Nthawi zambiri ambiri a ife tikuyenera kuwunikira anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi moyo wathu. Zimakhala zovuta kwa amayi omwe, pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, sanakhale amayi mpaka m'badwo wina, kapena kulengeza kuti sakonzekera kubereka. Mwina mwadzudzula azimayi oterowo, omwe dziko ladziko lonse silinali lomveka kwa inu. Tidzauza chifukwa chake tiyenera kudzudzula ana sayenera kukhala komanso onse amene malingaliro ake pamalingaliro osiyanasiyana sagwirizana ndi zathu.
Mavuto okhala ndi ndalama
Mwanayo ndi udindo waukulu, ndipo udindo wachuma silocheperako. Inde, tinganene kuti "zonse zakhala zopotoka, ndipo mutha". Koma masiku ano njira iyi sigwira ntchito, ndipo anthu omwe ali ndi udindo wapadera kwambiri amadziwa bwino izi: Mwanayo amakhala wamkulu, zomwe zimapempha, ndipo palibe zauzimu. Sikuti aliyense angakwanitse kuonetsetsa munthu watsopano m'moyo wake, motero malingaliro odziwika m'banjamo amaikidwapo mpaka kalekale, ndipo wina akana lingaliro ili.
si aliyense amene wakonzeka kudzipereka
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Kukula kwa ntchito
Zinthu zofunika kwambiri kwa munthu m'modzi sizingakhale zomveka bwino kwa winayo, motero, ndizovuta kuti azimayi ena azindikire momwe mungasinthire chisangalalo chapamwamba pampando waofesi, koma azimayi ambiri amapanga - kudutsa ntchito yamakwerero. Masiku ano, azimayi ndi abambo akakhala ofanana kwambiri mu ufulu, theka labwino kwambiri la umunthu limafuna kupanga ndalama ngati palibenso, ndiye kuti mwina ndi munthu. Ndipo mukufuna kukhala mtsogoleri ngati sikuti chachiwiri chilichonse, ndiye kuti mkazi aliyense wachitatu ndi wolondola. Pulumula pantchito yogwira ntchito sinakonzeka osati chilichonse chomwe chimalimbikitsa amayi kukana lingaliro la amayi.
Mkazi samadziwona yekha amayi
Chifukwa china chomwe mkazi samatha kutsutsa, ndiye kuti sukufuna kusintha udindo wake kwa watsopano. Maphunziro a mwana amafunikira kubweranso kwathunthu komanso kumvera chisoni kuposa osati konse. Palibe choipitsa, ngati mayi, akumvetsa chikhalidwe chake, chimakhala chilengedwe ndikubala mwana yemwe sangafune kupirira. Pankhaniyi, banja lonse limavutika. Nthawi zina, ndikofunikira kuti musinthe mbali zina za moyo ngati mayiyo sagwirizana ndi munthuyo komanso moyo wake. Ndikofunikira kuphunzira kusankha zochita pa zofuna zanu, osati ndi zowerengera kuti ndi anthu oyandikira kwambiri.