Malo ogona ndi okalamba ndi mayeso ovuta kwa onse achinyamata komanso kwa okalamba. Zaka zikusintha zimapangitsa kuti azigwirizana nawo pachibwenzi, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa kusamvana, zomwe pakakhala nthawi kumangoyamba, kudzipezera kumvetsetsa anthu ambiri. Chifukwa chake, tidaganiza zopereka upangiri zingapo wothandiza kwa anthu omwe adakumana ndi zomwezi.
Osabisa malingaliro anu
Nthawi zina munthu amakhala ndi vuto lolimbana ndi vutoli, lomwe pamapeto pake chimatsogolera anthu okalamba ku lingaliro loti, mwina simulinso ndi malingaliro othandiza monga kale. Kwa munthu wokalamba, lingaliro lotere lingakhale katundu wolemera lomwe lidzaperekedwabe ku nkhawa kwambiri, ndipo zosemphana ndi nyumba yanu yaying'ono sizikhala ndi chimaliziro. Ndikofunikira pano kuti mumvetsetse makolo kuti mukumva zokhumudwitsa komanso osakangana sangasinthe. Osawopa kuyankhula za izi.
Simungathe kuzisintha
Chimodzi mwa zolakwa zazikulu za ana ambiri achikulire ndi kuyesa kusintha makolo awo. Zachidziwikire, muubwenzi wotere muli nthawi zomwe zimavuta kuyanjanitsa ngakhale munthu wozunza kwambiri, nthawi zina mpaka momwe mumayambiranso kuuza kholo, monga muyenera kuchita chimodzi kapena zingapo kuti imakhala mikangano yambiri, ngati ilipo kale. Sayenera kukhala akuchita izi. Kumbukirani kuti kuwonjezera pa zoyipa muubwenzi wanu nthawi zonse pamakhala zolemba zabwino, bwanji osamamatira m'malo mokonza munthu wokalamba?
Bwezerani ndi kumvetsetsa kwa abale okalamba
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Timapanga kuchotsera pazaka
Ubwenzi ukayamba "kupsyinjika", mwana wamwamuna wamkulu kapena wamkazi nthawi zina amakhala ovuta kukumbukira kuti makolo sakhala achinyamata omwe mumawakumbukira, ndipo m'badwo wolemekezeka nthawi zonse umasintha lingaliro la dziko ndi kuyimilira. Palibenso chifukwa chokhumudwitsa chifukwa chakuti makolo anu angakhale owopsa kapena othamanga pang'ono. Choyipa chachikulu chomwe mungachite pamavuto ngati chotere ndikuyamba kusweka. Nthawi zonse muzikumbukira za zaka.
Yesani kusokoneza wachibale wokalambayo
Muthanso kukhumudwitsanso kuti amayi kapena abambo amathera, monga momwe mumaganizira, koma kulowa m'malo - masiku awo amakhala ochepa, chifukwa chake moyo wawo umawoneka woyenda pang'onopang'ono ndikuwonekera. Sangofuna chifukwa cha izo. M'malo momutsutsa, yesani kupeza njira yopangira miyoyo yawo kuti ikhale yowala pang'ono, yomwe imabwera ndi ntchito kwa iwo, omwe angasokoneze mavuto komanso malingaliro achisoni. Chifukwa chake atha kuthetsa mavuto anu ena.