Benshi muritwe kuva mubana bumvise ko umuryango udashobora kubaho byimazeyo iyo nta bana bahari mu bashakanye. Ariko, ntabwo buri gihe arimpamvu yo kubura abana ni ukudashaka kuba bombi. Bibaho ko umwana adahinduka kubwimpamvu nyinshi, inyinshi murizo zikiri ubuvuzi. Nubwo bimeze bityo, byibura umugabo n'umugore umwe, badakurwa no kubura abana mubuzima bwabo mubuzima bwabo, birashoboka ko bazabona ibidukikije.
Niba utarashobora kwakira ishyingiranwa nta mwana, tuzagerageza kugufasha kubona uburimbane.
Abana ntibatanga umubano mwiza
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Niki gikwiye gutekereza niba ubana hamwe numufatanyabikorwa
Imyumvire ishyingiranywe itagira abana ntizishobora - ntabwo ifite impamvu muri societe ya none. Tekereza ku kuba hari ubundi buryo, kurugero, wowe numugabo wawe bazakiza urubyiruko umubiri numwuka kuruta igihe wabaye ababyeyi benshi, kuko ubuzima bufite umwana - burigihe bushimangira, ufite Inshingano nini kubuzima bwumuryango mushya.
Hariho verisiyo nkiyi: umugabo mubukwe butagira umwana arashobora gusiga umugore we byoroshye. Ahari, ntakintu kimubuza gukora ibi imbere yumwana. Fata umuntu, premenenev, ntishobora gutsinda.
Mugihe ubanye, kora mubusabane muri couple, gusa muriki kibazo ntubangamira icyuho, nubwo abana batagaragara.
Ni ibihe bibazo by'imitekerereze bishobora kuvuka?
Kenshi na kenshi, abashakanye batarya bahuye no kutumva neza abavandimwe n'inshuti batangira gutanga inama no kwicuza "birababaje". Ntakintu kibi mugihe ibidukikije bidashobora kandi, cyane cyane, ntibishaka kukwumva. Mu bihe nk'ibi, abafatanyabikorwa umwe cyangwa bombi batangira guhura na pscholologiya ikomeye: hashobora kubaho ibibazo no kwihesha agaciro, kwiheba, indwara za mu mutwe, bishobora gukemurwa gusa hamwe na psychologue gusa.
Niba wahuye nanone umuryango wa divertillary, utangira kwambuka imipaka kugiti cyawe, witonze, ariko ushikame usobanure ko udashimishije mugihe uyibangamiye, niba ukeneye inama, uzavugana nabo. Nkingingo, ubu buryo burakora kandi amaherezo uzasigara wenyine kugirango ubashe kwibanda kubyo ushaka gukora.
Gerageza gushyigikira umufatanyabikorwa
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Nigute wakomeza gushyira mu gaciro mu muryango?
Ikintu cyiza ushobora gukorera mugenzi wawe nugutanga inkunga no gukundana. Ugomba gushimangira amarangamutima, aho kwimuka. Gerageza guhagarara gato kubibazo bifitanye isano no kubura umwana mubuzima bwawe, kandi wishimire undi, mubindi magambo - ubeho ubuzima bwuzuye.