Zingakhale bwino kutembenukira kwa dokotala, ndipo pakakhala kuyankhula ndi bwenzi

Tiyeni tiyesetse kudziwa kuti chifukwa chiyani mukakhala zovuta pamoyo wawo ndikwabwino kutembenukira kwa katswiri wazamisala, m'malo mokhala ndi anzanu nthawi zonse pamavuto awo.

Kodi wamisala wotani akuchita chiyani?

Choyamba, wamisala yemwe amapeza pempho lalikulu lomwe kasitomala adabwera. Nthawi zambiri, munthu yekha sangakhale ndi vuto lililonse mwachindunji. Koma izi ndizofunikira chifukwa kudziwa vutoli ndi theka la yankho lake. Monga bwenzi, katswiri wazamisala amamveranso munthu, koma nthawi yomweyo amaika zokongoletsera, mizu ya vutoli limachotsedwa, ndikosaka zobisika zomwe kasitomala akuwonetsa osagwirizana. Ngakhale panali kusiyana, katswiri wazamisala amene sapereka upangiri, mosiyana ndi abwenzi. Ntchito ya katswiri ndikutsegula munthu kwa munthu kuvutoli, perekani zomwe zingamuthandize kupeza mayankho. Dosciologist amayang'ana kwambiri zomwe zimachitika pazifukwa zilizonse munthu samazindikira kapena safuna kuzindikira.

Udindo wa katswiri wazamisala umaphatikizapo:

- Kuzindikira, komwe kumakulitsa kuchuluka kwa chitukuko cha mikhalidwe ina ndi mitundu ya anthu;

- Thandizani pamavuto osokoneza bongo;

- Kukambirana pabanja, akatswiri, mavuto anu;

- Zochitika.

- njira zamaganizidwe kuti asinthe mikhalidwe;

- Thandizo pazosankha za akatswiri.

Ndikalumikizana liti?

Pambuyo pokambirana ndi mnzanu kapena wachibale, anthu ambiri akuwoneka kuti amathetsedwa. Zimachitika chifukwa kupsinjika kwamkati kumachepetsedwa. Kupepuka kumangokhala kwakanthawi, chifukwa vutoli sililandira yankho lake. Lingalirani ngati simuyenera kuchedwetsa kampeniyo kwa katswiri.

Chiwawa:

- Onetsetsani kuti mwalumikizana ndi katswiri wazamisala ngati munthu wina atakumana ndi chiwawa. Munthu amatha kukhala wokhumudwa kapena wotanganidwa kwambiri. Mulimonsemo, mwayi woti munthuyo azilowa mu mkhalidwe wake, motero zingakhale zovuta kuzichotsa.

Mavuto a Ana ndi Makolo:

- Maubwenzi a "Abambo ndi Ana" nthawi zambiri amakhala ovuta. Makolo amadziona kuti ndi anthu anzeru komanso anzeru, koma sangapeze njira yoyenera kwa mwana wanu, sankhani njira zomwe zidaleredwa ndikukhazikitsa mgwirizano.