Pambuyo polowera zikuwoneka kuti simudzakumana ndi wina aliyense. Komabe, nthawi idutsa, inu ozizira, ndipo tsopano munthu watsopanoyo akuwonekera patali, omwe amawonetsera chisoni. Mwacibadwa, zimayamba kugonana, ndipo mumayamba mantha - zonse zidzakhala bwanji ndipo zidzakhumudwitsidwa ngakhale onsewo? Tidzayesa kukuthandizani kuti mumveke usiku woyamba ndi mnzanu kuti zonse zikhale bwino.
Ndipo wakonzeka bwanji?
Zachidziwikire, si onse, koma atsikana ambiri amayesa kudzitsimikizira okha ndi ena omwe, atasweka, ali bwino, akuthamangira maubwenzi atsopano. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuwunika mozama momwe zinthu ziliri - maubale atsopano amafunikira kwa inu kapena malo anu? Ngati mukufunadi theka lachiwiri ndipo simungakhale nokha, ndiye kuti pali nzeru kuyamba kufunafuna ndipo, mwina, kuvomerezana ndi munthu wokhala ndi gululi, koma ngati mungafune. Chifukwa chake simudzakhala ndi malingaliro oti "simulipo."
Muuzeni za zomwe ndimakonda
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Osadikirira kwambiri
Mukaganiza motsimikizika kuti anali okonzeka kuyanjana ndi munthu watsopano, mumayamba kulowa mu kugonana koyamba, komwe nthawi zambiri mumayembekezera china chodabwitsa. Inde, mnzanu watsopano ukhoza kukhala wokongola, mumasilira, koma ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti ndi munthu wamba ndikudikirira tsiku lanu ndi filimuyi - sizoyenera. Mapazi akulu omwe mukumuyembekezera mwamunayo, zomwe zingakukhumudwitse kwambiri kuti kukhumudwitsidwa mwamphamvu kukudikira.
Sankhani zovala ndi zovala zamkati
Monga momwe zitsanzo zikusonyezera, amuna sakonda kumva zovala, makamaka ngati amakutidwa ndi chidwi. Koma sizitanthauza konsenso kuti mutha kuvala zomwe zinagwa. Dzichepetsani pamkhalidwe: Ngati akukuyitanirani kumalo odyera, valani kavalidwe, komanso pansi pakeyo yotakatayi yotseguka, yomwe akufuna kuchoka kwa inu kumapeto kwa madzulo. Akukuitanani kuti mugonane madzulo kunyumba? Palibe vuto, kunyamula zovala zabwino, zomwe simuyenera kuvutika ndi kukopeka. Koma kumbukirani kuti masewera am'masewera, omwe amatayika pansi pa zovala zamkati - sizoyenera nthawi yovuta kwambiri.
osadikira chilichonse champhamvu
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Kambiranani zonse "m'mphepete mwa nyanja"
Zachidziwikire, kugonana zokondweretsa zomwe mungapeze zambiri ngati mnzanu wamtsogolo adzazindikira zomwe mukufuna. Ngati pali mwayi wotere, yesani kusamala ndi munthu uyu: chidwi chake chimalipira chinthucho "zomwe sindikufuna". Izi zithandiza atatsala pang'ono kuchenjeza munthu chifukwa chotsatira zomwe zingakupatseni chidwi. Kapenanso, mutha kuyeserera, kuchita nawo zachiwerewere, koma khalani okonzeka kukumana ndi kukana - si munthu aliyense wokonzekera kuyesa pa intaneti.