Mwakuchita zanga, ndimakumana ndi chiyembekezo chamtendere komanso kulephera. Kuphatikiza apo, kufunikira kwa mavutowa sikukuwonongeka. Munthu ameneyo amabwera nati: "Phatikizani" chidaliro, "kwezani" kudzidalira. "Apa, ziphunzitso zokhala ndi masitampu omwe amakulimbikitsani "E, mavuto onse amathetsedwa. Mizu ya mavuto omwe amadzidalira ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndikugwira ntchito ndi mwadongosolo.
Psychological okhwima
Kudziona molakwika kumabuka kuchokera ku njira yolakwika. Ndipo dongosolo lolakwika limachokera ku kusamvana kwa m'badwo weniweni komanso m'maganizo. Iwalani za manambala omwe ali pasipoti, ngakhale atakalamba, anthu amakwanitsa kukhala mulingo wa chitukuko cha sukulu. M'badwo wodzipereka ndi wofunikira - zotsatira zake si njira zolambira, koma gawo la machitidwe ena omwe akukula. Munthu akabadwa, ayenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi matupi ake, kenako amaphunzira kuwongolera malingaliro, wachinyamata akuphunzira komanso kuphunzira kukhala m'gulu la anthu, magawo oyamba amalima, Koma kenako zolephera zikuchitika. Zotsatira zake, munthu amakhala wachikulire, koma sanakonzekere moyo wachikulire, motero palibe chomwe chimachitika.
Mu malo osungirako Soviet, anthu ambiri amakhala ndi gawo la wachinyamata, ndipo ichi ndi tsoka. Wachinyamata ndi chiyani? Munthu amadalira lingaliro la munthu wina, wokonzeka kutuluka pakhungu chifukwa cha kuvomerezedwa ndi munthu wina. Pakadali pano kucha, malamulo amakhalidwe (malingana ndi Kant) sanapangidwebe, zimasinthanitsa ndi udindo wa kunja komanso kusowa kwa malingaliro ake pankhani zambiri. Pano muli ndi zovuta kudzidalira, komanso kusatsimikizika Kwamuyaya.
Njira yokhayo yakule. Ndi zochuluka motani zomwe sizimawerenga mantra kutsogolo kwagalasi, chidaliro chenicheni chimayamba ndi wamkulu wa munthu wamkulu. Akuluakulu - izi ndi zomwe ndimaphunzitsa omwe atembenukira kwa ine.
1. Musalole chifuniro cha mtima.
2. Tulutsani zotsatira za zochita.
3. Tsimikizani ku zomwe zilipo komanso zamtsogolo, osati za zakale.
4. Onani malire pakati pa maudindo ndi zokonda zanu.
5. Lirani kumvetsetsa kwanu "zoyipa" komanso "zabwino", kunyalanyaza kutsutsidwa kwa anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro ena okhudza zabwino ndi zoyipa.
Osadzilimbitsa nokha
M'mavuto ena, ubongo wathu ndi mdani weniweni kwambiri. Bungweli "Musafalikire" Ndidapereka m'zochita zanga, mwina, miliyoni. Tikadzipatsa tokha, nthawi zonse timakhala olimbikitsa komanso osagwirizana ndi zomwe zachitika kale zomwe sizingasinthidwe. Timapotoza masamba amiseche awa ndikumalanga tokha kuti sikungathe kusintha. Inde, musadzitamaliro mwa ine ndekha, osadzidalira komanso mawu omwe angakhale. Inu zaka makumi awiri zapitazo, ndinadya babushkino kupanikizana ndi kutayidwa mu mphaka! Ah ayi ayi! Zachidziwikire, munthu woyipayu sioyenera kulipira malipiro, palibe chomwe chimapangitsa kuti agwirizane ndi abwana.
Chidaliro chidzafika mukakumbukira kuti zakale siziri. Zapita kale. Pali zenizeni zokha, zomwe zimakupangitsani chisamaliro chochuluka ndi kukhazikika. Chifukwa chake:
1. Kudzilankhulira.
2. Ndimakumbukira zolakwa zakale zokha ndi cholinga chopenda komanso kubwereza.
Phunzirani Kunena "Ayi"
"Ayi" - mawu amatsenga kwambiri a lexicon athu. Makalata atatuwa adzakutetezani ku mapipolators zomwe zimadzudzula nthawi zonse zopempha zanu kuti zithetse mavuto awo onse. Chifukwa chiyani kuli kofunikira? Chifukwa mukamachita bizinesi ya maniputor anu, bizinesi yanu ndi yopanda pake. Chifukwa chake kusakhutira ndi zokha. Kanani zowopsa, chifukwa mudzaganiza zoyipa ndiye - ndipo munthu yemwe ali m'gawo lauzimu ndiofunika kwambiri lingaliro la ena! Tsopano mukumvetsa chifukwa chake tinayamba ndi zokambirana za zaka zamavuto?
Ngati zilembo zitatuzi zimaperekedwa kwa inu movutikira, pangani izi:
1. Mvetsetsani kuti kukana koyenera sikukupangitsani kukhala munthu woipa.
2. Zindikirani: Kulephera sikutanthauza kuti mumamuchitira munthu zoipa. Amene amanena moseweretsayo - wotsutsayo.
3. Poyamba, ikani chizolowezi - 10 "ayi" patsiku. Mutha kukana kakhumi kakhumi chilichonse - zabwino kwambiri! Ngati zolimba, kasanu kasanu.
4. Ngati simungathe kupeza mphamvu kukana, dzifunseni nthawi yomaliza yomwe mudapempha thandizo kuchokera kwa munthuyu ndikulandila thandizo ili. Kukumbukira - Thandizo. Ndipo milandu isanu ndi inayi kuchokera mwa khumi wokhala ndi chikumbumtima choyera, awuzeni "Ayi".
Kwa atatuwa, wachinayi, Balal: Chokhumba. Ngati muli mu gawo lachitukuko cha "wachinyamata", kuti muwonjezere kukula kwake, muyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri komanso kuwunika nthawi zonse. Muyenera kukhala baron Munhausen, yemwe adatulutsa mthothofu wa pigtail. M'moyo weniweni, chinyengo chotere sichingalole kutembenukira kwa sayansi, koma mu psychology, cholinga chachikulu chimagwira ntchito zodabwitsa. Gwiritsani ntchito nokha, musataye mtima, komanso limodzi ndi kukhwima ndi kudzidalira.