Maubwenzi ena okhawo amabwera, ena amathera ndi kusiyana chifukwa chosagwirizana ndi zilembo, ndipo chachitatu - chifukwa cha zodabwitsa, chifukwa cha munthu wina wa mnzake. Kumakula aliyense pansi pa chisa ndikunena kuti pali njira yoyenera yothetsera ubale wathu sitingatero. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa iwo okha sanangopeza njirayi, komanso, kukhala oona mtima, sindikhulupirira kuti kulipo. Tizisanthula zochitika zingapo pambuyo pogawana ndikuthandizani kusankha njira yomwe muyenera kupita.
Njira yoyamba - kulumikizana kogonana
Kodi mumasweka mtima? Chinthu choyamba chomwe chimabwera m'malingaliro ndikupeza banja latsopanolo usiku wina, kungodzichitira nokha adrenaline ndikumva kuwala komwe kungakutsutseni pakusintha. Sitili njala, chifukwa chake mu kulumikizana, ngati nonse mukugwiritsa ntchito njira zotetezera ndipo ndi zowona mtima wina ndi mnzake, sitikuwona chilichonse choyipa. Choonadi ndichofunika kuyang'ana pa malingaliro anu amisala. Ngati muli pafupi kwambiri ndi mtima wonse ndipo mugwadire chikondi, kugonana mwachisawawa kungakulitse zovuta zanu komanso kukhala kupsinjika. Zonsezi zomwezo, yemwe sakhudzidwa ndi othandizana nawo, mutha kuyesa njira iyi kuti isokoneze, musangosintha!
Khalani usiku ndi mlendo - ndani ananena kuti ndizosatheka?
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Njira yachiwiri - kubwerera kwa akale
Sitikulangizani njira iyi. Ndikwabwino kugona pa kama ndi munthu watsopano, kuposa kubwerera kwa wakale, yemwe mudasiyana momveka bwino ngati choncho. Zolemba zakale zodziwika bwino zikukhala: mumamudziwa kale munthu amene ali ndi maubwino ake onse komanso minongo, mumakhala okhutira ndi mbali yaubwenzi, koma ndikhulupirireni, monga pa chibwenzi, sichidzakhala. Mumangogwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu mukamapita ku chitukuko chanu kapena yesani kupeza munthu wozizira. Khulupirirani kuti mnzanu watsopanoyo adzakhala wanzeru kwambiri, osamala komanso okongola, chifukwa ndi zomwe mwakumana nazo, mafunso akukula. Chifukwa chake kwenikweni simukufuna kukumana naye, m'malo mongocheza kangapo ndi V Vipa Labwino?
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Njira yachitatu ndikuthana nawo
Timavomereza moona mtima momwe timaganizira ndipo timaganizira zachuma kwambiri. Pambuyo paubwenzi wautali, ambiri ayenera kupumira, ngakhale atakhala zovuta bwanji kuti mugone nokha. Pitani kwa katswiri wazamisala, mugule zowonjezera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi abwenzi - tengani bizinesi yanu yonse ya tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo musaphonye nokha miyezi ingapo. Ndipo mutatha kuyamba kusatsegula ndikuganizira momwe mukufuna kuwona mnzanu watsopano komanso pazovuta zomwe mwakonzeka kugwira ntchito.
Ubale watsopano sungathetse kukhala wopanda uzimu
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Njira yachinayi - kudumphira maubale atsopano
Zimakhala zovuta kwa ife kupereka zoterezi, koma tikhala oona mtima, pali anthu masauzande ambiri omwe sanachitike ndi moyo wawo wachikulire popanda chibwenzi. Kuchokera kwa mnzake, amapita ku inayo, ngati kuti kutsogolo kwand, ndipo nthawi zambiri ngakhale pasitimayo, amayamba kufunafuna wotchinga. Zowona, zimachitika kuti munthu wanu watsopano akhoza kukhala yemwe adakonzekera tsoka. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, mnzanu watsopano adzakhala katswiri wazamankhwala, yemwe mudzakhala wokulirapo ndipo angafune kukhala wekha.
Ndipo mudzasankha njira iti kapena mwasankha? Lembani malingaliro anu mu ndemanga, tiyeni tikambirane njira yomwe ndi yopambana kwambiri.