Mwina mwazindikira kuti anthu opambana amakhala otsimikiza. Popanda mkhalidwewu, ndizosatheka kupita nawo kudzera pamakwerero, kukopa chidwi cha amuna a maloto anu ndikukhala motere. Kuphatikiza apo, nthawi zambiri, timagonjera ku Interloctor sigines ya kusakhazikika kwawo, osadandaula. Tinayesetsa kudziwa kuti zimatipatsa chiyani, komanso momwe tingachitire ndi kusatsimikiza tokha.
Mumayamikiridwa omwe sangawagwire nokha
"Ndiwe wokongola kwambiri mu jekete ili! Sindikadapezanso chinthu chotere m'sitolo, chifukwa sindilama, "mumakuuzani mnzanu, mukuganiza, ngakhale mukudziyankhulirana. Munthu wolimba mtima adzayambitsa chothokozetsa chotere. Mtundu wina wa zochitika: munthu azichoka ndi kusatsimikizika kwanu, motero amalimbitsa kunyada kwake. Chifukwa chake siyani "kudzipha" ndikudzikuza, izi zimakondwera kuchita izi.
Osatenga "wolakwa" poyankhulana
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Mumayankha popanda kudikirira kumapeto kwa funso
Wina yemwe akuithandiza sanamalize kuganiza, ndipo mwakonzeka kuyankha, osaganizira za iye. Monga lamulo, anthu ochimwa awa omwe sakudziwa kukana. Munthuyo amapewa kupuma pang'ono, poopa kuti omwe akuinzapompo amaganiza za iye cholakwika. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti njira ngati imeneyi imabweretsa zovuta komanso zimadandaula ndi umunthu wosatetezeka. Nthawi zonse dzipatseni nthawi yoganiza, simukakamizidwa kwathunthu kuyankha nthawi yomweyo.
Kukhala chete pakulankhula kumayambitsa kusasangalala
Ndikosavuta kuti munthu wopanda fumbilunjika: amayamba kuyika ndemanga zosayenera, kudutsa kapena kupanga ziganizo za banja, kungodula kaye.
Akatswiri amisala amalangiza kuti zinthu ngati izi zizikhala m'manja mwanu ndi pang'ono. Kumbukirani kuti mukulankhula ndi munthu wina yemwe alinso wolimbikitsa kwambiri pazokambirana, ndiye bwanji mumatenga "zolakwa" zonse? Phunzirani kugawana udindo wolumikizana ndi intloctor ndi kusiya kuyang'ana chifukwa.
Ndi munthu wolimba mtima nthawi zonse amafuna kuthana
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Simukumwetulira
Maonekedwe a nkhope ankhondo nthawi yomweyo amapatsa mavuto anu. Zachidziwikire, muyenera kumvetsetsa pamene kumwetulira kwakhala koyenera, anthu omwe ali ndi kudzidalira nthawi zambiri amakhala ambiri omwe amayang'ana komanso amasulidwa, makamaka akakhala pamavuto. Yesani kudikirira kumwetulira pang'ono komwe kumatanthauza kuti simumakhala kosavuta kuchotsa malire.
"Kuthamanga"
Chosowa chokha, monga lamulo, sichingadzikakamize kuyang'ana m'maso mwa oyikirera: mawonekedwe ake amayang'aniridwa, kapena "amathamangira" pa nkhanizo. Kusowa kwa zokumana nazo sikuyenera kulankhulana, osati m'magulu onse a mabizinesi onse alangizi nawo woyamba kuphunzitsa mawonekedwe omwe amalimbikitsidwa omwe amawauziridwa ndi omwe mungakumane nawo.