Birashoboka ko ikintu kidashimishije gishobora kubaho mubucuti ubwo aribwo bwose - ubuhemu. Akenshi umufasha abura ubutwari bwo kwatura, kandi umuntu agaragaza ngo "ibumoso".
Bibaho ko no gufatwa na politiki, abakoresha ntibazi ko nyirabayazana. Twakusanyije urwitwazo rukunzwe cyane rutari abafatanyabikorwa bizerwa cyane.
Ukuri kwimibonano mpuzabitsina, ndetse nta byiyumvo, bifatwa nk'ubuhemu
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"Nta kintu nashoboraga kugirana nanjye"
Impanuka iraba, ariko ubuhemu ntibushobora kwitirirwa ibyo. Urashobora kwitiranya urufunguzo rwihuta, kugirango wibagirwe kuzimya icyuma, ariko ntibishoboka guhindura ikosa. Uwahohotewe rero "akeneye" agomba kumvikana kugirango asobanure ko kubera ingaruka zamakosa nkaya zigomba gutanga ibisobanuro bikomeye mumibanire, ariko akenshi birangirana nibiruhuko.
"Umubonano wazimiye mubuzima bwacu, ngomba guhinduka"
Kandi ibi birashobora kumvikana kubafatanyabikorwa baremewe. Logique yumuntu nuko iminsi runaka itagira igitsina imuha ubwisanzure bwuzuye.
Kenshi na kenshi, iki kibazo kibaho muri babiri, aho kidafatika kuganira kubibazo. Aho gukemura ibibazo byegeranijwe no gukuraho icyaha ibiganiro, umwe mubafatanyabikorwa atangira gushaka ibintu kuruhande, agerageza kwibagirwa uburiri bw'undi.
leta yasinze ntishobora gutsindishirizwa
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"Turacyari mugomba gutandukana"
Nibyo, iyo umubano uri hafi yo guturika, kumva ufite irungu ritwikiriye umutwe. Kuba hari umufatanyabikorwa ntabwo yishimye, kandi umaze kutoroha kuba hamwe.
Kugerageza kudakoresha igikomere cyumutima ufite icyuho, mugenzi wawe agumana umubano, ariko icyarimwe ashakisha undi muntu. Ariko icyo ni cyo iyo umufatanyabikorwa amenye ubuhemu, rwose bizakorohera, bityo ubuhemu ntibuzigera buhinduka urwitwazo rwangiritse. Niba udashobora kuba iruhande rwuyu muntu, ucike, ntuzabeshya cyangwa wenyine.
"Twari mu gusinywa"
Ubusinzinzo inzoga ntibushobora kuba urwitwazo rwimyitwarire yangiza abandi, igice cya kabiri nawe nawe ubwawe. Wibuke ko ibyemezo byawe byose byafashwe byinzoga bizagira ingaruka nyazo mugihe ukurikiranye, kimwe nacyo kijyanye nimbaraga zombi - ukora amakosa umukunzi wawe atagomba kukubabarira kubera gusa ko imitekerereze yawe yahinduwe.
Niba uteganya gutandukana, kora ako kanya
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"Ariko simmukunda"
Imibonano mpuzabitsina Imibonano mpuzabitsina kubera ko byabaye. Ntacyo bitwaye kubantu wahuye numuntu wafashe kugirango uhemukire. Muri ako kanya, wakuruwe, ntukareke imbaraga nk'izo, uhura na we mu bafatanyabikorwa usanzwe, ntibisobanura icyo ukora. Gutembera "ibumoso" ntukeneye serenade munsi yidirishya.