Ndidzasungira nthawi yomweyo - zolakwika zomwe zili m'munsiwa ndizothandiza kwambiri: amuna ena amachititsa, ndipo ena, m'malo mwake, motsutsana, amathanso kukopa. Chifukwa chake, musanatsogozedwe ndi nkhani yankhaniyi, funsani mnzanu - ndizotheka kusintha chilichonse muubwenzi ndi inu konse.
Palibe cholowa mu maubale. Kugonana kwamphamvu pamenepo komanso kolimba kutenga gawo loyamba, kupanga zisankho zofunika ndipo, ngati kuli kofunikira, kuti muchotse nyama zamadzulo. Komabe, ngati nthawi zina mudzayamba "kudzisamalira nokha" (mwachitsanzo, kuwonetsa gawolo pakama), sizingafanane ndi izi.
Zimagwira bwanji? Kuti tikwaniritse ubale wabwino kwambiri, abwenzi amafunika kuyang'aniridwa bwino matupi a aliyense. Izi sizigwira kwa munthu pokhapokha - muyenera kudziwa momwe "ntchito"; Chifukwa chake, mudzawonetsa chidwi chanu mwa wokondedwa wanu ndikuwonetsa ulemu wanu.
Bedi si tebulo lokambirana. Mu kugonana, munthu ndikofunika kwambiri ku njirayi, komwe amapatsidwa kumutu wake. Kumuuza nthawi ino za "zowawa" zonse pa sabata - lingaliro loipa, koma mwina amakumverani pambuyo paubwenzi.
"Zolemba za akazi". Funso lotsutsana - Amuna ena achimuna komanso abwana amakopeka kwambiri. Koma nthumwi zina za kugonana mwamphamvu sizingayamikire kusazindikira kwanu kosadziwa pazomwe zimawakhudza. Chifukwa chake, yesani kungokhala "pamutu", ngakhale mutakhala kutali ndi mpira, magalimoto kapena njira zophikira nyama pa grill.
ZOCHITA PAKUTI. Ndikhulupirireni, ntchito yanu pakagona munthu aliyense angayamikire mwaulemu. Koma kusowa kwathunthu kwa ntchito ya mnzakeyo kungakhumudwitsidwe - adzaganiza kuti sakukusangalatsani. Kapena kuganiza kuti mudagona.
Kudziyesa nokha. Kodi mudagonanana ndi kugonana komanso bwino? Inde, zikutanthauza kuti ndinu mwayi. Pokhapokha polankhula za izi kwa munthu yemweyo sayenera kukhala, ngati, inde, simukufuna kuti musiye nthawi yomweyo. Bola muthandizireni kuti afufuze - kenako adzadziwonetsa yekha kuchokera kumbali yabwino.
Kuyesa. Mwamuna aliyense ndi wofufuza, ndipo kulikonse, kuphatikiza bedi. Ndipo ngati mukukana kuyesa china chake chatsopano, ndiye kuti bwenzi lanu lingavulaze. Komabe, kuyesa kulikonse kumakhala bwino mu kapangidwe kanu koyenera - kukagula nawo ndodo, inde, sayenera.
Kugonana si njira yopukutira. Gwiritsani ntchito kuyandikira ngati mtundu wa "wopanikizika" sikofunikira - mnzanu posachedwapa wazindikira kuyendetsa kumeneku, ndipo malingaliro ake kwa inu angakuipitseni.
Osangoyang'ana pa zophophonya. Dzichitireni bwino ndipo musataye mtima kwa munthu wanu pa zovuta zanu zazing'ono - makamaka pabedi. Ndipo kenako mwina sazindikira.
Osatsekedwa pamaonekedwe anu. Mosiyana ndi mfundo zakale zomwe zalembedwa sizikugwirizana kwambiri ndi maonekedwe anu; Mwamunayo sangamvetse chifukwa chake narcissism iyi ndikofunikira, ndipo adzatopa msanga.