Lero tikambirana chitsanzo chotsatira cha loto la maloto a munthu, osowa, komanso mokoma mtima komanso zosangalatsa.
"Moni, werengani cholembera chanu, ndidaganiza zolemba. Chowonadi ndi chakuti maloto omwe ndimalota amakwaniritsidwa, koma osati momwe ndawonera.
1. Wolota kuti wophika wanga anali kuyendetsa pa njinga yamoto ndipo patali kwambiri, kapena pansi pa ngoloyo, kapena pansi pa sitimayo, m'masiku ochepa. Zaka ziwiri, ndikutsimikiza kuti sikugwira ntchito, kunatsekedwa chifukwa chakuti iye anawoka iye ndi ngolo. Ndipo kwinakwake ngakhale sabata limodzi, ophika ngodya adakwera mozungulira ngoloyo ndipo pamsewu wotentheka unagwera pa njinga yamoto. Mwamwayi, zimawononga popanda kuvulala.
2. Wokhala wolota posachedwa: ndimakhala muofesi, mwachisawawa, ndikugwirizanitsa ophika, ndi mawu oti: "Ndi inu, mlongo wanu akufuna kuyankhula (sakudziwa zanga Mlongo amadziwa nambala yake ya foni) ". Komanso, amayamba kundidandaula kwa Atate wake, yemwe wamwalira zaka 12 zapitazo, kuti iye samamvetsera komanso nthawi zambiri amakhala ngati mwana wopanda pake. Panthawi yokambirana iyi, ndinali ndi vuto kuti sindinakhale ndi mpweya wokwanira, ndiye kuti, adasankha, nditatha, "ndinakuchenjezani", ndidadzuka.
Kudzuka kudadzifunsa funso kuti: Ndi chiyani ndipo ndi ndani amene ndinachenjeza ... Tsopano ndikuyembekezera zomwe zidzachitike. "
Pachikhalidwe, mu mzerewu, ndimayesetsa kuwonetsa uthenga wa kugona uku, momwe zimawonekera kuchokera kumbali, pokhapokha pamalingaliro a nkhaniyi. Pakadali pano ndidzasankha kuyeserera kwa maloto, makamaka ndi loto lake lachiwiri.
Tiyeni tiye. Ndikukhulupirira kuti "mneneri" amangidwa makamaka ndi malingaliro a Clairvoyant, ndiye kuti, ndi luso lakelo kudziwa, kulosera, kulosera, kulosera za tsogolo. Maloto oyambawa akuwonekeratu kuchokera ku nambala iyi.
Koma tsopano za maloto achiwiri ndi kuyesa. Psychopoysissisy Stephen Laberg, yemwe adalemba buku la "Njira Ya Maloto Ozindikira" Mwachitsanzo, mu umodzi woyesera wake, mutuwo adalota maloto odulira mutu pambale, ndipo zidapezeka kuti pakugona m'khosi mwake adadzaza ndi buku lolondola. zomwe adawerenga asanagone. M'maloto, zomwe zimamverera zathupi izi zidawoneka mu chiwembu chowonjezeredwa. Koma nkhaniyo sikanadziwa za izi ngati sanauze owonera kuti agone. Mwina zingakhale mukuganiza kuti malotowa amatanthauza chiyani. Nthawi yomweyo, laberg anaphunzitsadi madi ake kuti azindikire yekha m'maloto, osadzuka. Kenako mutha kukhala mkati mwazinthu zotanuka kwambiri, zosinthika, zopanda malire, zokhala zopanda malire, kulumikizana ndi kuthekera kwanu mwachindunji, kuti muzindikire nokha komanso uthenga wa maloto anu pakadali pano.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti loto lachiwiri la maloto athu limamutumikira monga kuyitanidwa kosangalatsa kwa dziko lapansi la maloto adziwitsidwa. Mlongo wagona mkati, ndipo koposa zonse, mawu ake ndi okhudzidwa ndi omwe angakhalepo ndi malingaliro olondola kwambiri odziwa zambiri za iwo eni, komanso njira zofunikira, kuzindikira komanso zochita.
Malonjezo a maloto osazindikira amakula ngati luso, chifukwa chomwe mungafotokozere maloto anu panthawi yomwe mwawona, koma osadzuka. Asayansi atsimikizira kuti tikawona maloto, ntchito ya ubongo ndizokwera kuposa nthawi yauka, chifukwa chake, kugona tulo, pali mipata yambiri yodziwira mavuto awo.
Tsopano kubwerera ku loto lathu komanso kuyeserera kwa ine. Mutha kupatsa gulu lanu lanzeru: "Chikumbumtima chambiri nditagona, onetsetsani kuti ndadzuka tulo, ndidakumbukira ndikudzidziwitsa kaye pakadali pano." Izi zikachitika, malotowo amatha kugona ndikumvetsetsa kuti akumva kugona, kuyesa, kufunsa mafunso Kodi maloto awa ndi ati, amalankhulana ndi ogona, m'maloto, chilichonse chomwe chimabwera m'maganizo. Tikufuna zabwino zonse! Yesani inu!
Ndikudabwa zomwe mumalota? Zitsanzo za maloto anu kutumiza ndi makalata: [email protected]. Mwa njira, maloto ndiosavuta kufotokoza ngati mu kalata yopita kwa mkonzi womwe mudzalemba nthawi ya moyo, koma koposa zonse - malingaliro ndi malingaliro panthawi ya kudzutsidwa m'maloto.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin