Khalani ndi tsiku labwino! Tiyeni tiyambe ndi mfundo yoti malotowa adatumiza munthu. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zofuna kudziwa. Ndipo chachiwiri, adalera mutu wosavuta kuti asinthe - nthawi zonse amakhala otentha!
Ndipita patsogolo ndikunena kuti wolemba sanatanthauze monolologie wake wamkati pamtengo wake. Chopaka cholakwa chake cha iye ndi chiyani. Mwachidule, ndikudziwa kuti ali pa zaka zochepa pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana yemwe watchulidwa m'totowu. Chifukwa chake:
"Ndikulota maloto kuti ndili pa tchuthi kunyumba ndi bwenzi langa, munyumba yayikulu ngati zipinda. Ndikunyamula nyumbayi komanso zipinda ndi mayi wina wa mayi, nthawi inayake ndikuchezera lingaliro kuti ndisinthe bwenzi langa. Ndipo pakadali pano pali mtundu wina wa phala, sizimatulukadi, koma mawonekedwe adakhalabe, monga akunenera. Ndipo kotero, kwenikweni, ndidzakumana ndi bwenzi pazinthu zonsezi ndikumverera kwakukulu ndikuganiza: kumuuza kapena ayi. Posachedwa, mutuwo wokhala ndi chiwembu onse maloto a sabata pafupifupi, koma masiku ano china chilichonse chimakumbukiridwa. "
Momwe malotowo sanafunse funso lake, tiyeni tiyese kunena mafunso ake kwa ine ndikumangirira ndi kugona. Zimachokera bwanji kuti ndikulota? Ndiyenera kuyankhula chonchi? Kodi ubale wathu umalimba motani, ndipo adzapirira chiyesochi?
Kodi ndikuyang'ana chiyani muubwenzi wathu? Chifukwa chiyani mukumva kumverera kwa zolakwa kuti musakane ndi kukhutira ndi kuchepa kumeneku patsogolo pa mnzanga?
Popeza mutu wa kusintha unakwezedwa nthawi zambiri ndi maloto mu mzerewu, nthawi ino ndikufuna kuwonjezera chatsopano, osabwerezanso.
Mwina, makamaka pamaziko a izi kuti mukwaniritse zosowa zina kunja kwa ubale ndi wokondedwa wawo (Shura-mura m'maloto ndi mayi wolota. Tikuganiza kuti njira yofananira imadutsa munthu pamene ndimadya chakudya mwachangu, podziwa kuti amayembekeza chakudya chopatsa thanzi, chomwe ndi chakudya chenicheni. Ndipo kumverera kwa cholakwa ndi chizindikiro chakuti kufunikira kwa iye kwazindikirika, adakwaniritsa molakwika molakwika. Mwachitsanzo, bambo ankakhulupirira kuti anali ndi njala, koma kwenikweni amamva "lumbi" la mapulani ena. Anakwiya, osangalala kapena kukhumudwa. Anafunikira kulipirira malingaliro amenewa ndi omwe sanadziwe kupirira, ndipo chakudya chofulumira chinali kuyesa, koma sanachite bwino, mosangalala. Kodi mukudziwa izi?
Ndidzanena mosamala kuganiza kuti maloto a malotowo akufanizira zomwezo, koma m'malo mwa chakudya, kugonana kumagwira ntchito ngati mkhalapakati. Kugonana - monga njira yopindulitsa kwa winawake, kuti akwaniritse, odekha, kulipirira zowawa ndi alamu. Mwanjira ina, ndikosavuta kusunga chinsinsi kwa wokondedwa wanga ngati ine ndinamusintha. Nthawi zonse pamakhala china choti chichitike. Ndipo tanthauzo lodziwikiratu kutsogolo kwa mphuno ndi maola 24 patsiku: osagwidwa osachita vuto lina.
Ndikupangira maloto athu kuti adziwe kuti ndi ndani amene akuitana ali atamvadi? Chomwe chimamukhulupirira kuti Iye sakhulupirira kuti kugona ndi kuvutika?
Mwina sizabodza za cholaula, koma kuti maubale ndi gawo limodzi lokha la kukwaniritsa. China chake chitha kukhazikitsidwa mu mgwirizano wina, osankha mwamphamvu kugonana. Mwina pali mitu idalipo, zovuta m'moyo, zomwe maloto sanayerekeze, ndipo tsopano malotowo "afotokozereni" njira zomwe simungathe kuzikumana nazo, koma kuti muwopeni kuwululidwa.
Mwa njira, lingaliro la liwongo limawerengedwa kuti lili ndi malingaliro ambiri, kuphatikizapo, kusinthika, munthu akazindikira kuti sakukhala pamayiko ena, mwachitsanzo, m'malo modzikongoletsa Kuzindikira, kuchitika pakufunafuna zovomerezeka ndi okondedwa.
Ndikudabwa zomwe mumalota? Zitsanzo za maloto anu kutumiza ndi makalata: [email protected]. Njirayi ndizosavuta kufotokoza ngati mu kalata yopita kwa mkonzi, komabe kuchokera ku loto ili.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin