Lero ndikanakondanso kufunsa ndalama, ndizothandiza kwambiri komanso zosatha. M'ndinzanizo ndidalemba za njira zosiyanasiyana zoperekera za bajeti ya banja - omwe amapeza, ndipo ndani amasankha zomwe amagwiritsa ntchito, komanso momwe zimakhudzira ntchito zabanja. Lero ndidzapatsa malangizo amomwe angapewere mikangano yokhudza ndalama.
Chifukwa chake, choyambirira, payenera kukhala malamulo ofanana komwe ndalama zimagawidwa. Ayenera kufotokozedwa ndi banja lonse kuti akhale omveka kwa aliyense. Mwachitsanzo, ngati makolo amapatsa mwana ndalama, ayenera kuonekera ngati ndalamayo ndi thumba lake, lomwe limapeza kamodzi pamwezi, kapena izi ndi mphotho yakumvera ndi makalata abwino.
Kenako, muyenera kusankha tsiku limodzi kwakanthawi kokambirane ndalama. Tiyerekeze kuti tsiku limodzi chaka chilichonse, miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kapena miyezi iwiri. Zili patsikuli (koma osadziwanso wina aliyense) angafotokozeredwe ndikumadandaula. Onse achibale - ndikupezatu, ndipo osapezanso, komanso makolo, ndipo ana ayenera kungoyerekeza momwe banja limakhalira m'tsogolo.
Ndikofunikira kuti achibale onse am'banja amagwirizana ndi zomwe zimapanga zisankho pogawidwa ndalama ndikutsatira mgwirizanowu.
Tsopano, pomaliza, kodi ndizofanana bwanji? Chowonadi ndi chakuti mavuto ambiri am'banja amatengera kwa makolo. Chifukwa chake, chifukwa chomwe mikangano yake imamveka yosafunafuna osati mwa wokondedwa wake, koma mwa makolo. Palibe chomwe chimakhudza akazi okwatirana ngati kukhalapo kwa mdani wamba. Makolo anu angapangitse banja lanu kukhala losangalala, kukhala chandamale chotsutsa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwalumikizidwa, simukufuna kugawana ndalama zanu ndi akazi anu kapena kukana kupereka mphatso, zimachitika chifukwa mwachitika chifukwa choti mwakula: abambo anu sanakupatseni chilichonse kapena mayiyo amakonda kuchitira chifundo.. . Zonsezi ndi zifukwa zabwino kwambiri zowolowa manja kwanu kosakwanira.
Nthawi zambiri mabanja, m'modzi mwa okwatirana amakhala mzimu, ndipo inayo ndi trans. Kuposa chinthu chimodzi chimakhala chimodzi, chimakhala china. Izi zimachitika kawirika chilichonse pachionetsero, kapena kulipirira wina ndi mnzake. Kuti zisatuluke asanakhale ndi chisudzulo, m'modzi mwa okwatirana ayenera kusintha machitidwe panthawi inayo. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wake amasula mkazi wake amatsatira nthawi iliyonse amagula chinthu chamtengo wapatali kuti chigule chinthu china chosafunikira kwambiri. Pakatha milungu ingapo, zotsatira zake zimakhala zodziwikiratu. :)
Munkhaniyi, ndinadalira zinthu za American psychotherapist Clon.