Mutha kutsutsana ndi ife mopanda malire, koma tili ndi gawo limodzi: yankho lotha kusintha kapena ayi aliyense amatenga nthawi m'moyo wamuyaya. Palibenso chidakwa kapena chovala cham'songole kapena "zowoneka bwino" sizingakhudze lingaliro la Yemwe amakonda kwambiri wokondedwa wawo ndi mtsikana kapena mkazi. Chifukwa chake tikufuna kukufotokozerani mawu omwe atsikana ndi anyamata amadzilungamitsa kuti achite chiwembu kuti atsegule maso awo ndikukonzekera zomwe zingachitike ndi aliyense. Kutulutsa kamodzi - pitani mu Chingerezi.
"Anafika pa mchira, koma anayang'ana m'maso"
Amayi amakonda kuwona mbizinesi yomwe ingachitike njoka, zomwe zimafuna kupambana okwatirana nawo. Ndizabwino ngati mumayamikira munthu wanu ndi kunyadira zomwe akuwoneka bwino, zimapezeka ndipo zimafunikira kwa azimayi ena. Ndikhulupirireni, iyenso akumvetsetsa chilichonse, koma sichisintha kokha chifukwa mtsikanayo yemwe amakonda pafupi naye. Kudziona nokha komanso kukhazikika kwa moyo wanu, nthawi zambiri mumagwiritsa ntchito mfundo zomveka pankhani ya mamvedwe ake. Amatha kumukonda kwambiri kunja, koma amamvetsetsa kuti simungakhale oyipa kwambiri ngati mukusamaliridwa ndi thupi lanu ndipo nthawi zambiri mumapita kwa ojambula, komanso ndi dziko lamkati ndipo muli ndi kena koti musalankhule. Chifukwa chake amalankhula nanu za momwe mungakhalire bwino kuposa kupita ku nkhandwe za mnzanu komanso bwenzi lanu.
Kupatula apo, akudziwa kuti simungathe kupita kulikonse - sichoncho?
"Onse Amafuna Ndalama Kwa Iye, Chifukwa chake amakwera"
Ngati muwona munthu wanu ngati chikwata chokhala ndi ndalama, ndi nthawi yoti muganizire za momwe mumamuonera. Kodi mukuopa kutaya - chikondi kapena chuma? Zikuonekeratu kuti ndi zaka za amuna, adzakwaniritsa ma akaunti awo a kubanki, omwe angakhale ndi azimayi okhala ndi udindo wokhala ndi chikhalidwe. Koma kodi mnzanu samamvetsetsa momwe amachitira ngati ali ndi luso lopeza chuma? Posintha, akudziwa bwino zomwe zimatero, ndipo sakambirana mwachangu, osafuna kubweretsa zovuta pakupeza mnzanu watsopano kuti abwerere mkazi wake, zomwe zimafunikira ndalama zokha. Kupatula apo, akudziwa kuti simungathe kupita kulikonse - sichoncho?
"Zachidziwikire, apa pali moyo wabanja, ndipo ndipo pali zosangalatsa"
M'magazini a akazi ndi kuphunzitsidwa, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovomerezeka kuti ngakhale atabereka mwana, muyenera kukhalabe ndi bwenzi limodzi ndikuyesa kutaya msanga, zikadakhala kuti sanakwanitse. Pofunsidwa, nyenyezi zambiri zimafotokoza zomwe zimayambitsa kusudzulana kuti mkazanga adawawona ndi zinthu zapakhomo pomwe amafuna kunyumba kuti angopuma. Koma sichoncho mu banja lino? Palibe mkazi, ngati ali bwino ndi mutu wake, sadzayang'anira munthu akamayesetsa kumuthandiza ngati zingatheke ndikumakhala ndi ana m'malo modya TV. Tonse tatopa, koma zofooka zokhazokha zimatha kumbali yosavuta kuyanjana, ndipo anthu wamba ali ndi udindo wopanga ana ndi kuthandizira mnzake.
"Sindine Wokwanira Kugonana"
Kodi amuna ambiri amapita kukaphunzitsira pa Cunniuni? M'miyambo yambiri, nthawi yamakamwa yochokera kwa amuna amadziwika kuti amanyazitsa. Koma azimayi ndi chinthu choyamba kuthamanga kuti aphunzire luso la mkamwa kuti akwaniritse mnzake. Tikulankhula kwambiri za zoyipa mwa ife, koma sitimvera zolakwa za wokondedwayo. M'malo mongodzitcha nokha, kambiranani naye, ngati muli ndi zonse, ndipo mungakonde kukonza. Ndipo Cuble cimakhala popeza zotengera zatsopano ndi kunjenjemera, zomwe mukukumana nazo, zokhala pabedi ndi wokondedwa watsopano. Koma okondwerera, tsoka, akupita, ndipo zonse zibwera. Ngati simugwira ntchito yogonana, ngakhale chithunzi cha masewera kwambiri komanso chotupa chachikulu chiyenera kutopa.
Tikulankhula kwambiri za zoyipa mwa ife, koma osasamala zolakwa za wokondedwayo
"Mwina adamusunga"
Ndipo m'malo omaliza adzakhala chifukwa chomwe timakonda - chiwembu chobisika. Kukhumudwa kwa mawu awa ndi kudziwikire, koma mkazi wachikondi akhoza kukhulupirira chilichonse ngati chitha kusiya ubongo akafika paubwenzi wake. Lekani kukhulupilira miyambo yobisalira ndi zinsinsi zomwe zikuwonetsedwa mu mapulogalamu a TV, chifukwa asayansi aliwonse angakuuzeni kuti zochita ngati izi zilibe chifukwa. Chitani ndi wamisala, koma musalole kuti arlatalwala apangitse ndalama.
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