Twese tuzi ko abagabo n'abagore batandukanye rwose kandi akenshi ntibivuguruzanya kubyo baremwe. Nta mirimo imwe ya psychololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololologs yitangiye gutandukanya hasi, ariko kuza gusobanukirwa byuzuye ntabwo arimwe mubaburanyi. Uyu munsi twahisemo gusezerera ibintu bishimishije byerekeye abagabo bagenewe kugufasha kureba mugenzi wawe munsi yinguni itandukanye.
Abagabo ni ngombwa
Rimwe na rimwe bibaho kugirango twice mumuntu icyifuzo cyo kudushima no kwishimira kumugaragaro. Wibuke ko aribwo wakunze kuvuga ati: "Uri mwiza cyane!", Uramusubiza uti: "Fata, ibitagira ubwenge." Ni ngombwa kumva ko umugabo ari ingenzi cyane kumyitwarire yumufatanyabikorwa mubikorwa byayo - niba utabonye ko ari ngombwa gushima ishimwe kuri aderesi yawe, kuki umuntu wawe ashishikajwe nibi? Nyuma yo gushima cyane nkibi bitsinzwe, arashobora gutakaza inyungu kugirango akureho muri ubu buryo. Birumvikana ko, buri mugore atari kwishima cyane impano n'amagambo meza, ariko ntakibazo na kimwe kigomba gutesha agaciro umuntu byose byavuzwe.
Umugabo akunda abagore badatinya kuvuga ku ngingo iyo ari yo yose
Ikiganiro ntabwo kiri mu rugero - imico iteye ubwoba, ariko, ubushobozi bwo gutera inkunga n'ingenzi ni ugutangira ikiganiro - umuntu azishima rwose. Nk'uko amategeko, ubanza, umugabo na mugenzi we barareba gusa, bityo ababuranyi bagomba gukora kumufatanyabikorwa kugirango badafite ikibazo. Abagabo bakurikiza, biragoye gukomeza ibiganiro birebire, niko umugore afashe uruhare rwa "Gutangira", barimo kwishongora: bareka guhura n'ikibazo kiri muri sosiyete.
Ntugatererane ishimwe ryayo kuri aderesi yawe.
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Umugabo ntabwo buri gihe azi ubwoko bw'umugore akeneye
Mubisanzwe, niba umugabo yitirirwa ibintu bikunze mu bagore, igorofa rinini rifite aho rirengera gusa n'ibimenyetso byo hanze, kandi akenshi birashobora guhinduka cyane - kandi ni gake mugihe umuntu ahitamo imperuka, reka tuvuge ko blondes. Byose bijyanye numugore ufatika: ntashobora guhura rwose numugore mubitekerezo bye, ariko azabona gukurura ibintu bidasanzwe. Niba ushaka kumenya ibyifuzo byabashobora gufatanya, ntubaze, nibyiza kumwitegereza.
Testosterone ntabwo ituma umugabo arushaho kuba umurego
Nibyo, mwisi yisi, abagabo bafite urwego rwo hasi rwa testosterone akenshi birengagiza abatsinzwe murwana ku bagore no kubahisha, mwisi yabantu hari ibintu bitandukanye. "Umuntu" w'abantu akeneye urwego rwo hejuru rwa Testosterone niba hari ibibazo by libido. Nubwo abagore, iki kintu gihangayikishije murwego rwubuforomo. Gukabya kw'abagabo biterwa cyane n'imico ya kamere mu guteranya imisemburo, bityo "guta" inshingano z'imyitwarire ikaze gusa kuri testosterone imwe rwose ntabwo bikwiye.
Ingano yimisatsi kumubiri yumugabo ntabwo ivuga kubushobozi bwe muburiri
Kurugero, fata Aziya - imibiri yabo yambuwe umusatsi munini, ariko mugihe kimwe abafatanyabikorwa binubira ababana mu burakari. Byongeye kandi, ufite umusatsi, ariko birababaje umuntu, ariko biragoye umuntu azavuga ko umusaza azata kubintu bito mugihe cyubuzima bwimbitse.
Abagabo bafite ibibazo bikabije
Byemezwa ko abagore bakorerwa umutwaro munini wa psychologiya kubera ibintu bya psyche. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze barihutira kuhakana iyi nyigisho - abagabo bababazwa cyane. Abagabo, nk'ubutegetsi, batanga ibyiringiro byinshi, kandi icyifuzo kigukunze kuri bo hejuru, kikaba kiri munsi, umuntu ntashobora gukomeza gutuza kandi akaba adashobora gutuza kandi ahora mu bihe byonyine mu muryango. Umugabo mukuru arahinduka, impungenge zikomeye zigira ingaruka mumitekerereze ye, ishobora kuganisha kumico ikomeye yo mumutwe.
Indunduro izamugeraho
Ariko gusa ntukarye iri jambo imbere ye - ntukeneye kudutera ubwoba mbere yigihe. Nibyo, kandi inzira ubwayo ntabwo ari nkuko mubagore. Ku bijyanye n'abagabo, Kliwaks ahindukira muri Androphaus: Testosterone arahinduka muto kandi make, kwibuka ari bibi, ubuzima burasa, cyangwa buhagarara na gato. Nyamara, uburyo bwubuvuzi bugezweho burashobora gufasha gushyigikira ubuzima bwimbitse byibuze nyuma yimyaka 10-15 nyuma yo kuvugurura hormonal ikomeye.