watangije ni uwatangije. Ariko, ibi ntibisobanura ko umugabo ufite isoni akeneye kwandikwa: umufatanyabikorwa wiyoroshya ashoboye rwose ibyiyumvo byimbitse kandi, nkuko bisanzwe, yitangira igice cye, ugomba gusa kumenya kubigeraho.
Nigute washyiraho imibonano?
Ikintu cyingenzi ntabwo ari ugutera uwo mugabo, kandi niba wowe wenyine umukobwa ukomeye, guhagarika umucumbazi-umuntu biroroshye kuruta byoroshye. Mubisanzwe, abasore bafite isoni barambuye kubagore bafite imico yubuyobozi, nko kubaka umubano aho abafatanyabikorwa bombi badahuye, noneho birashimishije. Kandi, abagabo bumvira bahitamo abagore bagoye kugenzura ibirundo by'ishyari, niyo mpamvu umuntu unywa utazashaka ibintu mu ruhande - amahitamo meza.
Rero, amategeko nyamukuru yo gutumanaho numusore wunvikana:
Umugabo nk'uwo uzengurutse
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Nta tone ityaye
Niba utangiye guhura, intego yawe nyamukuru nukugira icyo ugeraho, gerageza rero wirinde notch yuzuye kandi imbaraga mu ijwi ryanjye: Umugabo arasoza gusa kandi ashobora gutangira kukwirinda. Kandi urakeneye gukingurwa rwose.
Ntukishime hejuru yacyo
Wibuke ko ntamuntu wavutse ufite isoni, amakosa yose mubihe bimwe na bimwe mubihe byashize, bityo ushinyagurira imyitwarire cyangwa umusore ugaragara urashobora gutuma umugabo ahindura ibitekerezo kuri wewe, kandi ntibikwiye kubara kubaka umubano. Humura.
Umuhe "guhumeka"
Abakobwa, bakunda kuyobora kandi bagumana ikiganza kuri pulse, barashobora gusa "kuniga" ubwitonzi bwabo ninyota kugirango bamenye aho hamwe nigihe cyabafatanyabikorwa. Umugabo ntabwo ari umutungo wawe, agomba kugira uburenganzira bwo guhitamo uko ashaka kumarana umwanya - hamwe nawe cyangwa inshuti.
Umuhe amahirwe
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Ntugire ubumwe cyane
Nibyo, abagabo bashimishije bavugana ninsanganyamatsiko yimbitse, ariko byose biterwa numuntu runaka. Niba uzi ko inyenyeri zawe ziroroshye kwitiranya, ntukeneye kuyishyira mumwanya mubi, niba ushaka kubikora, ubikore witonze kandi rwose ntabwo ari imbere yabatose - ntakintu kibi nko gushira a Umuntu wiyoroshya mu mwanya utajegajega mu bantu.