Amayi ambiri amakonda kumalimbitsa ubale ndi munthu yemwe sanakhale zaka zochepa, koma khumi ndi awiri. Monga lamulo, atsikana achichepere amakonda kuyanjana. Akatswiri amisala m'mawu amodzi amati vuto la azimayi oterolo lili m'mayanjano ndi Atate, ndipo mwina chifukwa cha abambo okhwima amakhala kusowa kwa abambo m'moyo wa mkazi.
Tiyeni tiyesetse kudziwa mosamala kwambiri kuposa amuna odziwa zambiri "ogwidwa" achichepere okongola.
Mwamuna akhoza kupanga maloto
Monga lamulo, munthu wa m'badwo amakhala ndi zokumana nazo zokhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso zida zokwanira kuti zikhutirire pafupifupi wina aliyense. "Ma bonasi ofanana" okhudzana ndi maubwenzi ngati maginito amakopa atsikana achichepere omwe sangathe kukhala ndi moyo wabwino m'njira zinanso. Kuphatikiza apo, munthu wamkulu amadziwa kupanga mkazi kukhala womasuka mu kampani yake komanso m'malo mwake.
Mzimayi akuyang'ana munthu wa bambo wake
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"Ababa"
Amuna ena amakonda atsikana ang'onoang'ono, chifukwa ndizosavuta kukopa: mayi wamkulu sangapite pa mnzake chifukwa cha zomwe mwakumana nazo, ndipo ndi theka laling'ono ndizosavuta kupeza chilankhulo chimodzi, munthu amamuuza mkazi wake. Atsikana omwe adakulira m'banjamo popanda bambo, amavomereza mwakufuna kwathu ubalewo ndikumvetsera kwa munthuyu.
Kodi zogonana zili bwanji ndi kusiyana kwakukulu mu ukalamba?
Kwambiri, zonse zimatengera kutentha kwa onse awiri - ngakhale amuna azaka amatha kukhala ndi chidwi ndi atsikana achichepere kuposa atsikana ang'onoang'ono, motero sikofunikira kudalira kokha pazaka zanyumba. Komabe, mzimayi yemwe amathandizidwa ndi zaka 30, zofunsa zake zikukula ndi mtundu wa kugonana, momwemonso mnzawo amene ali kuyambira 45 mpaka pano, amakhala ovuta kuyang'ana m'maso mwa mkazi wokongola.
Mwamuna wotere akhoza kupereka
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Kodi chiyembekezo chokhudza ubale chotere ndi chiyani?
Tikuganiza kuti simuyenera kufotokozera kuti si chinthu chofanana kukhala bambo pa 20, 35 mpaka 50. Mkazi nthawi zonse amawona kuti bambo ndi momwe angakhalire atate wa ana ake, ngakhale ataganiza zokhudzana ndi banja, kuwunika kumachitika mu chikumbumtima. Munthu Womwe 'Adzayima Pamiyendo "amatha kupereka mayi, ndi ana ake amtsogolo kuchokera kwa iye, komanso bata lake nthawi zambiri limabwera ndi zokumana nazo komanso zaka. Chifukwa chake, kusankha kwa atsikana zaka 20-25 nthawi zambiri kumagwa kwa amuna kwa 40, omwe ali ndi mikhalidwe yonse yofunikira komanso "mabonasi" kukhala moyo wabwino. Komabe, atsikana ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti ngati amuna makumi anayi akadali ndi moyo wamng'ono, ndiye kuti ali ndi zaka zambiri amakhala ndi nsanje ndipo akutuluka nsanje Kuchokera kwa mwamunayo.