"Mwana, ariko ntabwo ari coumeriru!" - Amarira mumaso ye, umubyeyi wakurikiye kuri tereviziyo Sirem kubyerekeye umubano wumuryango ureba umwana wabo wimyaka 30. Kandi nubwo mubuzima bwa Mamyenkiy ya Mamyenkiy, abakobwa bagerageza kuzunguruka uruhande, nyamara hamwe na sebukwe ya buri wese muri bo vuba cyangwa nyuma ugomba guhura. Nubwo umugabo aramutse adushyigikiye mu rugamba rw'igikwiriye kubona icyizere cya nyina, we ubwe arashobora kwigira igihome kidashoboka. Ariko, kurwanya soviets yacu, nta nyigisho, ntazahagarara - agomba kugukunda nk'umukobwa kavukire.
Amabwiriza yerekeye impuhwe
Nta kibi kiri muri kamere y'abantu - abantu bose bahinduka nkibintu byinshi bya Peripetiyasi. Ntugomba gucira urubanza ingeso nimyitwarire yumuntu kuri wewe, kugeza nawe ubwe akubwiye amateka ye. Ingeso yo kuzigama ibicuruzwa cyangwa kuzimya ahantu hose, urumuri rushobora kuvuga na gato ku byerekeye ubusambanyi bwa Senale, ahubwo ni ukubura umugore ukomeye mu bwana no kubura amafaranga mu muryango we. Vugana numugabo umugabo iyo ari mu bihe byiza: Niba uyu mugore yashoboye kurera umuntu nk'uwo ukwiye, nkumugabo wawe, rwose afite icyo asangira nawe. Rimwe na rimwe, abantu bakomeza skeleti mu kagereza, ibyo bibafungura, igitekerezo cya aba bantu kirimo guhindura dogere 180.
Shaka guhobera
Abantu bumva bamerewe neza mugihe bashizweho mumatsinda, hamwe no gushimangira kenshi kugirango uhuze - inyungu zisa. N'ubwo urubyiruko, urashobora kandi gukunda kudoda hamwe n'umusaraba cyangwa gukura ingemwe cyangwa nyirabukwe, mu buryo, bizaharanira urubyiruko - jya ku bakobwa b'abakobwa kandi bazenguruka isi. Ntidushobora kumenya uwo nyirayo wa umugabo wawe numugabo wawe, ahubwo tuyizeze neza ko abantu batandukanye cyane mubyerekezo byinshi hari abantu benshi bahuriza hamwe. Sangira uburambe bwawe, tanga ubufasha - ibi byose biragutera ubwoba.
Ntugacire urubanza umuntu kugeza umenye amateka ye
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Tubwire ibyiyumvo byawe
Akenshi, abantu ntibumva ingaruka zikoreshwa muburyo buzengurutse inama zabo zidajanjaguwe. Abantu bafite imyaka afite imyaka ni igitekerezo cy'umupaka ku giti cyabo, nk'uko ubwabo bazarerewe mu miryango, aho na bo ubwabo byategekwaga kugeza igihe abakobwa bashyingirwa bagasubira mu maboko y'umugabo we. Ntabwo bitangaje kuba imbere ya nyoko utabanje kubusa kandi ni gahunda yumubano, nyina wa Musha akomoka gusa ko adashobora guhungabanya ubuzima bwe no kuba abantu bawe bazagira. Ngwino icyayi cye kandi ureba ijisho kuvuga ibyakubabaje: ntuzamure ijwi, ntukagushinje kandi ntukishyire mu cyitegererezo. Tubwire ko ushimira icyifuzo cye cyo gufasha, ariko ushaka kubaka ubuzima bwawe wenyine kandi wigire kumakosa yawe. Sangira ko ukunda umuhungu we kandi ushaka bibiri kuri wewe ibyiza gusa, ariko inama ziva kuruhande gusa. Twibwira ko azagusobanukirwa kandi azagerageza kubuzwa.
Intambwe Ndi intambwe
Mugushiraho umubano uwo ariwo wose, uruhare rwose ni ngombwa. Kora intambwe yambere igana guhura urebe niba ubwitonzi buzakurikira kuruhande rwa nyirabukwe. Niba udakora bwa mbere, gerageza ibindi bibiri, ariko kunshuro ya gatatu urekuye ibitutsi byose no kugabanya itumanaho byibuze. Ntabwo utegetswe kubaka undi muntu kugirango amushimishe. Baho neza numuryango wanjye kandi ugerageza gusenya imbuto zawe. Nyizera, uyu muntu numara kumenya ubupfu bwibikorwa bye, ariko, imyifatire yawe ntizasubizwa. Ikintu nyamukuru nukwitwara neza kandi ntumanuke gutaka no gutukana.