Mkazi aliyense akufuna thandizo mu maubale ndipo kawirikawiri omwe anganene kuti ulemu mu awiriwo ndi pamalo omaliza. Komabe, nthawi zambiri ndi mayiyo nthawi imodzi mpaka kamodzi polumikizana ndi munthu yemwe sayika wokondedwa wawo. Mzimayi amayamba kuwoneka kuti onse mwa onse amuna onse amachita chimodzimodzi ndipo pali zosankha ziwiri pano - ngakhale kuti mkazi wachita manyazi, kapena kukhumudwitsidwa ndi anthu. M'malo mwake, azimayi ngati amenewo amakopa amuna otere pochita pulogalamu inayake. Zomwe izi zimachitika, tinaganiza zopezera.
Zabwino = Freelyachacter
Limodzi mwa zifukwa zodziwika bwino zomwe amayi sizimasamala za munthu yemwe angafotokozeredwe mu mawu - wokongola. Koma ndi mtundu wotere womwe umathana ndi moyo wa mkazi wanu ndipo nthawi zonse adzawapulumutsa, mutha kunena, thandizo labwino. M'malo mwake, azimayi ambiri omwe amakumana ndi munthu akufuna kuthawa, koma nthawi yomweyo amawapatsa tanthauzo lenileni, koma nthawi yomweyo amawalitsa zofewa, umatha kuwona kuti machitidwe oterewa ndi muzu molakwika, womwe umakhala molakwika. Zotsatira zake, mayiyo amaphonya munthu woyenera kwenikweni, amakonda kumanga ubale ndi munthu wodzikuza komanso wopanda chidwi naye, zomwe pamapeto pake zimabweretsanso mavuto.
Ndi wokongola kwambiri
Palibe chodabwitsa kuti osayanjanitsira ena osayanjanitsika amadziwa bwino kukana, monga akazi enieni kwenikweni amadzionera kudzidalira, komwe kumachokera kwa amuna oterowo. Mwanjira ina, mkazi amagwirizanitsa munthu wotereyu ndi village kuchokera m'makanema kapena m'mabuku, kumangosangalatsa munthu wovuta kwenikweni. Ndikofunikira kudzipatula zenizeni ndi nthano ndikumvetsetsa kuti kusazindikira m'maso mwa bwenzi lenileni akuti kuyanjana kwatsala pang'ono kulephera, chifukwa ndizosatheka kusintha wamkulu, makamaka ngati sakufuna sinthani.
Ulemu - maziko mu ubale
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Wokongola Maniputor
Monga tidanenera, munthu yemwe sadana ndi chidwi cha azimayi amasiya chidwi chotere ndipo amatanthauza, pokhulupirira kuti mkazi ayenera kumuthokoza chifukwa chomumvera chisoni kuti adzamumvera. Kuchokera apa, kusakondwa kwambiri ndi komwe mkazi amayamba kuvutika ndipo sayesa kuyankha china chilichonse, chomwe chimamenya munthu kwambiri, kutembenuza ubalewo ku gehena. Mayipitor amakhala olondola nthawi zonse, molondola, iye yekha ndi amene ali ndi ufulu wolankhula ndikupanga zisankho, mkazi ayenera kuyenera kuvomereza. Poyamba, ubale woterowo pakati pa wokondedwa umamuwona ngati munthu ngati chiwonetsero cha anthu komanso chidaliro, koma popita nthawi, umunthu wake ukulemphana kwambiri, osalola kuti ukhale nawo mbali yolumikizirana.
Kudzidalira kochepa kumakopa anthu "olakwika"
Nthawi zambiri amuna ankhanza amakhala banja la mkazi yemwe sakudziwa kuti angapeze wina wabwino. Monga mukumvetsetsa, chifukwa chomwe zili pachiwopsezo chake chimakhala chodziyesa kwambiri cha mkazi. Khalidwe lotereli limapangidwa ndi ubwana, mtsikanayo akakhala ndi kholo lokhwima lomwe amalanda zonse ndikuphimba dziko lakunja. Nthawi zambiri, mkazi wokhala ndi moyo amakhalabe ndi kumvetsetsa kuti payenera kukhala munthu amene adzathetse mavuto, ngakhale atakhala bwanji wokha.