Tsoka ilo, m'dziko lathu, ana anali atabweretsa kale njira yofananira pomwe kulumikizana kwazinthu zambiri kunali kochepa. Munthawi za Soviet, ana adalimbikitsidwa kudyetsa pa wololi, osawayandikira akalira. Koma ndi chidwi, kutentha kwa thupi la mayi, kumverera kwa fungo la mayi kumabwera chitetezo. Zotsatira zake, ana ambiri kuyambira ali akhanda amapanga ngozi yadziko lapansi. Njira yophunzitsira idagwiritsidwa ntchito pokweza - pa mfundo yachisanu imatha kupezeka pachilichonse. Chifukwa chake, mibadwo yonse ya "Ana" Inst "idakula. Ndipo ngati masinthidwewo adachitika pankhani yanzeru, ndiye kuti ali pachibale ndi kulera ana, zingwezo ndizosuntha. Zinkawoneka ngati gawo la malingaliro. Njira zambiri, njira zopezereka zoterezi zimadziwika kuti ndi njira yachizolowezi. "Ndipo zomwe, timenya - ndi kalikonse, ndinakulira ..." Amati, akudziwulula okha kapena ena.
Marianna abavitova
Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani kwa mwana?
Kuukira kulikonse kumbali ya anthu oyandikira ndiko kutsimikizira mwamphamvu chidaliro, chomwe chimatanthawuza kuti wina aliyense. Zotsatira za slap ndi manyazi zimachepa podziyesera nokha, ndi kudzilemekeza, ndi luso lopanga, kufunitsitsa kukhala mtsogoleriyo ndikukwaniritsa china chake. Nthawi zambiri pamakhala chiyembekezo. Mwana amatha kumera munthu popanda malingaliro ake. Ana oterowo nthawi zambiri amagwera m'makampani oyipa.
Ngakhale slap yosavuta, podddy ndi kuphwanya malire a umunthu wa munthuyo. Mwa ana omwe amamenya ngakhale kuti "mu zophunzitsa," sangathe kudzitchinjiriza malire awo m'kulalikira.
Chifukwa cha machitidwe ankhanza a makolo, mwana amayamba kugawana dziko lonse lapansi kwa "ozunzidwa" ndi "otsutsa", omwe amakhudza ukalamba. Mwachitsanzo, mtsikana wodzipereka ngati wokwatirana naye asankha wovutayo amapitilizanso zovuta ndi ubwana wake. Ndipo mnyamatayo wozunza angayambitse kuzunza banjali.
Momwe mungakhalire ndi ntchito yamanja?
Ngati mumenya mwana wanu, muli ndi zovuta za dongosolo la malingaliro. Muyenera kusankha ndi katswiri. Simudziletsa nokha ndi malingaliro anu, ndipo mumakweza dzanja lanu pa mwanayo. Ndi chidaliro cha zana limodzi, titha kunena kuti iwonso adalimbana ndi ubwana. Ngakhale tikudziwa zoopsa zonse zomwe zikuchitika, mu mkhalidwe wa mkwiyo ndikukhumudwitsidwa ubongo wanu ukukuwuzani njira yokhayo yothanirana ndi vuto - kuti mumenya mwana wanu. Nthawi yomweyo, mkwiyo sunamupangidwire, sizokhutira ndi Iye.
Makolo amtsogolo amalimbikitsidwa kuti azichita maphunziro a akatswiri ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti athetse zinthu ngati izi, kumvetsetsa mavuto awo ndikuphunzira momwe angathanirane nawo. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo kuphunzira zakukhosi ndi kusankha polera ana. Tayang'anani pa nyama pamene akunyambita ana awo mpaka m'badwo wina, musawakwane ndipo musakhumudwitse! Kupanga kwa umunthu wogwirizana kumathandizidwa ndi luso, chidwi ndi chikondi.