Zikuwoneka kuti kubadwa kwa mwana kumaperekedwa paukwati. Komabe, chiwerengero chachikulu cha nkhope yamatenthedwe nthawi zina zimakhala ndi zovuta kapena kufotokozera mwana. Nthawi zina kukhala makolo achimwemwe, banjali likupita kwa zaka, palibe amene amawatsimikizira zotsatira zabwino. Masiku ano pali njira zingapo zokhalira makolo, ndipo imodzi mwa zodziwika kwambiri tsopano ili ndi mayi wolamulira. Ndipo ngati zolinga za chikondi ndi banja zikuwonekeratu, sikuti nthawi zonse sitimva kuti azimayi akukankhira azimayi kuti alowe mwana wa munthu wina. Tatenga zifukwa zodziwika bwino malinga ndi zomwe azimayi omwe adaganiza zoti asangalale ndi awiriwa.
Madokotala nthawi zambiri amatsutsa kulumikizana kwa Porma ndi mwana
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Njira yothandizira kuti musinthe ndalama
Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kukhala mayi wowonera: muyenera kukwaniritsa mayeso mokwanira, mayeso amisala ndipo, pomaliza, mumakonda makolo amtsogolo. Njirayi ndi yayitali ndipo osati Kuwala nthawi zonse, ndichifukwa chake ntchito za mayiyo zimalipiridwa mowolowa manja. Akazi nthawi zambiri amanena kuti akukankhira mavuto azachuma panjira ya anthu a kuchitira ena, ndipo amayi ochita bwino amatha kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi mwamuna wake. Malinga ndi azimayi omwe adalandira izi, kampani yomwe imagwira ntchito ndi amayi a makasitomala ndi amayi omwe amalipira ndalama zonse, amapereka chipinda chabwino pomwe mayi yemweyo amatha kukhala ndi mayina omwewo, Amayi Atha Kupeza Mabonasi Abwino, omwe anakopa kwambiri azimayi athu omwe amafufuza. Mwa mitsinje - kwa amayi ambiri opanga, amayesa kupatukana ndi abale ndi bambo wanu, chifukwa kuletsedwa kulankhulana ndi okondedwa kwa nthawi yonse yomenyera.
Chikhumbo chachikulu chothandizira
Mwinanso, mkazi yekha ndi amene angamvetsetse mavuto a mzimayi wina yemwe sangathe kukhoza, koma ngakhale kubereka mwana kwa wokondedwa. Zachidziwikire, tanena kale kuti zinthu zachuma za nkhaniyi ndi imodzi mwa mfundo zazikuluzikulu za mayimidwe aku Surlorgate, azimayi ambiri amagwirizana mogwirizana ndi makolo omwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira amayi pakufunika kuthandiza awiri. Zikafika, m'malo mwake, za kumbali ya mayiyu, azimayi ambiri amavomereza kuti nthawi zambiri zimaphatikizidwa ndi mwana - pambuyo pa zonse, mumagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zakuthupi ndi zamaganizidwe pakupanga mwana mkati mwanu. Zikawa, atabereka amayi a azimayi ofuulawo, ma hoytedi enieni nthawi zambiri amachitika, ndikupita ku matenda osokoneza bongo. Inde, amayi a Surlotet amalandira ndalama zake, koma ludzu lauzimu lomwe limakhalabebe moyo, lomwe ndichifukwa chake akazi okhaokha amagwirizana pa mimba yachiwiriyi yachitatu.
Ndi chiyani, kukhala ndi pakati?
Inde, zimachitika ndipo uyu - mkazi akusunthira chidwi ndi njirayo, ngakhale atakhala amayi "okha." Amayi oterewa amafotokoza nkhani za nthawi yomwe imagwirizana ndi makolo amtsogolo kunja kwa maboti owonjezera, mayi nthawi zambiri samawopa kuti amatha kunyenga. Komabe, milanduyi, m'malo mwake, kupatula malamulowo - mgwirizano umatha pakati pa perma, a booripheti ndi pakatikati pa kubereka, kotero mikhalidwe yosasinthika imachitika. Akazi omwe ali ndi mwayi nthawi yabwino kwambiri m'moyo amavomerezanso kudziwitsa ena makasitomala atsopano kangapo, pomwe thanzi limalola.