"Umusore wanjye nta bunararibonye mu mibonano mpuzabitsina kundusha. Mfite ubwoba ko bishobora kuba ikibazo mumibanire yacu. Nigute kudaha ishyari rye? " Irina, ufite imyaka 26.
Nshuti Irina! Mbere ya byose, ntugomba kwishyira hamwe nubunararibonye bwumukunzi wawe nishyari. Cyane cyane niba utamuhaye kubwizi mpamvu, ugereranya "ibyagezweho" by'umukunzi wawe hamwe nabafatanyabikorwa babanjirije. Ukeneye gusa uburyo bworoshye hamwe nabakunzi bawe, reka yumve ko niyo yaba adafite agaciro muriki kibazo - iki ntabwo ari ikibazo. Abashakanye bashyirwaho kugirango bakure kandi bakureze.
Wari inararibonye kumurusha? Ibi nubwo bifite ibyiza byayo - ufite amahirwe yo kubona umufatanyabikorwa mwiza. Muri icyo gihe, ntukeneye gukoresha imbaraga zawe zo gutwarwa nimyitwarire yiganje yimyitwarire yimbitse. Urashobora kuyayobora, wigishe imibonano mpuzabitsina udatinya byimazeyo umunezero we.
Byongeye kandi, igitsina gishobora gutandukana cyane kuburyo, birashoboka cyane, urashobora kugutangaza. Gerageza hamwe numusore wawe kugirango umenye ibice bishya byimibanire yimbitse. Kurugero, urashobora gusura amahugurwa mubuhanga bwo muri Tayilande cyangwa ubuhanga bushya bwurukundo rwo mu kanwa. Rero, uzerekanye umukunzi wawe ko ufite icyo wiga. Ibi bizamwemerera kumva ufite icyizere kandi neza.
Ni ngombwa kwibuka ko umugore w'umunyabwenge rwose atazemera ko umugabo we ahora yumva ko agerageza kumwigisha. Kubwibyo, birakenewe kwegera "inzira", kwerekana kwihangana, ntabwo biryoshye abagabo. Gukora witonze kandi neza, "ukora" abantu barera b'inzozi zawe, kandi mugenzi wawe azumva ari Macho nyayo.
Ekaterina Lyibimova, kuyobora umutoza wimibonano mpuzabitsina wu Burusiya