- Olga Nikolaevna, ndi mavuto ati omwe akubwera kwa inu?
- Gulu ili la anthu lidzatcha "m'badwo wa Zakachikwi", pamene adagonjetsa njanji ya Millelenium, kukhala mwana. Ndipo tsopano anthu ali ndi zaka 20 mpaka 35.
Mwambiri, kugundana konse kwa madera awo kumatha kuchepetsedwa mpaka mphindi zitatu, woyamba ndi ubale ndi akazi ake, ndipo chifaniziro chawo ndi chisonyezo chachitatu wamphamvu kwambiri. Zotsatira zake - adachoka kumaso pakhoma ndipo osayenda kulikonse.
- Zambiri?
- Ndidasankha mfundo zazikulu kwambiri. Ndikutaya tanthauzo la moyo, kutayika, kutayika kwa kufuna, komanso kutsutsana. Nayi muyezo womwe umakhala lero.
Koma iyi si vuto lalikulu. Zotsatira zake zopezeka mu kafukufuku akuti lero ndi m'badwo wa anthu, zomwe zimakhudza kusokonezeka kwa narcacion.
Gulani! Matenda a Narciscal omwe ambiri a Psychoanalyts amalankhula, pakati pa mnyamatayu, katatu kuposa m'badwo wa anthu achikulire. Ziwerengero zikuwonetsa kuti ophunzira omwe amafunsidwa mu 2009 ndiosavuta kuposa 50% poyerekeza ndi ophunzira 1982. Mavuto ena onse omwe ndidalemba pamwambapa ndi maziko a m'badwo wa mikhalidwe yowonjezereka mu nyengo yamakono ya Narcissism wa munthu.
- Munthu wokongola, akumangoganizira iye yekha - kodi nkwabwino?
- Zikuwoneka kuti uku ndi matenda opanda vuto. Zakatolenialys zimatanganidwa kwambiri ndi ulemu, ndipo izi zimatitsimikizira kuti sangafune kugwira ntchito konse, zomwe sizikuyenera. Ambiri aiwo akumva m'manda awo, amakhala okonzeka kukhala othandizira munthu wodziwika, kuti azindikire. Sali odzidalira chifukwa chodzifunira, amakhala ndi chitsimikizo kuti ali ndi chiyembekezo chawo. Nthawi zambiri amakula bwino zizindikiro zawo, kupambana kwawo, ndipo izi zimachitika chifukwa chakuti, popeza popeza anali ana, adalandira zokwezeka zambiri, mphotho zambiri. Makolo ndi sukulu sizinapangitse zochitika zomwe zingachitike, kuthana ndi zovuta zomwe zimafunikira ngati injini yolimbikitsa kwa munthu. Milikatianolys ndi aulesi kwambiri komanso wosangalatsa, chifukwa cholimbikitsidwa chomwe chizikhala chopambana.
Apa mbali imeneyi imachokera kuti ambiri atakomoka kwa makolo ndi chilichonse. Kodi Mungatani Kuti Muyesere?
Mikateinialys amangokhala okha pakali pano komanso ku m'badwo wawo, amakhala paubwenzi, ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti ali ndi zikhalidwe zawo ndi m'badwo wawo. Koma ali ofanana pakati pawo, akukhala m'maiko osiyanasiyana. Kuphatikiza pa zomwe zalembedwazo, ziyenera kudziwika kuti nthumwi za m'badwo wa Zakachikwi zikuyenera kukhala ndi udindo ndikupewa kuzilingalira mosavuta. Sali orudite, ali ndi chidwi chokhazikika pamavuto, malangizo, malingaliro. Milikanialys sakonda kupanga zisankho, koma nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mikhalidwe yambiri komanso yabwino.
- Pambuyo pake pamwambapa, alinso ndi mikhalidwe yabwino?
- Mibadwo ya Milikari imatchedwa m'badwo woyamba wotsatira womwe umathandizira kucheza ndi makolo awo, komwe safuna kupatukana. Nthawi zambiri chifukwa chodalira abambo ndi amayi. Sali ankhanza, osamala kwambiri, makilomita, akumwetulira, alibe mavuto, amadziwika ndi chikhumbo chachikulu chotonthoza moyo ndi chitetezo.
- Ndi funso limodzi lokhalo lomwe limatsalira. Kodi mayiyu amakono amagwirizana ndi mwamuna wokhala ndi makhalidwe amene ali ndi banja?
- Moyo wa mnyamata wamakono ukuyenda kuti asangalale. Ndiwosewerera kwenikweni, monga masewera osiyanasiyana ndipo amakonda kusewera nawo. Chozizwitsa, koma, monga ubwana, masewerawa ayenera kuwathandiza, zomwe zimapanga makonda ambiri omwe amasewera amasewera abizinesi.
Kugonana kumakhalanso pamasewera awo osiyanasiyana, ndi njira yokongola popanda zotsatira, yomwe mankhwala amakono asamalira. Amalengeza moona mtima kuti akufuna kukhala ndi banja, ana, koma sanatenge gawo limodzi. Slogan of Millenialov: "Chifukwa chiyani masiku ano zomwe mungachite tsiku litatha mawa!"
- Ngati akuyesetsa kwambiri kusangalala, amagwira ntchito bwanji pamenepo? Kodi mumakonda kuchita chiyani?
- Ntchito iliyonse iyenera kudutsa ndikuwapulumutsa. Amadzitchera m'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti: "Ndimakhala ku Jamaica, ndimapita ku T-sheti yofiyira. Kupumula ndi kuwononga dzuwa - ntchito yanga! " Amuna amakono amayenda kwambiri, amadzifunira mosangalala, amasangalala kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi mothandizidwa ndi malo ochezera a malo ochezera a panyumba ndi apadera. Zonsezi zikufunika kulumikizana mokha ndikuyankha kuchokera pachilengedwe choyandikana, makamaka kuwonekera komwe kumafunikira chifukwa cha kungoyang'ana komanso mavuto awo osinkhasinkha.
Chifukwa chake, mnyamatayo akupyola mu Kuwala pa dzanja limodzi kukafufuza Iyemwini, mbali ina - kuchokera kwa iye.
Ndipo lingaliro lake la iyemwini limasinthidwa ndi magawo ake a ine ndi mayankho olembedwa pa intaneti.
Ambiri aiwo ali ndi chidwi ndi zidziwitso zilizonse zapafupi, zotchuka, chifukwa pakuzama kwa moyo momwe zimadzimveka bwino komanso zodabwitsa mosiyanasiyana ngakhale mwana wakhanda yemwe alibe zothandizira okhawo.
Anyamata amakonda mitundu yonse ya "zinthu zabwino", "Nyashnya", "Nyashnyny", "Nyashnyny"
Mwambiri, zimawamvetsa chisoni komanso zimawoneka ngati sanakhalepo ndi vuto lililonse, mavuto, mavuto. Mwakutero, amayang'ana kwambiri pansi.
- Kodi nkhaniyi ndi vuto la anthu amakono, kodi pali njira yeniyeni yopulumutsira zomwe zikuchitika kapena zatha?
- Sinthani mavuto a m'badwo womwewo kalelo ndi kovuta ngati simunganene kuti ndizosatheka. Ngakhale akatswiri azamisala omwe tsopano anyamula pakhosi ndi ana otere omwe amapatsidwa makolo poyesa mwanjira inayake kuti sakufuna kuphunzira, kugwira ntchito, koma akungofuna kugunda pa intaneti. Nthawi zambiri, sakwanitsa zambiri, chifukwa Milleninia ali ndi kukana kwamphamvu kusintha ndikugwiritsa ntchito paokha. Ana awa sawona mavuto awo, ali abwino ndipo motero, ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe chingachitike ndikuwasiya okha.
Njira yeniyeni yofalitsira iyi ndikusamalira chikhalidwe cha kulera ana, komwe akuluakulu sayenera kukhala opusa poyesa kupatsa ana awo awiri - mwachidziwikire, wamkuluyu amayenera kukhala wakhanda. Chikondi chaching'ono ndi choyipa, koma zochuluka kwambiri sizili bwino. Mu chikondi cha makolo, zinthu ziyenera kukhalapo, cholinga chokhala ndi ufulu wodziyimira pawokha, kudziyimira pawokha komanso kudalirika kwa mwanayo. Sayenera kulingaliridwa kupitiliza kwa kholo, komwe kholo limadziwa zochulukirapo kuposa mwanayo mwini. Izi zimalepheretsa mwana wa kumverera kwa mtundu wake wapadera wa. Ndipo pankhaniyi, zidzakhala zothandiza kwambiri panthawi yopatula pa moyo wodziyimira pa moyo wodziyimira pa moyo wodziyimira. Akakumana ndi mavuto m'moyo wawo, sadzakhala ndi chisankho china, momwe angamenyere nkhondo yopulumutsira kwawo. Awa amakakamizidwa, koma iyi ndi njira yeniyeni yothetsera vutolo.