Imibonano mpuzabitsina icyarimwe ibaye ibintu bisanzwe mumyaka itanu ishize: Noneho ntamuntu numwe uzatanga ibitekerezo kuri mugenzi wawe, uwo mwahuye ejo, ariko muri iki gitondo namaze gutandukana neza. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, bamwe baracyari maso kugirango bahitemo ubushakashatsi nk'ubwo n'umugabo utamenyereye. Tuzagufasha gufata umwanzuro mwiza, kandi tukatanga inama kubasanzwe bategura amayeri yigihe gito mugihe cya vuba.
Nta mibonano mpuzabitsina ikabije
Birumvikana ko imibonano mpuzabitsina numuntu mushya ntabwo bivuze ko ari imbogamizi, cyane cyane niba wemeranyijeho inama imwe gusa, kandi ntukagire ubuhanga bubabaza cyangwa ibintu bigoye hamwe numuntu ubona bwa mbere. Nta cyemeza ko umufatanyabikorwa mushya ari umukunzi w'umuhanga ushobora kwemeza umutekano w'ikigeragezo.
Koresha porogaramu
Ntabwo usanga bar, ariko ntabwo no kurwanya amateraniro magara? Ntabwo ari ngombwa gukwirakwiza binyuze wenyine hanyuma ugategereza "igikomangoma" kuri konti ya Bar, koresha porogaramu zidasanzwe ko amafaranga adasanzwe yagaragaye. Ikintu nyamukuru nukureba neza ibyo witeze hamwe numufatanyabikorwa mushya.
Hamagara tagisi wenyine
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Shakisha amateraniro nta mpagarara
Umugore "afata" umugabo ku kabari ahita abona ko mubihe byinshi bishobora kuba abafatanyabikorwa. Humura, amaherezo, nubwo utabona umufasha nimugoroba, uzarara nimugoroba, cyane cyane niba atari wenyine, ariko ufite inshuti. "Inyamanswa" isura ikurura gusa itsinda ntirikenewe kandi rwose ntirizakurura umuntu wiyubashye.
Tegura byose "ku nkombe"
Dufate ko wamenyereye umuntu ushimishije, ujya guhamagara tagisi n'urugendo, kandi bigaragara ko uwo mugabo akabamo atari yo yonyine, kandi imigambi ye irimo. Mu buryo butunguranye. Umugore mugufi muri ibi bihe biragoye kuvuga "oya", ariko ntashaka undi mugore cyangwa umugabo muburiri. Erekana gukomera, shyira ibintu kandi ntutemeke ko utazazana neza.
Ninde wajya?
Mu "cyari" uzumva ufite ikizere, ndetse ugatanga ibitekerezo mugihe hari ikintu cyoroshye. Ariko rero, tegurwa ko umukunzi uhora afatwa nawe, uzakurwa murugo. Niba udakeneye guhungabana nyuma, jya kuriyo, ariko mugitondo wita tagisi kugirango utazamurika aderesi yawe.
Ntiwibagirwe kurindwa
Birashoboka ingingo nkuru. Urabona umuntu bwa mbere uzi iyi bagiteri "gutungurwa" azagusiga nyuma yijoro ryurukundo. Nubwo ukoresha uburyo bwo kuboneza umwanda, menya neza kugura agakingirizo, nkuko virusi n'indwara bitabyibutswa neza kumugoroba ushimishije.