Ndiye, ndi zomwe maloto adauza:
"Ndinapita kukagona, nditaganizira zomwe zimabweretsa ndalama zambiri tsopano, sindili ndi chidwi, ndipo chosangalatsa - sindidziwa kudyetsa ndekha ndi banja langa.
Gona Lokha: Ine ndi gulu la achinyamata amayenda m'dera losiyidwa. Kuzungulira chilichonse kumakhala kovuta kwambiri komanso kovuta, monga m'mafilimu owopsa. Kumverera konse kowopsa. Mmodzi mwa mnzake amawonetsa chingwe choyera chopachikika kuchokera ku mawaya kumanja. Amachita mantha, chifukwa iye amawona pamenepo wopachika. Ndimayang'ana ndikumukhazikanso, ndikunena kuti ndi chingwe choyera mu mphepo.
Mozungulira nyumba zokhazikika zokhala ndi njerwa zofiirira ziwiri zokhala ndi mawindo opanda kanthu.
Timayandikira nyumba yosiyidwa ndi anthu awiri. M'maloto, ndikusainira nyumba iyi. Monga kwa nthawi yayitali, ndili mwana, ndinakwera kwambiri ndipo ndinayamba ntchito mnyumbayi pomwe adasiyidwa kale. Ndipo ine ndikukumbukira kuti ndiye ndinali wowopsa mwa iye. Monga kuti pali mphamvu ina yoipa mmenemo.
Tsopano pali anthu achilendo mnyumbamo amene amagulitsa "zauzimu" m'chipinda chilichonse "mabuku" auzimu, zisudzulo zina "zaufiti zina". Ikuyatsa kuwalako, timapita, ndikuyang'ana zomwe zikuyimiridwa pamashelefu. Ndikuwona kuti china chake chalakwika apa. Kuti pali zonama, ndipo anthu awa amagulitsa zomwe akuimira, ndipo ambiri siali omwe aperekedwa. Ndinkayamba kulankhula nawo, ndikufuula kuti: "Panopa!" Nthawi yomweyo, ndimaona kuti nyumbayo ikhala mantha, koma ndili wokonzeka kukumana naye.
Nyumbayo ili ndi masitepe pansi wachiwiri, koma palibe amene amapita kumeneko. Ndikudziwa kuti pamtunda wachiwiri wabisika, ndipo izi zikulongosola chilichonse chomwe chimachitika pano, ndi mantha onse omwe amalowa m'nyumba.
Pa zenera ndikuwona mkazi wazaka 45, kukula kochepa, ndi tsitsi loyera. Mkazi wamba. Amandiyang'ana pamsewu kudzera pazenera nthawi zonse ndikapita kunyumba. Sali kochititsa chidwi, koma ndikudziwa kuti ndikofunika kwambiri pano. Ndimakumana naye ndikumuuza kanthu. Sindikumuopa Iye. Nthawi ina ndinatembenuzira mutu ndikuwona izi mosiyana ndi izi, kale m'chipindacho. Zikuyandikira. Ndimadzuka modabwitsa, ndikumva kuti sindinamalize bizinesi yanga mnyumbamo. Kutalikirana ndipo musafune kutuluka. Ndimamva zopanda pake m'thupi lonse pansi pa lamba. Kwa ine, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pankhani yolotacho ndikumamva kuti, ngakhale ndili ndi mantha, ndipo ndakonzeka kukumana ndi zomwe zimabweretsa. "
Zokongola, zodzaza ndi tsatanetsatane ndi zithunzi za maloto.
Zomwe ndizowopsa kwa achinyamata ena m'maloto, lotoli nthawi zambiri limakhala wamba. Malo omwe aliyense ali, waphunzira kale. Zowona kuti kwa enawo zimachita mantha, siowopsa kwambiri, ndipo ali wokonzeka kukumana ndi munthu amene ali ndi mantha awa.
Pamapeto pake, mayi amene ali kunyumba ponsepo, amuyang'anira ndikumutembenukira kwa iye. Mu Junian Psychology ndi a GarmictyPis, chithunzi cha nzeru zapamwambamwamba ndi fanizo la mfiti. Yemwe amadziwa. Mkazi uyu adadutsa magawo onse a nzeru zake, ndipo tsopano ali wotseguka ku chidziwitso chapamwamba. Mwina gawo ili limawonetsa maloto athu kuti anali wocha mpaka kuti akwaniritse nzeru zake. Imirirani, ngakhale pamene mantha ndi chowopsa.
Mwinalo m'maloto akuwonetsa kuti ali wokonzeka kuyankha funso loti azifunsidwa pamoyo. Monga momwe iyemwini akuimira momveka bwino, momwe ntchito yake, ndipo sadzazimitsa njira, mantha kapena ololera pazikhulupiriro za ena.
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Maria zemykova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kwa maphunziri a Center Working Center Marina