Imitekerereze yo mu isi ya none iri ibukwa, kuko psychologiya ari siyansi igamije kwiga no gukiza imitima y'abantu. N'ubugingo muri benshi muritwe burababara. Nkuko byari bimeze, abantu bose bari kwishima kandi banyurwa nubuzima bwabo ... Ariko, ishyano, abantu bishimye rwose kwisi ntabwo ari byinshi.
Ntabwo tuzi kwishimira buri munsi mubuzima bwacu, duhura nibibazo buri munsi. Kandi buri gihe dukeneye gusangira umuntu ibyatubayeho, byaba inshuti, ababyeyi bakorana. Turashaka byimazeyo abantu bizera kugirira impuhwe cyangwa bakaguha inama zihagaze. Noneho kuki utabona inama kumuntu urenze inshuti yawe magara, yumve neza imitekerereze yumutima nubusabane? Nibyiza, ntabwo dusaba ubufasha inshuti cyangwa mama, mugihe dufite moteri ya turkey mumodoka cyangwa dufata umutima ?! Tujya mu kantu muri kariya gace.
Haracyari igitekerezo ko ubufasha bwa psychologue bukenewe gusa kumuntu urwaye "kumutwe wose." Mubyukuri, abantu bafite ubuzima bwiza rwose bakeneye ubufasha bwa psychologiya. Abantu barwaye bakeneye abandi bahanga. Iyo umuntu ari mubihe bikomeye kandi ntabona gusohoka mubihe byubu, arashaka rwose ko undi akemura ikibazo cyikibazo, yatumye gusohoka ngo asohoke kandi aha ibyiringiro by'ejo hazaza heza. Kandi ni umuhanga mu bya psychologue mugihe kigoye cyubuzima birashobora gufasha gutsinda imihangayiko, kurokoka kugabanuka kumarangamutima cyangwa ibibazo byo hagati, kuzura umubano wumuryango.
Nibyo, umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze ntazaguha ibisubizo byihuse kandi ntazagufata ibyemezo. Azashobora gutanga inkunga y'amarangamutima, ikwirakwiza ibintu byawe ku bubiko. Kandi urebe ibintu munsi yinguni itandukanye, urashobora gufata umwanzuro ukwiye ubifashijwemo numutego wa psychologue ukareba igisubizo cyibibazo byawe.
Umuhanga mu by'imitekeloji izafasha kubona ibintu ukundi no guhindura ibintu bisanzwe byibikorwa byawe.
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Urashobora kuvugana na psychologue mubihe byose nikibazo "kibabaza" kandi kibuza ubuzima. Umwuga uzashobora gufasha kuzana gahunda mumutwe, gukiza ibikomere byumwuka no kumutima. Kandi icy'ingenzi, uzagira algorithm yiteguye nuburyo bwo gukora kugirango usohoke mubikorwa hanyuma uze kubisubizo byifuzwa. Buri wese muri twe ahabwa uburenganzira n'amahirwe yo kwihindura wowe ubwawe n'ubuzima bwabo. Ariko ni akazi gakomeye kandi gakomeye bisaba akazi ka buri munsi, icyifuzo kinini no kwihangana. Kuberako uburyo bwo gutekereza hamwe nimboso yimyitwarire biragoye guhinduka, ariko birashoboka.
Kandi ibi ni ikindi gikorwa cyumuganga - kugirango ugushyigikire ibitekerezo byawe kandi ukubaho mubikorwa bishya. Birakenewe gusobanukirwa nikintu cyingenzi: Uzagira imyaka kubyashoboraga gukemurwa kumasomo menshi ava mubigize umwuga. Ndashidikanya ko umuntu afite imyaka yinyongera yubuzima. Birumvikana ko abantu bose bahisemo wenyine, bikeneye gukora wenyine cyangwa kutabikora, kubikora wenyine cyangwa ubufasha bwa psychologue. Ariko byibuze rimwe kugirango ukemure ikibazo runaka mubufasha bwa psychologue kugirango wumve itandukaniro riri hagati yabakobwa nabakunzi. Niba ufite ubu mubuzima bwibibazo bisa nkibidacogora, cyangwa ubaho mubintu bimwe, utazi guhindura ubuzima bwawe, gerageza guhindura ibi bintu, gerageza guhindura ibi bintu, gerageza guhindura ibi bintu, gerageza guhindura iki kintu hamwe na psychologue.
Nahuye kandi mubuzima bwanjye numubare munini wingorane. Yamugaye imbere kugirango nubwo nta imbaraga zari amarira. Yumva ko ndi umurambo. Kandi hanze yasaga neza ndetse afite imbaraga.
Ndashimira psychologiya, nafashije kuva mu rwobo, aho njye na njye no kunyeganyeza. Kandi iyo imaze, mbona abantu benshi hafi yanjye, leta yari isa n'iyanjye. Nagishije inama imyaka myinshi, nkora nka psychologue nkumwuga wa Theta. Ariko namaze kubona ko ari ngombwa kubona tekinike ishobora gufasha icyarimwe kubantu benshi. Kuberako wenyine ntabwo ari umubare munini wabantu nshobora gufasha. Hanyuma uherutse kubona tekinike ishoboye gutandukanya ubuzima ubwo aribwo bwose. Muburyo bwo kwiga, utangira kumva ko ibitekerezo byacu aribyo biba impamo. Kuraho ibitekerezo bimwe mumutwe, tugera kubihugu bimwe. Kandi ibi bihugu bikurura ibyabaye. Turahindura imitekerereze, guhindura ubuzima.