Guhindura
Ku nama iyo ari yo yose ugomba kwitegura. Kandi ntabwo tuvuze gusa kumenya ingingo yo kuganira, tuyumva, ariko no kwiyumvisha abantu bahanganye nawe. Dufate ibyo interlocuter isanzwe, ni izihe nyungu ze n'ibyo ukunda. Birashoboka ko (we) ari ibikomoka ku bimera, kandi niba intsinzi yawe bwite iterwa niyi nama, nibyiza ko utambara uruhu, ibintu by'ubwoya, birashobora kuba bibi kubabaza, kandi amahirwe masa birashoboka ko azaguhindukirira. Niba uzi ko umuntu akunda injangwe / imbwa / inyoni / kamere, urashobora guhitamo icyapa gikwiye, ingingo yimitako. Uburakari burakomeye ntibushobora gushima ijosi ryimbitse cyangwa ijipo ndende, amabara meza mumyenda, gutoranya cyangwa imiterere idasanzwe na orpor yinama yinama irabyemerera. Uku kwakirwa muburyo bworoshye (ubwenge bwambere ") kugirango dukunda. Kandi hano biragenda neza mu buryo bukurikira.
Gukonja
Hano usanzwe uzi icyo umuntu asa nuwo muhura nawe, uziko amabara yambara nuburyohe imyenda ihitamo. Niba umuntu afite ibara ryabanjirije palette, silhouettes ahitamo ahita agaragara. Urashobora gusuzuma umurongo isura yubatswe, kandi, ukoresheje ubumenyi bwawe bwose, wambaye hafi yimyambarire yabanyamiye. Azabona ishusho isanzwe (nyuma ya byose, niba atari byo, abona kenshi mu ndorerwamo?) Birumvikana ko uburyohe bwawe butagira icyo buzashima. Kandi tekereza ko uri mu itsinda rimwe.
Ariko, hariho ibihe byo kwizera. Nigute?
Nagiye mu nama ebyiri, bagombaga kubakurikiraho, ariko abantu duhura baratandukanye rwose.
Uwa mbere ni umugore ukuze, umuyobozi, logique, kubintu byose bifite uburyo bwubucuruzi, harebwa Pragmatike kubintu. Yambaye kuri nkuyu umugore uhagaze kurwego rwe: Mu magambo ahinnye, rwose, kumugaragaro, ntakintu kirenze. Ibiranga nyamukuru ni byiza, byiza. Kubwamahirwe, ndashobora "kwigana" mubitekerezo bye kubyerekeye isi, kugumana umwihariko wanjye.
Iya kabiri ni umukobwa muto, bitandukanye nibisobanuro byambere. Birenze, byoroshye kuzamura, gufungura. Ati: "Kugaragara" by'iyi nama byerekana "kuruhuka" silhouettes (yegeranye gato cyangwa kubuntu), kubabara neza kandi bitandukanye.
Hanyuma ndahagarara. Nari mfite ikibazo: Nigute ushobora guhuza inyuguti ebyiri ziyi nama hanze, kugirango naha kandi, kandi ngaho narebye ibijyanye kandi nkurikije imiterere. Igisubizo kuri njye cyakinguwe na we.
Niba nshaka kubaka umubano wubunyangamugayo na buri mugore bombi, ngomba rero kuba inyangamugayo ubwanjye, bityo - kubwibyo - no kugaragariza imyenda, kandi ntugerageze gushimisha, nka, tekereza. Nyuma ya byose, niba uburyo bwanjye bwukuri butemewe kuri umwe muribo, noneho birashoboka ko utagomba gushyiraho ubucuruzi cyangwa umubano wawe bwite? Kandi iri ni ibanga rya gatatu rizafasha niba ridakurikizwa mugihe runaka, cyangwa uburyo bwa mbere cyangwa ubu buryo bwa kabiri.
Iyi ngingo ndimo kwandika mukiruhuko hagati yiyi nama nyinshi, uwambere yagiye hamwe na bang, reka turebe ibizaba ku isegonda.
Karina Efimova,
Impuguke zo gushiraho imyenda idasanzwe yumugore