Kuwulula za shapkor ya kugona nthawi ino, ndikuuzeni pang'ono za mkazi yemwe adamtuma. Pakadali pano, mwamuna wake, amalankhula za kusudzulana. Idakhala njira yofunika yodzifunira komanso kufufuza kuti avomereze kuti ubale ndi mwamuna wake ukusilira. Thawani nokha, kuyambira umpya, kuchokera kunyezimira kwa moyo. Mgwirizano wawo wosamala unakhala zaka zingapo zapitazi kuti akhalebe otayika limodzi ndipo osadandaula kuti apange nyumba yabata: kupanga nyumba yopumira, kuphatikizirana ndi mtima wonse, kuti mugawane pang'ono komanso kuti muchepetse wina aliyense. moyo wabwino limodzi. Ndi mgwirizanowu kungotanthauza kukana kwa chowonadi chaumwini: kuwonongeka, chifukwa chopeza ntchito zatsopano zokhutiritsa komanso zolandirika pantchito, kuyenda, polankhulana. Tsopano maloto athu akudziwa kuti sizikugwirizana ndi zikhumbo zawo zenizeni, zimachepetsa. Mgwirizano wawo wakatayika unakhazikitsidwa chifukwa cha zokhumba zake ndi madera ake, koma tsopano adapeza ndipo adakonzekera kudzipanga, kuphatikizaponso mikuntho yake, zokhumudwitsa zake, zikhumbo zake.
Nthawi zambiri pamabanja okwatirana ndi cheke chachikulu cha mgwirizano. Akakhala awiri, wina, wina amatenga ntchitoyo kuti ayambire pandekha, wachiwiri, monga lamulo, amakhala ndi udindo woteteza kale kuti adapangidwa kale, amapanga chitsutso chosintha chomwe chimawononga ukwati.
Mwambiri, kusaka kwa m'modzi mwa okwatirana nthawi zambiri kumawonedwa ndi ena chifukwa choopseza kuchitikira kwa ophunzira. Ndipo mantha awa ndi zoopseza ndiowopsa kuposa mphamvu zomwe banjali zisawononge zikhumbo zawo zenizeni, zolinga zawo, zokhumba ndi zokhumba. Kuchokera pamenepo ndi zongopeka kuti kukula kwa munthu wina adzawononga aliyense, popeza momwe ambiri amakhudzidwira ndi okwatirana aziyamba kunena zinthu zomwe sizikufuna kuwona nthawi yayitali komanso mokakamizika. Mwa njira, sizomwe zimasokoneza nthawi zonse kulendera. Kusiya munthu ndi luso lamphamvu komanso nthawi zambiri. Poopa kugawana, ambiri amasunga ubale wawo, akupitilizabe kudutsa izi ndi madera omwe amaphwanya malire osalimba.
Komabe, kuzindikira komanso kukonda kuti asankhe chisangalalo ndi tanthauzo, iyi ndi phunziro lomwe aliyense mwa okwatirana angasiye kugwiritsitsa wina ndi kungodzigwirira ntchito, kudziwa ndi kufufuza.. Kenako mnzanu wina sakhala mdani wa njira yonseyo, koma mwa wowonera komanso mnzake. Kapena sadzakhala, koma kusankha kwake.
Za malotowa a maloto athu:
"Ndi sitima yanji (ina) idabwera ndi njanji. Sizingathe kupitiliza kupita, monga momwe dzikolo likuwolokera pansi pake (ndimakumbukira china chake ngati maziko ochokera ku njerwa kapena midadada yomwe ili pansi pa njanji, ndipo zidawonongeka, zidawonongeka) ndikuwonongeka. Ndimayang'ana kuchokera kumbali ndikungonena kuti sitimayo siyingapitirire, zidzakhalapo mpaka kalekale. Nthawi yomweyo, sitima yanga ili kwinakwake pafupi, ndipo zonse zili bwino ndi njanji
M'mbuyomu, nthawi zambiri ndimakhala kuti ndachedwa kuphunzitsira, kuthamanga, fulumirani, zinthu zina zimatola, ndipo ndilibe ntchito nthawi zambiri. Tsopano sindinakhale mukuthamanga kwanthawi yayitali. "
Kugona kumawonekera. Palibe kulakwa, pali mawu okha onena kuti sitimayo ili pa njanji, pomwe sitima yake imakhazikika pomwe inali. Ndipo safunikira kumupulumutsa ndikubwezeretsa, siudindo wake. Ntchito yake ndi kukhala ndi nthawi ndikukhala pansi pa sitima yanu ndikupita panjira yawo, palibenso winanso amene angachite.
Ngati anthu anali okwatirana, mu maubale, kapena ngakhale okha, amadziwa momwe angadzigwirire, tsatirani masomphenyawo ndi ntchito zawo, zochuluka zomwe zimachepetsedwa. Komabe, iyi ndi njira yomwe aliyense amatero. Tikufuna zabwino zonse m'maloto athu.
Ndikudabwa zomwe mumalota? Zitsanzo za maloto anu kutumiza ndi makalata: [email protected]. Mwa njira, maloto ndiosavuta kufotokoza ngati mu kalata yopita kwa mkonzi womwe mudzalemba nthawi ya moyo, koma koposa zonse - malingaliro ndi malingaliro panthawi ya kudzutsidwa m'maloto.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin