Makolo a ana akuluakulu nthawi zambiri amanditumizira: momwe mungatengere okha ana awo akadzakula, amakhala padera, ali bwino. Afuna kuwathandiza - ndipo olowa m'malo akana kuthandiza ndi kusiya kulumikizana konse.
Amayi akhumudwitsidwa, abambo awonongedwa, makolowo akufuna kutenga nawo mbali m'moyo wa ana monga kale - ndipo saloledwa. Kodi simukonda? Sikufunika? Zoyenera kuchita?
Ndipo kwenikweni - choti ndichite? Tamangidwa mwamphamvu pa tchati cha ana ndi mtundu wa Kingwergarten, sukulu, tchuthi, okwerera, kuti ana akadzakula, ndi kutuluka ndi mzimu.
Zikuwoneka kuti chisangalalo chokondweretsedwa: Kudziyimira payekha, kukulira kwathunthu - sikofunikira kuti ndipite komwe kuli kofunikira, ndipo komwe ndikufuna kumenyedwa. Ndipo sindikufuna kupita kulikonse, ndipo sikuwerengedwa, ndipo sikugwira ntchito. Moyo, wodziwika bwino, wokhazikika, wobalalika zidutswa, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti ndizosatheka kuwaphatikiza.
Ndipo sizikudziwika kuti ubale ndi mwamuna wake udzalimbikitsidwa bwanji ... Ndipo zinali zomveka - amayi \ Abambo, ndipo tsopano bwanji? Mwachidziwikire, ndi zomveka: nyumbayo, abale, katundu, iye ali ake, abale ... Ndiye chiyani? Ankakhala ndi moyo ngati kuti ana a ana, ndipo tsopano kwa ndani? Ndipo aliyense amayamba kufunafuna chidwi chawo - ndipo nthawi zambiri osati m'banjamo.
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Ndipo koposa zonse: Sizikudziwitsani za momwe mungaganizire zabwino? M'mbuyomu, zinali zotheka kuchotsa mwana - thanzi lake, malawi, amamusamalira. Panali zovuta zina kuti: "Amayi abwino", "abambo abwino". Panopa tsopano dongosolo lowunikira ili limasiya kugwira ntchito - "mfundo" ikusowa.
Zomwe zimakuchitikirani ndikutchedwa "chisa chopanda chisa" ". Choyamba, zowona, zimakhudza azimayi - mayina omwe amayamba kukhala ndi gawo lalikulu lachikazi, mosasamala kanthu kuti amayi amagwira ntchito kapena ali ndi nyumba. Koma abambo amathanso kukhala ovuta panthawiyi - makamaka ngati adaphatikizidwa m'miyoyo ya banja ndikuchita nawo nawo mbali pakuleredwa.
Nthawi yovutayi m'moyo wa banja itha kudutsa nthawi zambiri - yotengera Malangizo ena osavuta.
Chifukwa chake, woyamba. Yang'anani njira yanu, kumbukirani maloto anu, zokhumba zanu, zolinga, zolinga - ndikuyamba kuwawa pa moyo! Dzilembeni mndandanda wa zofuna zanu. Tsopano muli ndi nthawi yolankhula ndi abwenzi, kumbukirani zomwe mumakonda kuchita, koma kunalibe nthawi yokwanira. Kapena mwina mungasankhe kutsitsimutsa maphunziro? Ndikuyambitsa ntchito zatsopano za akatswiri?
Wachiwiri . Ngati inu (monga momwe mukuganizira) ana okha ndi omwe anali ogwirizana, tsopano ndi nthawi yoti adzakumanenso! Dzipatseni nthawi kuti muphunzire wina ndi mnzake - ndipo nthawi ino ikhoza kukhala yosangalatsa kwa inu nonse. Ndipo ubale wanu kapena ungalandire "kupumira kwachiwiri", kapena inu, monga banja, tidzagawanika, monga momwe asakanirana wina ndi mnzake. Ndipo zimachitika, koma mumakhala ndi mwayi wochita mwamtendere komanso kuti muzilemekeza komanso kuyamikira nthawi yomwe nthawi idali limodzi.
Ana anu anakula, iwonso amatha kukhala makolo - ndipo izi ndizabwinobwino
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Wachitatu Ndipo mwina chinthu chovuta kwambiri - phunzirani kumvera. Kungomvera mnzanu kapena mwana wanu wamkulu akukuuzani - ndi kuchita izi moyenera. Ngati chonchi? Osayesetsa kutonthoza, kuthandizira kapena kuyala ngati mnzanu kapena ana akungogawana. Manyazi, dzifunseni ngati kuli kofunikira kuthandizira - ndipo ngati sikofunikira (ndiye thandizo silikufunsidwa), ndiye musathandize.
Achinayi . Ngati mukukhudzana kwambiri ndi zochitika za moyo ndikuwongolera poyesa kufunafuna zambiri, zimatero. Ganizirani ngati mukufuna chidwi ndi njira yowopsa yotere?
Wachisanu . Ngakhale mwana kapena wokondedwa sangathe (ndipo sayenera) kukhala ndi vuto lanu. Ndi izi - kwa katswiri. Ingodutsa gawo lina lofunika m'moyo: Mumalekanitsidwa ndi mwana, ndipo iye ndi wochokera kwa inu.
Khalani achisoni komanso achisoni pamene kugawa kuli kwachilendo. Kubwera kwathunthu, mungafunike zaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri kapena ziwiri. Musambirane, tengani zosintha izi - ndikubwerera kumoyo wabwinobwino.