Lolani kuti akazi akhulupirire kuti malingaliro ogonana ndi achiwerewere, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti ndizovuta kupeza nthumwi ziwiri zofanana ndi malingaliro amphamvu okhudzana ndi kugonana. Ndipo komabe, ngati mukukhulupirira kuti akatswiri azamakina, mutha kugawa malingaliro wamba omwe amasangalatsa anthu ambiri, ndipo omwe mnzanu sangakuuzeni. Tiyeni tiphunzire za maloto awo pang'ono.
Akazi Omvetsa Chinsinsi - Chinsinsi cha Amuna Ambiri
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Kugonana koopsa - munthu, mkazi ndi munthu
Mwinanso imodzi mwazinthu zotchuka kwambiri zazimuna. Maloto oterowo ali ndi zoimira zake: Amuna ambiri ali ndi chidaliro kuti mkazi aliyense adzayenera "kuthetsa kugonana", kuti sangavomereze. Poterepa, zongopeka, pomwe mnzanu amapempha bambo wachiwiri, ndikutembenuza mu ulaliki wake, komwe ndikosavuta "kugubuduza." Mwanjira ina, mkazi amayandikira pamaso pa mwamuna, ndipo ndi mkazi womasulidwa ndizosavuta kuvomereza.
Monga momwe akatswiri amisala amalangizira, ngati mnzanu wazindikira kuti sakulanda wachitatu pabedi lanu, sikofunikira kuti pakhale malingaliro anu mu moyo, ichi ndi chizindikiro kwa inu kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro chochulukirapo ndipo adachotsa pabedi.
Kugonana kwa pangozi - munthu, mkazi ndi mkazi
Njira iyi "Troychya" iri mwa amuna omwe sakhulupirira. Kwa bambo, kuvomereza kugonana nthawi yomweyo, azimayi angapo amalankhula za kukopa kwake ndikuukweza kumwamba. Ndipo, ngati munthu wanu akangolota, koma safuna kumveketsa bwino. Maloto otere "Malangizo" kwa inu omwe muli ndi wokondedwa wotere simumatopetsa ndipo mutha kuchita kaduka.
Nthawi zambiri, bambo samathetsa maloto
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Kugonana ndi mlendo
Mu gress of Amuna ambiri omwe akupambana momwe amagonjetsera mzimayi wosadziwikayo ndi mphamvu ya mwamuna wake: poyamba amasokonezeka pansi pa kukakamizidwa kwake, ndiye kuti amayamba kutsimikizira kuti amasangalala naye. Ndipo wocheperako amazolowera mkazi woganizayu, wamphamvuyo ndiwosangalatsanso chiwembu chotere.
Ambiri mwa zonena za akazi - bambo sakulipira nthawi yofunika kwambiri, izi ndikulongosola kwanu muubwana, munthu wokhala ndi anthu ambiri omwe amangoyimira mahomoni omwe amafunikira "Cook" theka la ola ku kugonana, motero, m'matangana ake, nthawi zina samafunikira kuti agwirizane nawo. Komabe, m'moyo, zodabwitsa ngati izi ndizovuta kumverera, chifukwa pali mwayi wocheza usiku wopanda usiku wothokoza, koma kupolisi, motero mwamunayo angokopa mutuwu.
Ndi mkazi womasulidwa mosavuta "kukambirana"
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Kusowetsa mtendere
Ngakhale ambiri amafotokoza za thupi lachikazi, kapangidwe kake ndi njira zake zosangalatsa kwa mkazi, chifukwa kugonjetsedwa kwa amuna ambiri komanso kugonana kwawobe. Ichi ndichifukwa chake amuna ambiri sakuona kuti amawonera wokondedwa wawo pomwe sakukayikira. Simunaganize za chifukwa chake amuna ochepa amalota zokutira? Chinthuchi ndichakuti mwamunayo mwamakhalidwe amaganiza zomwe mungayembekezere kuchokera kwa mkazi uyu, motero zimangokhala zosangalatsa. Chinthu china, ngati iye angachiritse mzimayi kuti azimukonzera kapena wina aliyense akapanda kukayikira kuti awonedwa kumbuyo kwake. Pa chifukwa chomwechi, bambo sakutsutsana ndi akazi anayi pamaso pake: chifukwa chake amaulula zamunthu za iye, zomwe zimaphimbidwa kwambiri ndi chinsinsi chake.