Kupanga mgwirizano wamphamvu ndi ntchito yayikulu paubwenzi. Koma mukuwona, pemphani munthu yemwe "motero", ovuta. Nthawi zambiri timasankha amuna, omwe sizinali zotopetsa, koma nthawi yomweyo kuti tipeze ubale wabwino ndi iwo - ndiye kuti kufunafunana. Chifukwa chiyani timakope amuna "olakwika", omwe timakumana nawo nthawi zambiri? Izi ndi ife lero ndikupeza.
Tikufuna "kusiya"
"Woipa" nthawi zonse amakhala osayembekezereka: kwa iye palibe vuto pakuchita zomwe mukufuna pakali pano. Izi zimasilira azimayi ambiri, omwe pazifukwa zina zimayendetsedwa munthawi ya nyumba ndi moyo. Mwamuna wotere amalonjeza Ufulu Kumalire, mkazi ndi wosavuta kuthamangira kunja kwa mutu wake. Komanso, makamaka, kuwonjezera pa zowoneka bwino kwambiri kotero kuti munthu wotere amapereka, akhoza kukhala osasangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osasangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwina akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwina akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwina akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwina akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwina akhoza kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri, mwina akhoza kukhala osasangalatsa, osawamveketsa chisoni kwa ena ndikugwiritsa ntchito anthu chifukwa cha zifuno zake. Mkaziyo mchikondi zonse izi sazindikira chifukwa cha njira zina zamankhwala pakadali pano. Koma pamene malingaliro "amasulidwa", mayiyo adabwera ku chowopsa pa omwe adawaloza.
Simuli otsimikiza
Monga lamulo, mzimayi yemwe amadzidalira, nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi vuto la munthu yemwe amamukonzera nthawi yomweyo. Mkazi wotere angatsimikize kuti adatulutsa tikiti yosangalatsa, ndipo inayo, bwenzi labwino kwambiri siliwala, chifukwa cha "munthu woyipa" amakhala pakati pa chilengedwe chosatsimikizika payekha. Amadziwa za izi ndipo nthawi zonse amasangalala.
Mkazi wachikondi amakhala wokonzeka kupirira ndi ambiri
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Simukudziwa Yemwe Mukufuna
Mtundu wina wa azimayi omwe amabwera mosavuta "anyamata oyipa" ndi mkazi yemwe sakudziwa Yemwe ndi zomwe akufunika. Itha kukhala paubwenzi ndi bambo yemwe sakukwanira, sakufuna kumupirira, koma posakhalitsa apeza mnzake kapena mtundu womwewo. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa nokha zomwe mukuyang'ana mwa munthu, ndipo zomwe sizingakhazikike. Kutulutsa kale njira izi, mutha kusaka mnzanu woyenera kuti mukhale ndi ubale wolimba.
Mukufuna chidwi nanu
Zosamveka bwino, iyi ndi chifukwa chodziwika bwino chomwe mkazi amathetsa mavuto. Nthawi zambiri bambo, yemwe ndimasosa kutengera nthawi ya tsiku ndi tsiku, amakhala wosungunuka kwa mkazi aliyense, kuyambira pagulu lomwe amakhala mokweza, silingathe kuzindikira. Mkazi ali wokonzeka kuthetsa nkhawa zilizonse, ngati akazi ena okha ndi omwe amasemedwa pang'ono pomwe awiriwo akuwonekera. Komabe, azimayi oterowo ayenera kuchenjezedwa - munthu, yemwe adzachokapo, ndipo udzachiritsa mabala, nthawi zambiri, ndi kafukufuku wa katswiri.