Niba abagore bamenyereye kuganira nibibazo bitoroshye muri sosiyete isangiwe, hanyuma bamenye impamvu yo guhindura imyumvire yumuntu bigoye. Dutandukanye kumarangamutima ntabwo ari ugushyigikira umubano, kandi nyamara umugabo aragoye cyane kongera kubaka, kandi niba ari ngombwa? Birakwiriye rwose kwiga kumva umukunzi wawe, kandi niba witonze bishoboka, noneho urashobora kubona ngo "guhamagara", byerekana ko hari ibibazo mubusabane, ariko mwembi birinda ikiganiro kigoye. Tuzavuga uko imyitwarire yumukunzi wawe igomba kuba maso.
Aragerageza kudahamagara kandi ntatwa kwandika nta mpamvu
Mu ntangiriro yumubano, mugihe utangiye kumenyana, umuntu arashobora gushikama ndetse no kwinjira, ariko bisaba igihe, kandi umwanya urashobora kuza hano mugihe umugabo atangiye kugenda. Nubwo waba usanzwe ubanaho igihe kirekire, urashobora kubona ko umubare wihamagarwa nubutumwa wagabanutse. Guhangayikishwa bigomba gutangira niba bibaye mu buryo butunguranye. Abagabo, nk'ubutegetsi, bakeneye igihe cyo gufata icyemezo cyo gufata ibyemezo runaka, gake cyane bazakora ikintu ubwacyo. Imyitwarire nkiyi irashobora kuvuga ko mumibanire yawe mugihe runaka hari ibibazo cyangwa ibura ryangiza amarangamutima yawe. Witondere kuri iki gihe hanyuma ugerageze gutekereza kubintu byose bibaho hagati yawe muriki gihe.
Itegereze uko imyitwarire ya mugenzi wawe yahindutse
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Umugabo wawe agerageza kumarana nawe igihe gito gishoboka.
Kubagabo beza murukundo, hafi yumubiri ni ngombwa bidasanzwe, kandi ntituvuga imibonano mpuzabitsina, ahubwo turimo guhura buri gihe mugihe umaze umwanya. Shiraho gukoraho no gusomana nigice cyingenzi cyimibanire yizera. Iyo umuntu ahanganye ikintu cyangwa atangira kuvugurura imyifatire ye, atangira kwimuka mbere yose kurwego rwumubiri. Wigeze ubona imyitwarire nkiyi yawe?
Umugabo arashaka impamvu yo kumara umwanya utari kumwe
Mu mibanire myiza, abafatanyabikorwa bombi bagomba guhora basanga umwanya wabo kugirango batatakaza umwirondoro mubandi. Ariko, kugerageza burundu kwirinda societe yawe muri wikendi nibiruhuko bigomba kukumenyesha - kuki umufasha ashaka kumara umwanya mubindisosiyete, nubwo ari bene wabo? Kandi na none, tureba uburyo ibintu byahindutse cyane, nkuko umuntu yitwaye mbere. Niba impinduka zikaze cyane, imyitwarire nkiyi irashobora kuvuga ko muri sosiyete yawe umuntu atamerewe neza. Igikorwa cyawe nukumenya impamvu.