Atsikana Odzichepetsa Amayambitsa Kuchita Mwamuna, ndipo Paulo adafunafuna kuti azungulira mtsikana wosamalira ndi kuteteza ku mavuto, koma ngati munthuyo mwiniyo ali wamanyazi, zinthu zake ndi zosiyana kwathunthu. Mwamuna amene nkovuta kuwonetsa ntchito zomwe sizikhudzidwa ndi ubalewo ndipo nthawi zambiri amayambitsa ndiye woyambitsa. Komabe, izi sizitanthauza kuti munthu wamanyazi ayenera kulembedwa: Wokhala naye wodekha amatha kumva kwambiri komanso, monga lamulo, amadzipereka kwa theka, muyenera kudziwa momwe mungayandikirire.
Momwe mungadziwire?
Chofunikira kwambiri si kusuntha mwamunayo, ndipo ngati mungopereka mtsikana wamphamvu, kupondereza wolumala ndi wosavuta kuposa wosavuta. Nthawi zambiri, anyamata amanyazi amatambasulira azimayi omwe ali ndi mikhalidwe ya utsogoleri, kuti amange ubale momwe onse amakhala osagwirizana, ndiye ngakhale kusangalala. Komanso amuna omvera amasankha azimayi omwe ali ovuta kuwongolera chipilalacho chansanje, ndicho chifukwa chake munthu wodya nyama yemwe sangayang'ane ma advent mbali - njira yabwino.
Chifukwa chake, malamulo akulu olumikizirana ndi munthu woganiza bwino:
Mwamuna wotere wokuzungulirani
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Palibenso matoni akuthwa
Ngati mukungoyamba kukumana, cholinga chanu chachikulu ndikukwaniritsa chidaliro chake, choncho yesani kupewa miyambo ndi mphamvu m'mawu anga: Mwamuna amangotseka ndikuyamba kukusankhani. Ndipo muyenera kutsegulidwa kwathunthu.
Osakondwera nazo
Kumbukirani kuti palibe amene amabadwa wamanyazi, vuto lonse la zochitika zakale, kotero munthu wanu wowoneka bwino kapena munthu wowoneka bwino amatha kusintha munthu wokhudza inu, ndipo sikuyenera kuwerengera pomanga maubale ena. Khalani ochezeka.
Mpatseni "kupuma"
Atsikana, omwe amakonda kuwongolera ndikusunga dzanja pakhumba, amangotha "kukatakatira" ndi ludzu lawo ndipo nthawi ya mnzake nthawi yakhala tsopano. Munthu si katundu wanu, ayenera kukhala ndi ufulu wosankha momwe angafunire kuti athe kupeza nthawi - ndi inu kapena anzanu.
Mpatseni mwayi
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Osakhala Frank
Inde, amuna amasangalatsa ndi mitu ya apamtima, koma zonse zimatengera munthu wina. Ngati mukudziwa kuti kapangidwe kanu ndikosavuta kusokoneza, simuyenera kuziyika pamalo ovuta munthu wofatsa m'malo ovuta mwa anthu.