Tonsefe timakonda kumva chisangalalo ngati malo achibadwa, ngakhale kukhutitsidwa kwa chibadwa kumangosangalatsa chisangalalo, mthunzi wachisangalalo, komanso kupusitsidwa ndi kusangalatsa komanso kusapeza chisangalalo .
Kunena zachihindu zazikulu kumachenjeza - munthu akuyang'ana chisangalalo, koma amapeza zowawa. Chisangalalo, ngati mthunzi wachisangalalo, amapanga chinyengo chake, koma sichili choncho.
Alla Semenovna Spivakovskaya, Pulofesa MSU
Press Service zida
Kuti mukhale osangalala, simuyenera kuyembekezera chisangalalo.
Mwamuna akumva kusasangalala ngati akulonjeza kuti: "Ndindidikirira mpaka liti? Kodi cholinga chiri bwanji? Chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kudikirira kwa nthawi yayitali? Kodi nchifukwa ninji ena amasangalala kale? "
Chifukwa chake, mazunzo opanda zipatso, timapanga vuto lililonse komanso kukhala osasangalala kwambiri. Lamulo ndikuti osasangalala kwambiri tikuyembekezera, chiyembekezo ichi chidzachitika - chifukwa chopewera, chigonjetso, chisangalalo sichingachitike mumtima wosasangalala.
Nthawi zonse chisangalalo si nthawi zonse kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo cha chidwi. Opani zokhumba zanu, chifukwa si njira yomwe ingakutsogolereni.
Tikaganizira za mwayi wokhala wachimwemwe, zikuwoneka kwa ife kuti cholepheretsa chisangalalo ndi chikhumbo chosakwaniritsidwa. Koma kodi timaphunzira chiyani? Kodi tanthauzo la tanthauzo la zomwe tikufuna? Osadzidziwa Yekha, munthu sangafune kuonetsetsa kuti angamubweretsere zenizeni.
Chikhumbo cha munthu ndi gawo la malingaliro ake, gawo la dziko lake lamkati, lomwe limadziwika pang'ono kwa Iyemwini, ngakhale kuti munthu amadzikhululukiridwa kwathunthu pa zosiyanazo. Ndipo ngati munthu akwaniritsidwe, sizingachitike kuti adzigwedezeka kwathunthu panjira ndipo akanakhala kutali ndi zolakwa zake; Kukwaniritsidwa kwa kulakalaka koteroko sikungamubweretse chisangalalo. Munthu amaonetsetsa kuti "dzenje lakuda" la umbuli, lomwe limatayika mwayi wotsegulira njira yotsegulira kuwala kwamkati - kudzizindikira. Aliyense akufuna kukhala achimwemwe, koma kodi mungapeze bwanji chisomo, chisangalalo, chisangalalo, ngati simukudziwa kuti ndinu ndani, chiyani?
Genesis ndiye chitsimikiziro chachikulu cha chisangalalo.
Munthu amakhala wachimwemwe akamakhazikitsa chikumbumtima chake ndikukhudzana ndi kukhala, ndi tanthauzo lake.
Ngakhale mtundu umodzi wofanana kwambiri, kapena zopambana kapena zipembedzo, kapena zipembedzo, kapena ziwalo zandale, kapena luso lazandale, kapena kuphunzitsa, kapena kusamalira bwino, kapena kusamalira banja, Palibe chikondi popanga munthu wachimwemwe.
Chimwemwe ndi kuyesetsa kuti muphunzire kukhala mogwirizana ndi inu, kukula kwa luso lotha kumva kukongola kwa dziko loyandikana nalo. Chimwemwe ndikamadzimvetsetsa!
Munthu yekhayo amene akuona kukhulupirika mkati amatha kumva chisoni, kudziona kuti ndi dziko lozinga. Mwamuna yemwe akukumana ndi chidwi kuchokera ku kuzindikira komwe amakhala ndi moyo wosasangalala. Kuti mukhale osangalala, nthawi zonse amathandizira kudzikayikira komanso kudziwa zambiri, amadziwa kukongola kwa zinthu zachilengedwe, zachikhalidwe komanso zamkati.
Ndizosatheka kupeza chisangalalo popanda kuyesetsa kuti muphunzire ndikusintha munthuyo ndi moyo wake. Ku Beatherapy, chisangalalo chimamveka kukhala chosangalatsa kwambiri, zokhudzana mwachindunji ndi zomwe zinachitika pakudzikhumba komanso kudziletsa, chisangalalo cha ulemu kwaumunthu, chikondwerero cha kukhalamo iwowo.