Malinga ndi ziwerengero, oposa theka la omwe akhudzidwa ndi anzawo omwe ali pachiwopsezo amakana kuona zenizeni. Zikuwoneka kuti nthawi yomwe nthawi yosasangalatsa m'moyo wawo yatsala pang'ono kutha, makamaka ikupitilira mpaka itafunika kuyanjana ndi nkhanza. Kupeza Mphamvu kuti muswe ubale wowopsa komanso wowononga ndikovuta kwambiri, makamaka ngati munthu sanawone chitsanzo chambiri. Koma ndiwe wokhoza kuzindikira munthu yemwe mtsogolomo adzakukondani, ngakhale usanayambe chibwenzi chachikulu. Kodi Mungachite Bwanji? Tiuza izi lero ndikuuzeni.
Palibe ulemu pa awiri anu
Moyenereratu pali ulemu, koma mnzake amamufuna, pang'onopang'ono nthawi yomweyo kuti akulemekezeni. Maganizo a wokondedwa wa wozunzidwayo samangoganizira chifukwa chongofunikira sichofunikira, cholinga chake ndikudzitengera kutsutsana ndi mnzake wofooka. Mwamuna wotereyu ndi wogontha chifukwa cha zomwe mkazi wake ndi wosasiyidwa kuchokera kwa mnzake nthawi yomweyo amapendedwa nthawi yomweyo - pambuyo pake ali ndi ufulu wovota mwa awiri okha.
Palibe zokambirana
Pamene tangonena, pali mawu a TIRA kuvota, chifukwa, monga lamulo, palibe zokambirana zomwe zili mu awiri. Panthawi yoyambirira yaubwenzi, munthu wotere akuyesera kuimba mlandu wokhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mnzake, amalola upangiri wina, koma pamapeto pake, imayambabe kusankha. Uli pafupi kwambiri banja, wamphamvu limafinya "chinyengo". Nthawi ina, mayiyo amadziwa kuti iye adzaponderezedwa mwachangu.
Ozunzidwawo sikokwanira kuthyola ubalewu.
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Kuwongolera kulikonse
Mwamuna akuyesera kukhazikitsa mphamvu Yake pa mkazi, nthawi zonse kumayambiriro kapena pambuyo pake kumayamba kuwongolera. Ndikofunikira pano kumvetsetsa kuti ngakhale koyamba kuwoneka, mauthenga opatsa mwayi mphindi makumi awiri aliwonse, mukapumula ndi anzanu, ndiye woyamba "kuyitanidwa koyamba". Mwamuna amaphunzitsa chidwi chake m'moyo wanu ngati njira yokutetezani ndikusunga pamavuto. Koma cholinga chenicheni cha zolinga zake mudzazindikira pambuyo pake.
Okonda phantom
Wankhanza wamwamuna ndi nsanje modabwitsa. Maganizo aliwonse ochokera kwa munthu wakunja ndi woyambitsa - saziletsa zomwe mungaganizire zomwe mungasinthe kwa munthu wina. Kulephera kwa munthu wotere - chinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe chingachitike. Ichi ndichifukwa chake zikukula bwino zenizeni komanso mawonekedwe okayikitsa pa maubale anu onse ndi amuna ena. Monga lamulo, munthu wovutitsa mwamuna amayamba kuwonetsa nsanje yamphamvu muubwenzi.