Amarushanwa yose yabagabo, mubucuruzi cyangwa mubuzima bwite, ni guhangana nabi abagabo babiri. Ibintu byose bibaho nka muri kamere mwisi yinyamaswa. Bararwana. Ku mubiri, mubwenge, imico, imiterere. Burigihe ni uguhangana neza kandi neza.
Mu bagore, ibintu byose biratandukanye, guhangana - ibintu bitwikiriye, amaguru adasanzwe, inshinge na pin cyangwa umurima ushishikaje. Muri icyo gihe, umutego w'amarushanwa yaremewe, no gusohoka watsinze, ugomba kubamenya.
Umutego Umubare 1 - gufunga
Umugore agwa muri mpandeshatu yica "guhangana n'abantu". Umugabo uhakana abona intego ye akajya gutsinda. Ariko ubutaka bukomeye cyane kumarangamutima kandi byuzuye, umutwe wibizwa muri ubu buryo bwo guhatanwa. Kuri iyi ngingo, intego nimwe yahisemo - iba igice cya kabiri, iyibire. N'ibitekerezo byose ku kintu kimwe: kwigisha uhanganye. Zana kwera cyangwa gukubita imico nibindi byinshi, kugirango utegure ubwoko bumwe bwo kwitegura: Ibi byose byakozwe bitekerejwe kandi rwihishwa.
Muri icyo gihe, kwitabwaho byose bivanze rwose bivuye kumugabo uhanganye. Kuri iyi ngingo, intego ya buri wese muri bo ni ugusenya no gusenya uwo bahanganye, kandi ntabwo aribwo gutsinda ireba imbere yumukunzi we. Kandi ahagarara kuruhande akareba iki gikorwa, asa nabagore babiri bahaturanye na Tumakov, bavuga ko Tumakov, bavuga ko Tumakov, bavuga nabi, bakora ibibi. N'intego, abo binjiye mu buhanzi bw'intambara, ntizigera igerwaho, kuko bombi babireka muburyo bunyuranye. Barimo kwerekana bitari mu mucyo mwiza, kugirira nabi ndetse na bo ubwabo.
Yulia Lansk, umuhanga muguhitamo abashakanye beza kubashakanye
Ibikoresho bya serivisi
Umutego Umubare 2 - Gutandukanya wenyine
Niba umugore aje muri ayo marushanwa, bigabanya cyane agaciro kayo imbere yuruhande rwe. Asa naho asakuza ati: "Unjyane, meze neza!". Ariko amategeko asanzwe yisoko ntabwo akora mubucuti bwite. Ibi birakwiye kugenda hagati yumurongo hanyuma ugahitamo kugurisha bihendutse. Kuboneka bikurura umuguzi ibicuruzwa bimwe nibicuruzwa byibicuruzwa, ariko muguhitamo umugabo wumugabo ugira uruhare rwose. Abahagarariye imibonano mpuzabitsina cyane bakunda guhiga umuhigo wabo, batsinze inzitizi, baratsinda. Birukana urukwavu, kandi ntibayishakisha muburyo burangiye.
Iyo umugore arwanirira umugabo, yiyereka ibirenze ibihe bihendutse. "KUGURISHA! Hano! Amafaranga uko ari atanu! " Inkomoko ya Hunter irasohoka rwose, kuko idakeneye urutoki urutoki, azaza yiruka ku ifirimbi ye ya mbere cyangwa ndetse no kugenda kw'amaso. Umugore utanga amakuru ahangana neza kuruta ibiciro bigabanuka, biteguye gutsinda kubiciro byose, inzira zose. Birashoboka muriki kibazo kugirango tuyigaruse?
Umutego Umubare 3 - Ubutumbure bw'amatora
Kurushanwa, abagore batsimbataza amarangamutima yabo. Igitsina gabo gikura kigenda neza mumaso yabo, kiraba ngombwa. Ibyiyumvo byaka umuriro, icyifuzo cyongerewe, impagarara zamarangamutima iruyongera kandi zikomeye kandi zikomeye. Bababajwe n'ibitekerezo, kurya ibyababayeho. Ibi ntibikiri umugabo wimpuhwe cyane kuburyo nifuza kugerageza kubaka umubano, ahubwo intego yonyine mubuzima, igikombe cyinshi.
Kandi byinshi bikwegerwa muri uku guhangana, niko akamaro k'amahitamo wahisemo ariyongera, nubwo ntacyo akora kugiti cye. Nkigisubizo, umuntu ufite ibihimbano byumuntu, aho burigihe bihuye nukuri bihagije. Amategeko yisoko asanzwe akora hano: Niba ibyifuzo biri hejuru, itangwa rikura mubiciro.
Umutego Umubare wa 4 - Gutinya Gutakaza Igikombe
Mu rugamba rw'umugabo, gukunda umugore birakura. We ubwe akonja, ashishikaye ibyo yari meza kandi ibyiza. Hamwe nibi, ubwoba bwo kubura umuntu wahisemo burakura, bukaba ubutunzi nyabwo. Ubu bwoba butera rwose kwishingikiriza kumiterere ye, ubwoba bushobora kumva atekereza ko atazamugeraho. N'ubundi kandi, yamaze amezi 5 atsinda kandi afate uyu mugabo - igikombe cyiza na "nyuma ya Mogican".
Muri icyo gihe, umugore yahagaritswe rwose ku mugabo, bisa na we ko hari abahiga benshi, bityo birakenewe ko tuzirikana. Iratera imbere kandi yuzuye. Umugore umeze nk'imitsi, nongeye no kongera gutererana mu maso ye. Kuri we, niwe mwiza wenyine, kandi abona abandi mubuzima bwe. Yatakaje ibitekerezo byumvikana kandi bikomeye. Turashobora kuvuga ko abura umuntu uhagije.
Iyo umugore arwaniraga umugabo, yiyerekana kuruta uko ahendutse
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Umutego Umubare 5 - Ishyari Kuri Tarivil
Urugamba nk'urwo rwo guhatanira gutera ishyari. Mu ntangiriro, guhangana biratangira neza kuko umugore atekereza - nubwo yaba abibone, yimbitse muri douche - iyo mahirwe ya kabiri. Nibyiza cyane, birashimishije, bikora, amahirwe, bityo amahitamo arashobora guhitamo ashobora kuba muburyo bwe. Kandi ibi bitekerezo bitera ubushake butari bwiza mubibazo no kwihuta.
Kugabanya agaciro kayo nibura mu maso ye, maze mu gihe kimwe - no mu maso y'abandi, mugore atangira displacing mukeba, urusaku ku ye, kubwira abandi, ibyo ni bibi kandi ko batabereye. Ugaragaza kudahuza kwawe, gushidikanya mubushobozi bwawe nubushobozi bwawe. Kandi uhinduka nkumukecuru wa grill wagumye ku nkono zacitse.
Nigute wakwirinda imitego irushanwa?
1. Utsinde ubwoba bwose imbere yabato kandi bwiza kukurusha.
Amagambo abakobwa bato gusa afite isura yicyitegererezo akoreshwa mubisabwa - ibinyoma. Ku mugabo mwiza, watoranije burigihe umugore mwiza cyane kwisi.
2. Ntukemere gushyira ubushotoranyi.
Reka abandi bisuzugura, guta agaciro kabo mumaso yumugabo. Ntukishora mu rugamba rw'ubupfu, bityo uzitwara bihagije kandi uzasa neza. "Kandi nongeyeho Yogurt kuri salade, ntabwo ari Mayodone," muri ayo makuba, kabone niyo haba hari "isafuriya" mu marushanwa nk'aya.
3. Mubihe byose, umva wizeye kandi uruhutse.
Niba ufite kwihesha agaciro bihagije, ishusho yarashizweho, usibye, wakoze ibihe bishoboka byimyitwarire, ntuzigera ugira ibibazo mubihe byose.
4. Gukurura umugabo wawe no kumubera njyenyine.
Kwikorera wenyine, kunoza kwiteza imbere nkumuntu, uhishura igitsina cye kandi ukingira uruhare rwumugore we, akurikiza ingamba zikwiye n'amayeri, uzabona kimwe cya kabiri.
Mu rugamba rw'umugabo, urukundo rw'umugore rukura
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Ariko uburyo bwo guhura cyane, umugabo wenyine? Kugirango ukore ibi, ugomba gukora intambwe nziza mu cyerekezo cyiza. Nzakubwira pro Intambwe eshatu shingiro.
Intambwe ya mbere: Isesengura ryawe "Ndi uyumunsi"
Mugihe cyambere ukeneye kwishima, uri iki muriki gihe. Hanyuma utangire gukora wenyine, gusobanukirwa aho ufite umurongo ufite integer. Ni ibihe bintu nubuhanga bidahagije? Ni ibihe bintu ishusho yawe itasohoka? Niki ukeneye gukora kugirango uhishure muburyo bwiza cyane?
Intambwe ya kabiri: Umugore utangaje
Ukora gahunda yo kunoza iterambere ryawe kandi biragaragara ko akurikiza. Ntagutera, ntabwo byarangaye, shiraho imirimo itari mike kandi ubikore. Mubikorwa, gereranya nawe ntabwo ufite umukobwa wumukobwa cyangwa ufite igitekerezo cyiza, ariko nawe wenyine. Reba icyo waricyo n'icyuma. Ndetse nibyiza ... kandi bike byiza ...
Intambwe ya gatatu: Gukora ibisabwa kugirango uhitemo
Ugomba gukora ibintu byose bishoboka kugirango uhitemo umugabo, ibyiza mubyiza. Muguhindura, uteka shyashya kugirango ukwiye umuntu mwiza. Ugomba kumva ubwoko ubwoko ubwoko bukeneye umuntu nkuwo mu buryo bwo kwiyobora hamwe nuburyo bwo kurema umuryango ukomeye.
Umugore nyawe ahora azi umwihariko.
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Kuva ku gipanga - mu kinyugunyugu!
Umugore arahinduka, guhinduka, yiyubakira rwose mubyerekezo byose. Yakoze ishusho yayo yo hanze, asiga umukunzi wumugore kumugore wumugore. Kunoza imiterere ye, arema igihugu cyimbere, asanga urukundo wenyine kandi yizeye, ubumuga butagira ubugome, ajugunya inanga zahise. Yagaragaje imibonano mpuzabitsina n'amarangamutima yayo. Itangira gukoresha neza imvugo yumubiri. Kubwimana neza nabagabo biga psychologiya yabo. Kandi byanze bikunze, rwose, birabizi Umwihariko we.
Umugore nkuyu ntashobora guhura muburyo ashaka.
Numudamu nyawe ukwiye kumenyekana muri societe no kwishimwa no gukunda imibonano mpuzabitsina bikomeye. Birahuye, kandi buri kantu karanga ishusho ye ihujwe kuburyo haba hamwe nisi yo hanze, izengurutse isi yimbere. Ibi byose birema imbaraga zumukobwa zimbere, zikurura abagabo batsinze.
Kugira ibi byose, urashobora guhinduka igipimo cyimana no kuba mwiza, bizakikizwa no kwitabwaho no kwitaho, uzabona umunezero mukunda kandi ubishyire mubikorwa nkumugore na mama.
Nkwifurije guhura na kimwe cya kabiri, shaka umunezero, kora umuryango mwiza. Kandi nzagufasha muri ibi: Julia yawe Lansk, umuhanga muguhitamo abashakanye beza kubashakanye.