Wina wawululidwa ndi wina, wina wonyamula "chinsinsi" chokhudza chikondi choposa chiyanjano. Mwina, ochepa ndi anthu omwe akhumudwitsa izi. Masiku ano tinakwanitsa kupeza loto, lomwe limafotokoza gawo lofananalo mu maukwati aukwati, zimangofunika kuwulula zakumbuyo kwake. Maloto a maloto a moyo wa malotowa adzayendera mzinda wina, podziwa kuti pali msonkhano ndi munthu amene amakonda munthu amene amakonda.
"Ine ndi mwamunayo tili mnyumba. Tikuyimirira m'mphepete mwa nyanjayi, mwamuna wanga amandiuza kuti ndili ndi vuto komanso kutaya mtima: "Ndinagwetsa mtsikana wokongola ku Samara." Ndikugogomezera kuti ndati "wokongola." Ndidafunsa chifukwa chake sindinanene kale. Anayankha kuti: "Ndinaganiza, nditha." Ndinangoyamba kulira kuchokera ku mawu awa. Osalira, Sob. Zithunzizo zitaoneka, chithunzi chinawonekera, ngati lingaliro lalikulu, monga mwamuna m'galimoto lomwe linali mgalimoto lomwe limayikidwa magalimoto likuchitika, koma palibe mtsikana. Pambuyo pa chithunzichi, ndimacheza ndikumuuza kuti: "Kuchuluka kotero kuti mumamuwopseza, ndi mawu." Amayankha kalikonse. Chithunzichi chikusintha, ndipo ndikuwona momwe Mbale Ankalankhulira ku ofesi ya apolisi ndipo akufuna kuthetsa mavuto onse. Wapolisi akuwonetsa ma protocol ndi amapatsa m'bale wake. Vutoli limathetsedwa. "
Kuti timvetsetse malotowo, timagawa pazinthu zitatu. Chochitika choyamba - Kuzindikira msungwana wokongola yemwe amayambitsa zofewa, kugwedezeka kwambiri, osati misozi. Mwinanso, izi ndizodabwitsa kwambiri ndikukumana ndi malotowo pomwe, kukhala momwe malingaliro ake oti "okongola" amapangidwira mabatani okwatirana.
Gawo lachiwiri la "Ichi ndi chithunzi chomwe malotowa amawona kuti moona mwamunayo sanagunde aliyense" kuti adasandulika poipika. Mwina ndi chithunzi choti pamene chiwonetsero chonse chikuchitika m'malo mwa moyo wa wina, osati anthu enieni.
Gawo lachitatu - Izi ndi zonyoza apolisi. Apolisi m'maloto - fano la chikumbumtima, miyambo, chikhalidwe, malamulo omwe ayenera kuchitapo kanthu kuti agwirizane, koma popeza palibe mlanduwo, sayenera kulangidwa.
Chikondi, kukonda wina - izi ndi mphamvu yakudzuka
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Mwanjira ina, maloto athu akukumana ndi malingaliro awo ngati china chake pakufunika kuwongolera, kulangidwa ndi kukhazikika. Amawona kalilo ka sewero, posonyeza mwamuna wake. Ngakhale kuti malingaliro athu sakuwongolera kuchitapo kanthu, ndipo kwenikweni m'moyo sadzawamvera ndipo satsatira zinthu zawo, chifukwa malingaliro awo ndi enieni. Choyamba, amawonetsa chithunzi chachilendo pomwe ntchito yachitatu ya munthu wina ngati gawo lalikulu la malingaliro ndi zokumana nazo kuposa mwamunayo.
Ndi masamba a gululi, tinasinthanso vuto la makona a chikondi, lolani kuti kona yachitatu ikhalepo mwano, kokha maloto okha. Ndipo kwalembedwa za mafilo azomwe zimadziwika kuchokera ku lingaliro lina. Zomwe zingakhale zofunika kunena pagawo ili la maloto athu, ndiye chikondi chimenecho, chilakolako cha munthu ndi mphamvu yakudzuka. Sizofunikira kuzigwiritsa ntchito mwachindunji ndikugwirizana ndi munthu yemwe akukwatirana. Izi sizitanthauza kutha kwa ubale ndi mwamuna wake, ngakhale kuwopseza ena. Ndikupangira chidwi cha "zokongola" kwa munthu wina ngati mphamvu, pambuyo pake ndizosatheka kugona, kuwotcha kuti zonse zimapita kwa iye! Mphamvuzi zimaperekedwa kwa nkhaniyo, pa mtundu wina wa mzimu, ndipo ndikofunikira kudziwa ntchitoyi, kuti mudziwe ndikupita kuti aphedwe. Sikuti ndi anthu ogwirizana ndi anthu, koma amasangalala ndi moyo komanso kukhudzedwa polenga moyo watsopano, komwe kuli koyenera kuyenda.
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Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin