Pafupifupi banja lililonse, limabwera kamphindi kakang'ono, lingaoneke ngati ana, ngakhale posachedwa chisamaliro komanso chisamaliro, kukula. Nthawi zambiri amafuna kutenga zisankho zawo zodziyimira pawokha, kusankha maphunziro awo mumzinda kapena dziko lina, pangani banja lawo latsopano. Pamabwera gawo losiyana ndi nyumba ya makolo. Ngakhale kuti chilengedwechi, chimadutsa nthawi zambiri kwa aliyense. Chifukwa chiyani zimachitika komanso momwe mungapewere?
"Chisa 'Chopanda Chisa' ndi ndani amene amavutika
Kusamalira ana muukulu kumabweretsa makolo kusasangalala kwambiri, kuwonongeka, kumveka kwa chisoni chachikulu, nthawi zina kukhumudwitsa, kusamvana, kuopa kusintha kusintha, kupanda mphamvu.
Zonsezi zimatha kuyambitsa kukhumudwa mosavuta. Vuto la zamaganizidwe limatchedwa "chisa chopanda kanthu syndrome." Pafupifupi, makolo amavutika ndi miyezi ingapo mpaka zaka zingapo.
Ambiri molakwika amati azimayi okhaokha. Komabe, m'nthawi zina, bambo amadwala matendawa sakhala ochepera.
Nadezhda Korneeva - Mphunzitsi Wogulitsa, Wogulitsa Wamtundu Wanu, Wotsimikizika Padziko Lonse, Katswiri wa Ana
Momwe mungachotsere syndrome
Kodi ndizotheka kufewetsa zokumana nazo za makolo? Kodi amphamvu amapeza kuti akapulumuka "matenda a chisa chabwino"?
Choyambirira kuchitira amayi onse ndi abambo kuti akonzekere nthawi yayitali pasadakhale. Mutha kuyamba ndi zaka zaunyamata wa mwana akadali nanu. Koma sizokhudza kusachita, koma za kusamutsidwa kwa chidziwitso. Phunzirani moyo wodziyimira pawokha wa mwana: Momwe mungasungire bajeti, momwe mungapangire moyo, momwe mungakhalire oyang'anira nokha ndi ena. Nthawi zina izi zimafunikira kwa makolo kuposa ana. Ikuchepetsa alamu ndi kufooketsa chikhumbo cha kubwezeretsa kwathunthu. Mfundo yachiwiri ndiyofunika kuganizira za moyo wawo watsopano, kubwezeretsa zolumikizana zofananira, zosangalatsa, yang'anani ophunzira atsopano.
Ngati "chisa chopanda kanthu" chinadabwitsani, musataye mtima. Chinthu choyamba chomwe mungadzichitire nokha ndikuyesera kuti muchite zinthu monga momwe ziliri, ndi malingaliro onse (achisoni komanso opanda pake, osakhazikika). Izi zimagwira ntchito kwa akazi okha, komanso amuna.
Maubwenzi pakati pa okwatirana amatha kuchulukitsa kapena, m'malo mwake, kufikira gawo latsopano la kuyandikana. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuyima, musadziyendere patsogolo m'mawu anu, kumayang'ana pozungulira, mwina, kuphunzira kuyankhulananso, kudalira malamulo a mabanja.
Yakwana nthawi yoti muyambe kuphunzira chatsopano, kumbukirani zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda, zomwe nthawi zonse zimakhala zopanda nthawi. Mutha kubwera ndi miyambo yatsopano: mwachitsanzo, Lachisanu lililonse kuti mugule maluwa kapena zipatso zapadera, chilichonse chomwe chimakhala chovuta. Mutha kubwereranso ku maloto oiwala komwe mudakana, kutaya mphamvu ndi zinthu zolera. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kugula galu yemwe mumalakalaka, koma sanathe, chifukwa mwanayo anali ndi ziwengo, kapena kupita ku Bali.
Ngati mukumvetsetsa izi zopepuka nkhawa, ndipo simukumvanso mwayi wothana ndi vuto lanu, muyenera kulumikizana ndi katswiri wazamisala.
Pamodzi epilogue .... "Chisa" chopanda "chimagogoda nawo makolo chifukwa cha chizolowezi. Koma zitha kuonedwa ngati gawo lochokera ku boma lina losangalala ndi lina, ngati mwayi wakudzaza moyo wanu modabwitsa ndikuzijambula ndi mitundu yowala.