Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti mwana wavala, malipiro ndi kudyetsedwa. Zili ngati "kuchulukitsa tebulo" loyendetsedwa m'mitu yathu mibadwo ya amayi ndi agogo. Ndipo ngati ana amaliseche sapita kudziko lathu, ndiye kuti zakudya zawo zikuvutitsa abale awo, komanso ngakhale oyandikana nawo.
"Ndi mwana wamwamuna wokwiya bwanji, mutha kuwona zoipa, mavitamini alibe zokwanira", "miseche yabwalo ikupereka.
"Inde, adya bwino, bambo bambo okha omwe tili nawo, ndipo ndimalemera pang'ono kuposa makumi asanu ...", "Ndidayamba kupereka zifukwa. Koma agogo ankayang'ana lalikulu, kukayikira, akuti, Amphaka ananenepa, ndipo mwanayo ndi wotchuka.
Mwinanso mfundo yofunika kwambiri ngati imeneyi m'badwo wakaleyo imagwirizanitsidwa ndi kuperewera kwa zinthu zomwe zimakhala m'dziko lathu m'zaka za zana la makumi awiri. Tiyeni tisakhale m'masiku a m'mbiri, koma ndinayenera kufa ndi njala. Chifukwa chake, mwana wachitsanzo chabwino wa 70s - 80s akhale bustaus, wokhala ndi zida "pa chubby unja ndi miyendo.
"Sindikufuna - ndipangeni". Msungwana wanga wapamtima akulimbana ndi moyo wake wonse ndi wonenepa kwambiri, pomwe makolo ake ali ocheperako. Zidapezeka kuti agogo a Namwino, namwino yemwe ali mu Kirdergarten, mdzukulu wa kugwada wapadera, kuti azidya bwino ndipo adasokonekera. Ndipo zowonadi, m'masaya a ana a Oksana akuwoneka chifukwa cha makutu awo chifukwa cha chisangalalo cha amayi ndi agogo. Zokhudza kuphwanya kwaumoyo zomwe zidakhalabe moyo, ndiye kuti palibe amene angaganize.
Izi ndi zoyipa kwambiri, mutha kunena za thupi. Ndipo ndi ziti zomwe zili pamaganizidwe? Zokopa, zoopseza ,.
"Osamadya Komabe, Simutuluka pagome"
"Sankhani: simupita ku msuzi kapena kuyenda"
"Wogwira ntchito amayang'aniridwa ndi bwanji kudya"
"Chabwino, iwe smear mu phala mu mbale, udzakhala fungo lomwelo"
"Amayi anayesera, okonzekera, ndipo simudya, osakoma mtima?"
Malingaliro angapo ndi bambo wachinyamata akafunsidwa pulogalamu yonse ya moyo. Wake, monga tsekwe wa Khrisimasi, achikulire ndi oyenera, chakudya chokhutiritsa komanso chothandiza. Kunyumba kwa asukulu, komwe kumabwera kulibe nthawi yochotsa chovalacho, ndipo dzina lake lakale ndi chakudya chamadzulo. Chifukwa chake, Amayi kapena agogo akuwonetsa chisamaliro chake, ndikukhumudwitsa kwambiri ngati mwana sachilandira.
Zotsatira zake, munthu wamng'ono amapeza chakudya osati chifukwa amamva kuti ali ndi njala komanso kufunika kwake, koma chifukwa adasankhidwa kwa akulu kwambiri. Iwo amawerengera voliyumu ndi zopatsa mphamvu, zomwe, m'malingaliro awo, zikufunika ndi mwana.
Akatswiri azamisala ndi amisala amakhulupirira kuti kwa mwana, monga banja lonse, ndikofunikira kumwa chakudya panthawi inayake. Ndipo ndikofunikira onse pamodzi. Phwando lolumikizana limaphatikiza banja. Koma ngati mwana safuna kudya nthawi ino, sikofunikira kukakamiza. Mwana akapachikidwa pakati pa chakudya, amatha kudya zipatso kenako ndikudya chakudya chathunthu. Njirayi ipanga zizolowezi zoyenera mwa anthu, zomwe zidzakhala chinsinsi chathanzi lake mtsogolo.