- Victoria, mwana wamkazi wa Sherher amene akukubadwirani mphatso yakodi kumwamba. Mwakhala mukumudikirira pafupifupi zaka 13! Kodi mukukumbukira momwe mukumvera mukadziwa kuti posachedwa ndidzakhala amayi?
- Akakhala woyembekezera koyamba zaka 38, popanda kulowererapo kwa chipatala ndi mphatso yakumwamba. Chisangalalocho chimadabwitsa ndipo nthawi yomweyo udindo waukulu wa moyo wa mwana. Ndi ndandanda yathu yopenga ndi moyo wathu waluso, ndimayenera kusintha chilichonse tsiku limodzi. Ndinauluka ndege yoyamba yopita ku Israeli, kwa amayi Anton, asamale ndi kujambula Solo Album ku America.
Kodi ndi chozizwitsa kapena "nthawi yanu yonse"?
- Ndi nthawi yoti munthu wozizwitsa! Masha wathu ndi mwana wamafuta. Mu malingaliro achindunji kwambiri a mawu awa. Tsopano, kupenda zonse zomwe zidatichitikira asanabadwe, tisanakhale osakonzekera kukhala makolo abwino. Ndikukhulupirira kuti tsopano tonse tikukhala tikusintha kwambiri m'maganizo a anthu. Nthawi yomwe kukayikira kuti kuli Mulungu pang'onopang'ono zimayamba kumvetsetsa kuti phwete lathu ndi, njira ina kapena ina, chiwonetsero cha dziko lathu lauzimu. Sindinakhale ndi pakati, ndipo izi ndi zomwe akhala akuchita, malinga ndi madokotala, mkazi wathanzi. A Anton atangomaliza ndi Anthen takhala tikulabadira thanzi lathu la uzimu - Masha adabadwa.
-Ndi imodzi yofunsa mafunso omwe mudawauza kuti nthawi imeneyo mwamuna wanu anali ndi nkhawa za vuto lenileni ... Kodi munathana nazo bwanji?
- Anthu okondana wina ndi amene amakondana amakonzeka kudutsa ngozi zonse pamodzi, mutha kuthana ndi mavuto aliwonse m'moyo wabanja. Timakondana kwambiri. Vuto la chikumbumtima la mnzanga silinali chifukwa chosowa ana, koma chifukwa chokayikira pakukonzanso ntchito. Ndipo chifukwa cha kusowa kwa ana, ndine wovuta kwambiri. Tonse tinamuthandiza kupita ku tawuni yakale ya Bulgaria, m'Kachisi wa Abrahamu Balgaria, komanso kukambirana ndi abambo Vladimir Golovna. Anatithandiza kumvetsetsa izi, poyamba, aliyense ayenera kukhala pamalo ake pomwe Mulungu adatsimikiza, oyenera kukhala ndi moyo ndi zabwino kugwira ntchito. Ngati ndinu wojambula - ndine wokondwa kwa anthu, palibe cholakwika ndi izi. Kachiwiri, atyushka adatilimbitsa kuchokera ku machitidwe a fete, adalangizidwa kuti apemphere tsiku la mwana. Ndipo ine ndinamvera iye, sizinapita ku Eco, ndipo atapemphera miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, Masha adakhala ndi pakati.
- Pa nthawi yoyembekezera, dziko lachikazi loti "likhoza ... ndipo mudakhala bwanji nacho?
- Ndi chiyambi cha mimba, thupi langa limawoneka kuti likuchiritsa. Malinga ndi malingaliro aumwini, ndikuwoneka kuti ndakula zaka 20. Ku Israel, sizachikhalidwe chotcha mkazi ". Palibe amene ali "zoopsa" ine ndi nkhani zoopsa za kubadwa mochedwa. Malingaliro anga, ndizosagwirizana ... Kodi mungamuyitanire mayi wachikulire yemwe angakhale ndi pakati? Pa dziko loyera cholandirira kulikonse ku dokotala - chokha. Mwina ndichifukwa chake mimba yanga yadutsa mosavuta mosavuta, ngakhale panali zovuta ngakhale kwa Israeli m'chilimwe cha 2012. Ngakhale obwereketsa abodza pa masabata atatu kuchokera ku dehydation sanatheretu. Sindinasiye chidaliro chachiwiri kwa wachiwiri kwa mwana wathu zonse zili mu dongosolo! Premetenev, ndinayamba kudya mosiyana. Zinali kumverera kuti Masha andilape kwambiri kuti nkotheka, ndipo zosatheka. Sindinkatha kuwona mimba yonseyo popanda nseru yonse ya anthu onse ndi nsomba zopatsa thanzi, ngakhale chakudya changa chisanachitike makamaka cha nsomba zamchere ndi nyama youma. Ndinayamba kudya zamasamba, zipatso, mtedza, ana, "mabeni" anasunga kabichi ndipo anakonda kwambiri pasika. Zakudya zachilendo zoterezi "zidasokonezeka pang'ono. Koma dokotala Doko, adalangizidwa kuti asapitirize tsankho, ziribe "zilibe kanthu" pali awiri "ndi kuwaza zikhumbo zawo. Pali mayi woyembekezera omwe amafunikira thupi popanda kudzipukusa, ngati sindikufuna kuti ndikhale ndi vuto lokhala ndi tchizi chanyumba ndi zinthu zina zomangirira.
"Victoria, siinu mayi okha, komanso woimba, motero sindili woyimba, ndipo chifukwa chake kulenga." Kodi ndizotheka kuphatikiza magawo awiriwa kapena chifukwa china chomwe ndidakana kukana?
- Ziribe kanthu momwe zimakhalira, koma, chifukwa zidapezeka, kuti zikhale mayi - cholinga changa chofunikira kwambiri. Mkazi akakhala mayi ndikuchita izi moyenera, chilichonse chozungulira chimakhala tanthauzo lenileni. M'malo mwanga, Amayi adanditsegulanso chifukwa cha mawu osangalatsa ndi mawu aliwonse achimwemwe komanso malingaliro atsopano pochita chidwi, omwe ndikufuna kukumbatira dziko lonse lapansi ndi chikondi. Ndinasinthanso malingaliro kwa ena. Ndinkachita kutetezedwa kudziko lapansi. Tsopano - kondani munthu aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za zaka, chifukwa ine ndimawona mkati mwawo mwana. Pakakhala agogo aamuna osagwira ntchito, ndikudziwa kuti amayi ake ali kumwamba amuone, ndipo amadzikondweretsa, monga m'masiku amenewo, pamene adamsuntha mawere ake ... Zowonadi, zonsezi "" Kuwuluka "kuti mumve zolankhula zanga. Maidiyo adandipatsa malingaliro odabwitsa chifukwa cha malingaliro atsopano akatswiri. Koma! Masha - oyamba. Malingaliro onsewa ndi malingaliro abwino omwe ndimakhazikitsa pokhapokha masha amatha kuuluka padziko lonse lapansi. Tsopano ndili ndi mwana wanga wamkazi ndikungopita ku makonsati omwe muyenera kupeza ndalama, zomwe ndidakonza zoposa masiku 7-10, miyezi iwiri. Pafupi ndi Masha panthawiyi, agogo athu okondedwa, amayi a Anton, amakhalabe. Amakonda Masa wowuma, pambali pake, iye ndi mphunzitsi wabwino kwambiri komanso ndi mdzukulu wawo ubale wodabwitsa.
"Victoria, Palibe chinsinsi chakuti kubadwa kwa mwana ndi" Lacmus pepala "kwa akazi. Kodi kubadwa kwa mwana wamkazi kunathandiza bwanji banja lanu?
Kubadwa kwa Masha kutikakamiza ife kukondana wina ndi mnzake, kodi anali wotani. Mwa mwana wathu wamkazi, mikhalidwe yathu yonse inali yodabwitsa. Pamene Anton adakwiya ndikukweza nsidze zake, sindimatha kuyang'ana kuti kulibe chidwi: "Brovaval atsike .." Pamene Masha akukwezanso mabodza - sichimandiyambitsa. Koma chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndikuti ndi kubadwa kwa Masha, kenako n'kukhala banja losangalala. Mu ubalewo panali chikondi chotere, zokhudza kupezeka komwe tisanabadwe mwana wamkazi ndipo sanakayikiridwe.
- Victoria, inu ndi Anton - Okhulupirira. Kodi mumatsatira mpingo?
- lingaliro lodziwika bwino komanso lolakwika ndikuti positi ya mpingo imalumikizidwa kokha ndi zakudya. Ngati mukuwonera TV m'mawa kwa m'mawa, mumalumbira ndi anansi anu, simungathe kukhululukira munthu, zilibe kanthu kuti mumadya chiyani. Ndimakonda momwe wansembe adayankhira kwa anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi mphamvu yotsamira: "Chinthu chachikulu chomwe chili pa positi sinadziwike."
- ndipo komaliza. Amati ali ndi zaka, awiriwo "amazolowera" kwa wina ndi mnzake. Kale zonse zaphunziridwa, kutopa, zitatero. Kodi chinsinsi cha ukwati wanu ndi chiani ndi chiyani?
- Sitili otopetsa limodzi. Popita nthawi, timasintha kwambiri ndipo, ndikhulupilira tikukula kotero kuti ndizosatheka "kuzolowera" kuzolowera tanthauzo la lingaliro ili. Palibe china chilichonse padziko lapansi pano chomwe sichinaphunziridwadi, chosatha, sichinanenedwe! Mulungu ndiye chikondi. Sitikudziwa chilichonse chokhudza Mulungu, chifukwa chake chikondi ndi chosatheka kutsutsana ndi kumvetsetsa mphamvu ya anthu kwathunthu. Ndipo munthu akakhala ndi chikhumbo chofuna kufulukula chikondi - ukalamba suchitika konse. Nthawi yomweyo kukabwera nthawi yosintha dziko lapansi ndikopambana. Kudziko lapansi kumene chikondi chimakhala kwamuyaya.